Signs you've met your soulmate

Signs you’ve met your soulmate

by Lindsay on October 27, 2010

in Relationships, Spirituality

Have you ever met someone and had the feeling that you’ve known them before? Not in a “your face looks familiar” kind of way, but rather felt an inexplicable familiarity when you look into that person’s eyes? Perhaps you’ve shared many lives with them or just one. You just feel it in your bones that this is someone who has been and will be important to you.

Before we’re born into this life, we make agreements – soul contracts – with other souls and agree to learn certain lessons from each other. We may establish a soul agreement with someone in order to awaken a particular facet of our soul that up to that point in time had laid dormant. We may be here in this lifetime to work through karmic issues we shared with this soul in another life (or several).
Most of us have many soul mates (they can be a friend, partner, sibling, co-worker). Not everyone we encounter has a soul contract with us, though.

So how do I know if I’ve met my soul mate?

If you have a particularly deep soul connection, there will be a “freeze-frame” memory of the first moment you met that person.  In other words, as we later reflect back upon the first time we met a particular person, we have a clear “picture” in our mind of all of the circumstances of that moment when that person first entered our lives.

Signs you’ve met a soulmate:


  • There is a powerful, instantaneous feeling that you have known the other before
  • You felt an instant and deep connection for each other
  • Words aren’t good enough to describe the electrifying feelings you share together
  • Your relationship is immediate, as if no time has passed since you last ‘knew’ each other
  • Time and space lose meaning when you look into this person’s eyes
  • You have a completely open relationship and don’t fear judgment
  • Neither one of you are dependent on the other for your sense of self
  • Your feelings for each other are spiritual
  • There are no restrictions within the relationship: there is no need for ownership or control
  • Both of you know without a doubt you were brought together for a reason
  • The relationship has a deep sense of purpose
  • You become one without losing your individual identities
  • You see yourself in the other person’s eyes

Soul mate relationships, while wonderful, are almost never pain-free. These people are brought into our lives to help us grow and as a result, they often challenge us more than others. When you find a soulmate it’s not just all jumping on clouds and smiling as you gaze into each other’s eyes for hours (though there is some of that). Lots of growth takes place when you find such a soul.

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.” ~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Have a “our eyes connected across a busy room” story to share? Share it here.

Doing intuitive relationship readings is one of my specialities – a relationship reading can provide you with insight as to they “why” you’ve met someone and can also point to past life karma you and another person share. Visit the relationship readings page for more information.

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isha November 30, -0001 at 12:00 am

So I’m 16 and I’m having this really deep connection with this guy, it was like love at first sight or something, I understand him so well and it’s like he’s perfect for me and he’s like what I used to be like. I don’t know what this is! It’s different from any other feeling I’ve experienced before… But we’ve only been talking for a week, he never talks to girl bcause he’s shy but I’ve felt this connection since August and other people are noticing how our personalites are ‘compatible as well’ Help please? 🙂

Mariël February 3, 2013 at 6:35 pm

Your 30 about now.. Just cause out of curiosity.. did it ever work out with this guy?


Harsha March 6, 2013 at 6:16 am

i too want to know…….. hope she replies 🙂

Eric Holmes October 13, 2013 at 12:48 am

Not for me but good for others

Patti October 27, 2010 at 9:17 pm

Your Dad was my soul mate…no doubt about it. We're still connected in many ways.
The Daily Awe really stirs up lots of happy memories for me. :))

Lindsay October 27, 2010 at 11:45 pm

Awww, well hearing that just made my day! I love you! <3

alonewithcats November 1, 2010 at 2:10 am

My soul mates all must have blue eyes. That makes the gazing so much more enjoyable. For one of us.

Adi November 25, 2010 at 1:05 am

"Soul mate relationships, while wonderful, are almost never pain-free."

Its been all pain till now. I don't know how to move on, but I'm telling him to stay away and I'm trying to be kind to myself and patient with myself. He doesn't feel the same way about me. I guess he's not the soul mate that I would be spending life with? just the one who helped me grow?

The amount of hurt and pain I am feeling is making me question everything and making me feel quite drained out. My only life raft in all this is to stay committed to seeing the truth and not keep trying to reason things out in favour of whatever makes me feel better. At least I am not lying to myself and treating myself with dignity and patience.

Thank you for your post. It feels right to understand that not every soul mate is meant for love. They're meant for growth. At least that part is starting to make some sense now.

Lindsay November 25, 2010 at 9:33 am

I truly believe that most soul mates don't stay in our lives forever. Sometimes it is the most painful experiences that bring us the most growth. This guy probably was/is one of your soul mates — someone with whom you had a soul contract with or maybe just some karmic issues to work through in this life time.

It's good that you're being patient and gentle with yourself. Take your time. You may find this article helpful:

Keep in touch.

my life downstream November 27, 2010 at 11:43 pm

I loved this post. Sometimes we forget that it is "done", we don't have to work hard to find someone to love. I love the Marianne Williamson quote, "Everyone you meet you were supposed to meet and everyone you are supposed to meet you will meet". Just remembering that makes life so much easier. Thanks for the reminder!. xo-K

Lindsay November 29, 2010 at 5:30 pm

I love that Marianne Williamson quote too Kelli! Keeping that it mind does make the periods of not-meeting a little easier, doesn't it? You're doing a great job with the new blog, btw.

my life downstream November 29, 2010 at 6:32 pm

Thanks Lindsey, glad I found you, I'm lovin' your new "home" as well. Great job.

Mandy March 27, 2011 at 3:56 am

I went through one of the hardest times of my life and for so long felt like I had no one there for me. Then suddenly he was there. There was no judgement, no explanation; just us. I only knew him for two days and by then, it was like I’d known him my whole life. There were no secrets, just complete honesty. He helped me through what my friends couldn’t and I urged him to pursue his dreams.

Being with him just felt so right on so many levels. It was more than just a physical relationship and even the emotional aspect of us was more that I could of ever imagined. Everything with him just felt so right. Maybe we fought and had arguments sometimes, but we were such stubborn people that a small fight here and there was imminent.

Loving him was the most natural feelings I ever experienced. One day I looked at him, and I knew; I was in love with him. But I never told him, at least not while we were together. Suddenly one day, after nearly 5 months of being in a long distance relationship, he wanted a break. Even though it hurt, I agreed, it would only be a short break.

And when I saw him a month later, I thought the break would end. We spent our first night together in 7 months, holding each other in our arms and crying, whispering to each other how much we loved each other. And two days later, I left to go home from my visit; the hardest thing in the world for me to do was to sit on that bus and watch as he faded into the distance.

A few weeks later, the break was over…for good. He met someone else; my heart shattered. They only lasted a few weeks before it ended. Part of me wants to believe it’s because he realized its because he wants to be with me. But he won’t call me anymore, won’t see me when I go to visit his town. The second hardest thing for me to do is to not break down and go running to him. I don’t want him to see me cry anymore, I don’t want him to think I need him so badly.

But I do need him, I’ve never needed someone so much in my life. Without him, there’s this pain in my chest and I feel so empty inside. And I don’t know what to do anymore.

Misha April 18, 2011 at 11:54 pm


even through your beautifully descriptive words and the deep intimacy you shared with this man I can feel, unequivocally, that your a beautiful spirit. I truly believe wonderful things are in store for your life and I’ll celebrate and pray for your continued healing amongst the sacredness of your divine journey.

Jojo March 20, 2013 at 9:32 pm

Dear Mandy,
As I was reading your story, tears were pouring down my face… I’m in a very similar situation right now, and I just know exactly what you were/are going thru and the pain and emptiness you’re experiencing….I’m just hoping that one day I’ll will know what to do, and how to live my life without him although I can’t really imagine my life without him…

Thobeka Khumalo August 6, 2013 at 9:50 pm

I am in a similiar situation too but the only difference is we never dated instead we become best friends, which is so hard because I don’t just love this guy, its not just an emotional attachment that I feel towards this guy. His like my arm or my leg, you can just image how its like to leave without an arm when u have had it all your life. It can heal, of course but that doesn’t take away a scare or the fact that its missing. That’s how it is with this guy.
What I believe about soulmates its that we are that to each other, we love each other the same way…because we understand how it would be like if we parted.
If his your soul mate….definitely he will come back to you, its only a matter of time. If he doesn’t then u will meet a guy I call a healer, he comes into ur life to restore….

Loryn May 26, 2011 at 11:11 pm


I have an obvious soul connection with someone who I know I cannot be in a relationship with in this life. In fact, it is a very bad & hurtful situation, because of how we met, thru an ex boyfriend/love that is his best friend of 25 years. He also became my employer. It is so strange because it is so clear that we have been relentlessly drawn to one another without any kind of words or “attempts”. In fact, we have both clearly tried to resist it from the start & continue to but really don’t even speak about it. We just sense it

He has pushed me away & fired me, been distant & cold, yet also unusually warm & caring when it comes to me, as his employee & best friend’s (ex) lover. We have both tried to ignore a strange attraction for a long time AGAIN without even “showing” it or speaking about it. We have a telepathic connection & we both know what each other is thinking and feeling and don’t even need to confirm it. We both push it away because it is not “correct”

However as many phases as we have ignored & distanced ourselves from this unspoken attractiveness, I always knew SOMETHING was going to become of it …. I didn’t know exactly when or how or why I knew it because it seems so “impossible” but I just did.

The more time spent and energy shared the more difficult it became to resist. I know that somehow I brought a softer, warmed more caring side out of a “seemingly heartless” man (and I would be the last person you would expect) he couldn’t help but to want to do nice things for me, help me, protect me, defend me, but again, would never verbally admit it because there is no real reason or explanation…

The more time we found ourselves drawing to each other the more the unspoken attraction took control and we actually started secretly sleeping together. Which has been absolutely unreal, as if we have done it a million times, passionate, connected, intense, etc!!

It was supposed to be and should have been a “one time” thing but neither of us can ignore it and have still not actually spoken about why or how…… its just an understanding that we can resist but know we can’t be together in that way but what we share in private is completely rare & irresistable

This person also made me realize that I am extremely empathic. Since I met him I have always had a VERY strong nonverbal/energy channel connection to his thoughts feelings moods etc whether I am around him or not, and an overwhelming desire to help comfort or acknowledge them in some way… even though its totally not my place & in reality I “could” have been wrong

His father passed away recently, and before I heard the news, I couldn’t stop thinking of/worrying about him, not knowing why. When I went to the funeral, I could feel his hurt & pain as if I was him. I practiced sending him positive energy… and he seemed lifted. At the funeral, his mother, a woman I have never met in my life, and I am sure has no idea who I am, approached me, stopped, grabbed my face, turned it from side to side, & looked at me as if she recognized me or knew me somehow. I didn’t know it was his mother at the time. Then she smiled and said “you are just so cute” and sighed a loving sigh, rubbed my hand and arm and hugged me. She kept wanting to grab my hand and just treated me with admiration. I had to wait until she walked away to ask someone to confirm who it was.

I wonder if she remembered me from a past life or if her intuition felt that we had some kind of history in a past life before. I definitely know there is some very real reason he came into my life, and it was to open my mind to my abilities & spirituality, intuitiveness and human connections because that is what it has done. However, I also know that he is not someone for me to me in a relationship with for many reasons, and he knows the same about me. But it just continues as much as we push, ignore, don’t acknowledge, somehow we draw back to one another in that way.

Its a very strange soul connection

Lindsay May 27, 2011 at 11:09 am

Wow, what an incredible story. The part you mentioned about his mom just gave me chills. I think it sounds like all of you have shared previous lives together and she recognized you on a soul level. How beautiful is that? Maybe instead of trying to push this guy away and him doing the same, you could just acknowledge the powerful connection and – although you can't/won't be romantic – just embrace a deep, loving friendship.

Cyn June 2, 2011 at 10:42 pm

my story is most definitely a “eyes met across a busy room” kind of story! when i saw him i just knew that he was special. i couldn’t stop staring, and when he would leave the room, i would look around waiting for him to come back. everything about him was familiar to me, his voice, mannerisms, the way he joked around and told stories. my very thoughts were, “where have you BEEN?! i have been waiting for you for a long long time!” we immediately connected after that night. it was as if we had always known eachother, like we had been dating for 10 years, instead of two people who were just starting to get to know eachother. being next to him was just electrifying. that’s really the only word to describe it. like two magnets or something. when we were next to eachother, talking and joking around, i would notice people staring out of the corner of my eye almost as if they could see the tangible chemistry. i have never had real chemistry with anyone so fast, it was usually just learned over time with other people. and when we kissed, everything around me stopped, like slow motion. everything went silent and i just felt at peace. we continued to see eachother for a couple more weeks and he suddenly pulled away with no reason why. it has been months since i talked to him, but i still think about him everyday. i can’t help it. i have never had such unconditional feelings toward anyone that wasn’t a family member. i actually recalled dreaming of him a few months before we actually met. i never saw his face in my dream, but his voice and mannerisms were so familiar to me that i have no other choice to believe that it was him i dreamt of. i know soul mates come into our life to show us things about ourselves that we need to work on, and i have always had insecurity issues. being in an emotionally abusive relationship for 4 years before i met this dude really did a number on me.

honestly, i just don’t think it was the right time for us. i have never felt this way, and i actually saw him recently. how i felt and my reactions to seeing him really confirmed my intutition that we are not over. but at the same time i am so scared that i am wrong about that. i just don’t think it was the right time. i have insecurity issues to work on, and i’m not in the right place for a relationship at the moment. he actually told me that he had never had a good relationship before, so when he met me, i just think he really didn’t know what to do with me! haha. and if it ends up not working out, i can walk away knowing that i experienced and amazing feeling and real love 🙂 thanks for reading my long schpeel!

oh, and p.s. this was originally posted on his birthday 🙂 freaky!

Lindsay June 6, 2011 at 9:43 am

Would you believe that your soul mate shares a birthday with one of MINE and I didn\’t realize the article was published on her birth date until she called it to my attention months later!

Your intuition will tell you when it\’s time to let go. If you\’re hanging on right now, there\’s a reason for that. Important to remember when your head is telling you how things \”should\” be but your heart & gut are telling you another.

Ashley March 8, 2013 at 4:21 am

I don’t know if you’re still reading is closer not but I just stumbled upon this and started reading. I’m searching for answers and maybe some sort of closure..
when you say your intuition will tell you when to let go how do you know when that is? And when you say your mind is telling you 1 thing but your heart and gut are telling tou something else what do you mean by that? my mind tells me no but my heart won’t let go. I’m married but my heart had never let go, and he says I will always be the only one he’ll ever truly love. It kills me inside.

Oceanlove July 18, 2011 at 6:29 pm

What a great blog and lovely to read other’s comments.
Ok freeze frame moment when I first saw him – check
I asked him if I’d met him before – he felt so familiar – check
Later on that night under the influence I asked him ‘where have you been?’ – check
I acted like an excited 5 year old, whose Dad had just come back from a month away!
Meeting him has turned me inside out and I acted out in ways that were highly humiliating, defensive and embarrassing, but ultimately so illuminating that I am glad – it has pushed my development on so powerfully I cannot tell you and helped me to work through core deep limiting beliefs around love and allowing love in and even allowing myself to like a non-mainstream type of man.
I long to be with him though, deeply and it seems crazy, because I’ve only ever met him under the influence of alcohol and twice and God only knows what he thinks of me now.
I have cleared the air somewhat and he seemed generous in his response and I didn’t reply to that. But it’s not going away, I’ve tried everything to let go of him, forget about it, forget him and now I’ve just gotten to a place where I’m trying to be open and accept my feelings for him and the non-sensicalness of it all.
I feel like I need to be with him, let him love me, love him to resolve something or heal or become whole! Honestly, it sounds so mad when I say it.
Thanks and I’ll keep reading x

Lady July 23, 2011 at 3:38 am

I’ve read a couple of your blog posts after a google search, I must say I love them all. This one reminded me of a poem I’ve written about a man I met at the workplace. We have gone through a lot in the 9 months we know each other now. I feel like we can’t be together (I am in a relationship, with a child, I love the man I am with. He is single and he tells me he is in love with me. No, that he loves me. And that to him that means I am like family.) But we’ve just had this kind of connection upon meeting. He would make eye-contact and I would lighten up right away. I felt like a child when after a while I got butterflies each time I so much as thought of him. The yearning for simply being in the same room with him got so bad that I had lost over 8lbs from nerves alone! There is a mutual understanding and acceptance, a love that allows us that, regardless of where we might be, and with who. No jealousy, just a lingering question-mark, as we wonder if maybe we were meant to be together in the future. It has been a world-changing experience for me personally. I may lean towards believing we just met to learn from one another, but as with everything, I suppose only time can tell. Knowing we will both accept things no matter how they will unfold. I’ll include the poem in question 🙂
And I wish to thank you for kick-starting my brain again after reading your posts.

There is little left to say
It’s all been said before
We’ve been over, through this all
But still we can’t ignore

There is a fire burning
Somewhere deep inside
And when the flames embrace another
Fervency ignites

Rupture in the very core
When forcefully we back away
The familiar tone of yore
By aching need replaced

The calmth in the surrender
The peace in first awake
Of viewing this like-minded soul
One I could not forsake

Like a siren’s calling
An enchanter’s lure
Tugging at the whole of me
Undeniable allure

Unable to brush off the impression
This significant soul left behind
In oblivion my mind and heart both linger
Wondering if Us is part of the design

Lady July 23, 2011 at 3:47 am

Oh and.. we met end of october 2010 🙂

chica August 15, 2011 at 3:00 am

Familiar stories. My connection was someone who was in a band (cliche, I know). I saw him play once without knowing anything about him and my friend wanted to leave soon after they started playing. I shouldn’t have cared about leaving. We were vacationing in a town where we had no pre-determined plans and the music was good, but it wasn’t something I couldn’t live without, yet there was something tugging at me to stay. I didn’t say anything and we left. I don’t think I knew at the time it was about him, or maybe I did, just not sure.

Next time I saw him was a few months later, in my hometown in another state and they were playing. I spent most of my time outside not even watching his band. Mind you, he was not the typically handsome band guy. He was an older, overweight regular guy so it wasn’t a case of being starstruck since I knew nothing about him. The next band came on and I was inside watching and suddenly he was standing next to me and I felt a strong urge to say something to him. The minute I spoke, he looked over at me and we both just got these huge smiles. There was pure, almost tangible electricity. We accidentally bumped arms and it was like a lightning bolt (his words later on) went through us. Neither of us could stop smiling and looking straight into each others’ eyes. I said I needed to go outside and he followed me silently, still smiling. We sat down and started talking about really deep subjects immediately – when I spoke he just looked at me with complete awe and that smile. I remember almost every detail of that initial meeting. He had to get up to talk to someone and I ended up walking away. Then I had to leave and normally I wouldn’t have sought someone out to say goodbye, especially someone who got up and left our conversation, but I did go back to find him to say goodbye and it was nice meeting him and I left. Well, with the advent of Facebook, needless to say it wasn’t hard to reconnect. I added him and then sent a message asking a question about a benign subject that he was into that I was also into. He ended up asking me to call him because he wanted to ask me something and gave me his number. I called and he gushed about how great it was to meet me (there was nothing he needed to ask me). He called me later that night and I told him that he seemed very, yet oddly, familiar to me and and he said he was glad I said it because he felt the same way and didn’t want to seem weird. Then he told me he was married. Major disappointment and I put up boundaries immediately, but I wasn’t able to stick to those. He was married with multiple kids, but living in a different part of the house. It went against everything I’ve ever stood for by entertaining the thought of allowing this to be explored under the circumstances, but I really felt no choice in exploring this connection. I had to.

The relationship lasted for about 9 months. Long distance and only a few in-person moments. It was intense and volatile. He was verbally abusive and crazy acting. I tried to end it early on and he begged me not to. Then he’d try to end it with me and I’d beg him not to. At one point when things were nice, I had hung up the phone with him and was sitting on my bed. I looked over to the other side of my bed and I had a hallucination of him laying his head down on the pillow and smiling at me. He had never been to my house before so it wasn’t a memory – it was very weird. I knew it was a hallucination and I was completely lucid and sober and it’s the only hallucination I’ve ever had. I asked him the next day if anything weird happened after we hung up the night before and he said no and I told him what I saw. I still can’t explain that one.

The connection was evident but the experience for the most part was miserable and insane. I think the reality of his situation and the pull that we had toward one another drove him crazy and he lashed out in his frustration at me. He swore he had never spoken to someone as brutally as he spoke to me and he couldn’t understand it and it made him feel awful (and made me feel awful too). Finally, he was the one to end it and although I’ve accepted it (although probably not fully), I feel like there is a unfinished business and it’s not quite over. At first we didn’t speak at all. During the period of not speaking, I had a dream about my cat who died while we were together – I was looking for my cat in the dream and remembered at the end of the dream that the cat I was trying to find had been dead for months and woke up. I found out later that the dream occurred on the same day his dog died (I’d journaled it). We have had to talk since due to the level on which we involved ourselves artistically, and he’s been decent toward me and honors all my requests. He even called me at one point during the not speaking phase with an epiphany and his epiphany was that he felt passion with me, not just sexually, and he’s never felt that with anyone else in his life. I’m still having difficulty letting go but I’m better than I was. He insists on framing it in a more positive way and says that there was so much good there. In my opinion, there was so much potential for good, but it wasn’t good. Under different circumstances it may have been good.

I know I haven’t felt this strongly about anyone before in my life and I’m middle-aged. I’ve never had this much difficulty letting go of a person. I do have to wonder, based on the nature of the impossibility of a relationship coming out of these connections with my story and some of the previous ones, if we’re not just some relationship-challenged people who are projecting our needs and desires of something fulfilling onto someone in an exaggerated sense. While wondering that though, I know that electricity was real, I know that connection was real, and I know the bizarre occurrences like the hallucination and the dream were real and have never happened to me before. I have a strong feeling that we will be together again, not from plotting and not from anything other than gut instinct. Something about November. I think I’ve come to some growth from this and I’m guessing he has too. More looking within and fixing what isn’t right. He got into yoga and I’ve had the intention of getting into yoga by buying a DVD – something we both did separate from each other. Sorry for the length of this and I hope it wasn’t boring. Thanks for this forum and my wish is for everyone going through this to get through it with grace, dignity, and an elevated sense of self. We all deserve that.

Jen September 8, 2011 at 1:22 am

I met a man on the internet through a mutual friend. As soon as we started talking I felt very drawn to him and I couldn’t explain it, we became fast friends and started developing feelings for eachother very quickly. We seem to connect on so many levels and have share many of the same life experiences. I have never felt so connected to another person in my whole life, and I can’t imagine not having him around. Sadly though, we don’t even live in the same country, not even the same continent! We have kind of developed a spirit connection, and that is amazing! I dream things about him that I could notpossibly know and they turn out to be real. We have had some very powerul wow moments in the short time we have been talking and we know without a doubt that we have been brought together for a reason! It doesn’t feel like a regular friendship. The only major problem is he has recently split with his long time partner and if too afraid to get hurt again so he won’t let himself accept me into his life! He has genuine feelings for me but pushes them away because he feels he is not ready. This has led to many arguments, but we always get passed them and our relationship contiues to grow. Just recently we decided to consentrate on just being friends and that was very hard for both of us, it hasn’t really changed anything, we still talk everyday for hours on end and we keep sharing our thoughts and feelings to a certain degree. I think things just happened way too fast and now we need to step back and take a breather. He says he needs time to process his feelings and I completely respect that. But at the same time I still feel so drawn to him and want to share everything with him. It has all been very emotional but so beautiful at the same time! We have both been to see mediums before we met and there were certain things said that point right at each other! I am a better person for knowing him and we help each other to grow in many ways! Could there be forces beyond our control at work here?

Carrie - Careful Cents November 22, 2011 at 12:06 pm

This is a really eye opening post. It’s simply laid out, but it’s sparked a great thought process for me. I thought I found my soul-mate with my ex but when it failed, everything became clear.

Thank you for breaking down each point of what exactly a soul-mate is and does for us all. I’ve always been a deep and emotional type person and I love intensely and hurt just the same. But it takes a long time for me to let people in.

When I found my true soul-mate, I didn’t have any fears, or trust issues, and it was just like you said; no judgement and we didn’t lose our personal identities.

Great post!

Lindsay November 24, 2011 at 1:39 pm

Thank you Carrie! I checked out your website and really love the layout (and info, of course).

It’s pretty amazing to me that when you found your true soul-mate you didn’t have any of the normal fears or trust issues. I think that says so much. You knew on a soul level you could really trust and give your all to this person. 🙂

Tera January 11, 2012 at 2:29 am

I met someone when I was 5 years old and fell in love with him and for the next 10 years I stated that way, although other than when I was 6, he never even looked my way. When I was 14 we moved away and I never saw him again, then, 30 years later I was dating another guy from my old hometown and ran into him. The electricity was instant and he was familiar as my own family. He was going through a divorce and we started talking and then dating. It was so serious so fast and scared him because he had been so hurt by his divorce and wasn’t ready for more so we broke up. For the past year and a half he’s been in and out of my life every few months. I love this man unconditionally and feel as if I never had a choice except to love him. But he keeps breaking my heart. I know he feels that pull back to me but he refuses to stay because he says he’s scared of getting hurt. I’ve tried so hard to move on but I just can’t let go. Even now when he’s in a relationship with someone else. I don’t know how to love anyone else because no one has ever been to me what he is. The chemistry between us is crazy. Everyone notices. We know each other inside out. And every move he makes, every gesture, his voice, everything about him is as familiar to me as my own. If theres only supposed to be a lesson here I don’t know what it is. To me, we are as meant to be as breathing is. So why aren’t we together?

Lindsay January 11, 2012 at 9:10 am

Tera, what a beautiful story. I mean, even the painful parts. What you are describing sounds more like a twin flame relationship – the other half of your soul – vs. soul mate. Twin flames can rarely ever stay together forever – inevitably, one of the individuals gets “scared” or it is too intense for them. Twin flames are very much what you described: as if everything he does feels like yours as well. If you want/need more information, feel free to email me!

Tera January 12, 2012 at 2:02 pm

I have never heard of twin flames. He has always told me that I scare him because of the way things are between us. I believed him for so long because I knew how hurt he was by his divorce. But it’s hard for me to believe that he can have such strong feelings for me and be with someone else and not have anything to do with me. I think about him all the time. He never leaves my mind. I feel as if I will go through the rest of my life loving him and being unable to have a relationship with anyone else because what I had him with , nothing else will ever compare. Being with him was like coming home, it was that familiar and that easy. Even his voice was familiar to me, even though he was 13 the last time I heard him speak. What I don’t understand is, if I feel this connection, why doesn’t he???

Lindsay January 12, 2012 at 3:35 pm

Some men aren’t as “in tune” with these feelings as we might like them to be. But who is to say he doesn’t feel the intensity? It is that very intensity that “scares” him off, right?

Tera January 13, 2012 at 3:15 am

He says it is. Because he’s scared of getting hurt again. I just don’t know how to give up and let go.

tiara January 26, 2012 at 9:45 am

Theres this guy whom I have seen only in pictures on facebook. hes not even added to my friends list. Lets say his name is XYZ. Hes actually my best friend’s best friend. Now the thing is my best friend would praise him all the time and describe his habits, attitude, acheievments and family background and everything all the time. All this rant about this XYZ led me into beleiving that he must be an amazing guy and I kind of developed a reverred spot for him in my mind.

Then later on out of curiosity or I dont know why I looked him up on the net. Read some of the articles written by him to help juniors like me. And then found him on facebook. Man!! did I find him awesome?!! If I hadnt listened to my friends rant about how good he is I know I would have never ever given him a second look. Then I needed to know something regarding my career so I messeged him on facebook without adding him. But I had thought he’d never reply but he did reply and his reply reflected a very patient, balanced, confident and friendly personality. Since then I would check out his profile once in a while. After some time I convinced myself that he wouldnt be interested in me and we wont be a good match anyway so i stopped checking his profile out and stopped thinking about him completely. A week ago I saw him in my dreams and he was trying to tell me that Im the kinda girl hes interested in. And in my dream I was feeling all excited and happy on hearing that. Since that I keep cheking out his pics on fb and drooling on them. Its like Im finding him much more handsome than i originally did in the same pics. Now I have kind of fallen in love with his pics and the rant that I have heard about him and after checking out his profile so many times and messaging him once on fb i know the rant is true and not an exaggeration. I have a gut feeling that he could be my soulmate. But the problem is he doesnt even know that I exist!!! And I dont know how to make my presesnce felt in his life, in his world. I so wanna kill my friend for feeding this guys suc detailed data into my mind. Now theres nothing that I dont know about this guy and thers nothing that this guy knows about me. From what I have heard about him, felt about him and seen on his fb he seems just perfect for me.

now how do you explain this? And what do you think I should do about it? Please tell me that i can get him and theres a way, some way……………

Lindsay January 26, 2012 at 9:53 am

Well, you don’t really know him. What you’re in love with is an idea – you don’t REALLY know everything there is to know about him. If you really want to pursue this, message him and ask him to meet up with you. Otherwise, it’s no good for you to obsess over someone you haven’t yet met. Maybe your dream was your signal to reach out and contact him. Give it a try and see what happens! But don’t jump to “soul mate” conclusions until you’ve actually met in person and gotten to know each other. 🙂 Good luck!

Jane February 5, 2012 at 10:11 am

So, I started searching about soulmates & stuff because I think I found mine. Here’s the story.

The first time I ever saw his name was on facebook, about 2 years ago. He was commenting on a friends’ photo, he was being sarcastic and a little too direct, but I laughed so hard. It wasn’t because it was funny, but because he was right and it was the same thing I would’ve said if I had the courage.
Then, after a couple of months, he sent me a friend request. He happened to be best friends with some guy that used to comment on my profile, and I noticed that. So that’s everything I knew about him: who was his bff and that he was ironic and kind of a moron with people he couldn’t stand.
Nearly 6 months ago, we saw each other for the first time, at a birthday party, even though we attend the same highschool and went to the same primary school as well. At that party, I got too drunk, I went to the bathroom because I was feeling sick, then my best friend drove me home. The only thing about this guy that I noticed that night was that he made a very funny comment, but besides that, not much. My best friend returned to the party and he asked her about me, even though everybody was talking about a completely different subject. After that, another friend of mine asked my bff what would she think about me and THE guy being together, as a result of speaking with HIM about me in my BFFs absence.
My bff told me that the very next day. I was really surprised and I was eager to see him again. The next 2 weeks were strange. I started seeing him more than once a day(I never saw him at school). The first time I saw him after that birthday party is gonna stay forever in my head. Our highschool has a special place for us to smoke, so we don’t smoke in the bathroom, and I am a smoker. So I went to smoke with a friend(guy) and he was already there, even though he doesn’t smoke. Our eyes locked and I had to do everything in my power to pay attention to my friend. I think he felt the same, as he seemed not to hear the questions his friend was asking.
The day after this, I went out at my usual cafe and, as I got out of the taxi, there he was, with 3 friends of his, walking towards me. I had to meet my girlfriends and went to the cafe we always went at. He was there, of course but he was sitting in such way so he couldn’t look at me without being obvious, but his friends could, and they kept watching me. Every 5 minutes or so, he would also find some reason to look my way and I found that so cute.
So I added him on IM and started speaking to him. It turns out he already knew lots of things about me, that weren’t exactly public knowledge. I was the one who initiated the conversations. We could talk for hours but after 3 of these conversations, he stopped responding.
His friend was the one who convinced him that he had the moral obligation to talk to me at least one more time. So, the friend, entered his IM and point blank, asked me to go out with them and call some friends of mine so it wasn’t weird.
So we met, we played cards and all sorts of things. My guy was driving, so he was drinking coke, and we made fun of him because the rest of us were drinking beer. My punishment, at some moment, was to receive 10 hits with the deck of cards on my fingertips, as powerfull as possible, and 12 hits with 2 fingers on my wrist(on the veins part). My guy had to hit me on my wrist, but at first he refused completely to do it, and then, when he finally hit me, it was like 12 touches, not hits. His friend had to hit me with the cards, and damn, he threw all his power in. As THE guy was watching, it was like he felt the pain, he even put his hands on his face, so he couldn’t see that anymore. But, after some things happened, later that night, after I asked his friend why did he bring him if he didn’t like me, he waited for me, but I already left(we moved at a club by that time). So, the next day at school, he waited for me to talk, probably, but I didn’t go to school that day. This is what my friends told me. Then, he arrived home, and IM’d me that he never liked me and he never will and that he’s telling me this point blank because it’s better for me to not have illusions.
One week and a half later, I called his friend to hang out with my group of friends, because he was a nice guy. And my guy came with him, uninvited and all. I was surprised, although I never could believe the fact that he didn’t like me. It just wasn’t right. So I kept asking his friend to hang out with me and my bff, so HE would come. And he came every time. Even when he had a powerful flu.
There was always some spark between us, it was visible to anybody who saw us. Also, he became jealous of every guy that called me or messaged me during our hangouts. One time, I had a really bad fight with my parents, and he was really sweet, tried everything to make me feel better and he calmed me instantly.
In december I could feel that he wants us to hang out more. But then, I invited him to some even that was really important for me and he said he’d come, but he didn’t show up, and he hadn’t even told me he wasn’t coming, so I was MAD. That night I sent his bff a text message telling him to never bring my guy to hang out again. And I started completely ignoring him at school.
I must say that after he told me he didn’t like me, I saw a lot less of him around school. And he never came to the smoking place again.
After the holidays, so about 3 weeks ago, he started showing up at the place I go to smoke, every single break. So that’s 5-6 times a day. He started being online again, he would look at me from afar but when I was close to him he was too nervous and he intentionally looked in other direction. Then, as days passed, we started positioning each other closer. His friends made me go to their group with lame reasons and stuff, but I kept ignoring him, even though he was looking directly at me openly. It wasn’t because I didn’t care.. it was because I cared too much…
Then I had a dream about him, a very vivid one.. we were sitting on the couch, I was talking to someone in front of me, and I return to him, just to see him nodding and looking at me with so much love. Then I realised that’s how he looked at me since the end of november until I started ignoring him.
So… I started missing talking to him, and on an impulse, I called him. He left everything he was doing, even if that got him in trouble, just to talk to me. And it was so natural, it wasn’t awkward, not for a single moment. We were both so genuinely happy to talk to each other, and it was like we never stopped speaking.
I must mention that he never had any girlfriends that I know of, but his sister died 4 years ago and he loved her very much, and it seems this changed him a lot.(He didn’t tell me this, I know from a common friend, but he know I know how this feels, as I was in the same sittuation, but with a different kind of relative, but same closeness). I happen to have a younger brother, as he was to his sister, exactly the same difference and they even have the same second last name. He kept asking me questions about him, my relationship with him etc. His friends told me that was why he is such a difficult person, that it still bothers him and he misses his sister. And I think that I made him remember her more, because of all the similarities between me – my brother and his sister-him.
So, there are some signs that could also indicate that he’s my soulmate/twin flame/whatever:
– this past month I started to see his name at least 20 times per day in random stuff, like TV, Newspapers, Facebook, Book Stores, on the street, EVERYWHERE. Every time I see it, I feel something undescribable.
– when I was younger, I used to spend a lot of time on his street, really close to where he lives. and also, he lives 4 streets away from me
– his sister used to come with her friend at my parents’ cafe even though I was too little at that time to socialize with them, but I knew them from afar.
– there’s also the thing with our siblings (I was also in danger of dying but I had a looot of luck)
– when we look in each others eyes, I know it’s mutual interest, dare I say love, and I know we really understand each other. there were some comments he made that made me realise he really gets me more than I imagined, and I surprised him by doing the same.
– I always feel so safe around him. and comfortable. and I trust him a lot, even though we don’t know each other too well. There isn’t any other person that makes me feel so warm inside, and more at home. I’m dying right now to hug him and kiss him. We never kissed, but his hugs are the best thing somebody could offer me.
– we think alike and we have the same kind of humour that only we get. he always understands what I want to say, even though I don’t express myself clearly. Same goes for me understanding him.
– most of the time, we match colors in the way we dress. rarelly do we happen to dress in different colors at the same time.
– he has the exact brand and model of cellphone I used to have, and it’s my favorite by far. he bought a second one of the same model 2 years ago, because the first broke. That’s when mine broke too.
– we look alike, same eyecolor, same body shape, he’s a little bit taller but not much, just enough so we look good together. everybody says we look perfect together.
Sorry for writing so much, but I can’t tell it shorter. I cut from it what I could.

Cory February 7, 2012 at 12:38 am

I think I may have met my soulmate.
I cannot begin to explain my feelings towards him. I went searching online to find out if maybe there is some doubt in all this. I’ve been hurt before many times I’ve been skeptical of true love. With him time froze. We met and before I knew it 24 hours passed. Two strong coincidences small to anyone else. But too both of us scared us. We both have a glass figurine completely unrelated. Yet almost identical in appearance. It’s as if we both picked these together. Later on we were going for a walk. (I sound like a young naive schoolboy)! On this walk we were linked shoulder to shoulder hip to hip. We joked about something we both laughed it off. Yet when we recovered from the laugh we both released the exact sigh at the exact moment. I know jinx! I know these two little signs are tiny dots on a much larger plan. But I wouldn’t mind mapping out our lives together. Idk..

chelsea February 12, 2012 at 12:22 am

I was going through security at a government building in Jefferson Parish so I could apply for my passport. I am going to Japan in March and needed one. While going through the check a cop my age looked at me and asked if I were from Bellechase but i said no. The second he started talking to me I felt a deep connection i have never felt before. We kept talking amd instead of offering my number or anything I just left. I sat in my car for almost ten minutes deciding if I should go back. I didnt and all I can think now is that I will never see him and I passed up my opportunity. How do I get rid of this feeling?

Lindsay February 13, 2012 at 11:16 am

If you are truly meant to be together, your paths WILL cross again. Trust in the Universe – if it is meant to be, it WILL be. Promise. 🙂

Katie February 13, 2012 at 2:13 pm

This post brings a smile and countless memories. The story is too long to share, but the result is the most amazing knowing, in the deepest part of me that someone out there loves me like that. It’s difficult to even describe the comfort his very existence provides at certain times, even after years of no contact. Even more amazing is the warmth, connection and deep love(not necessarily romantic, though there was intense attraction) that I’ve realized I can feel for another person. If others close to me had not witnessed what we had and reminded me often I don’t think I would even believe it today( I scarcely did THEN) There was, of course, that moment when everything inside of me said that is the man you’re going to marry(the first and only time I’ve ever experienced such a thought). Of course that was long ago and seemingly far away, and apparently some youthful romantic mirage. Of course the warm fuzzies weren’t always so present until I accepted and finally came to truly understand that people come into one’s life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Sigh… It’s just the strangest thing.

Lindsay February 14, 2012 at 11:53 am

Hi Katie! It is hard to put the feelings into words, isn’t it? Sometimes words just aren’t strong enough. I do think most of our soul mates are in our lives for a reason & a season…a rare few for a lifetime. Would love to hear your story in full if you have time some day!

Me February 20, 2012 at 5:01 pm

What if you meet someone whom you immediately react to (intense, immediate pull) and it never happened before (and you are in a happy functioning marriage when it happened!?) This man’s family has been longtime friends with mine but we first met at a family function after i married someone else 5 years ago. He is not like me in interests or even my ‘type’; i am not one to have roving eyes either so this strange pull is confusing and almost lonely since i dare not tell anyone (esp. the man himself!) about it. i’ve dreamt of him since we met (also strange as i never dream about that stuff it was intense and vivid, and G rated no worries) It’s sad since i have a lot to like about my life and i was not expecting this to ever happen. i feel guilty for even feeling like this. And i feel panicked i will never see/hear from him again. (He can easily find my contact info). So…what can i do? How do i know this is something and if he feels similarly (he is a shy person). I am very saddened while also elated i ‘met’ someone i think i have known before. In a way it’s awful since i have so many conflicting feelings now. 🙁

Lisa February 20, 2012 at 8:30 pm

I came onto your website to read one thing and ran into this post. I can’t believe I never read it. Or maybe now that I found love, it is the perfect time that I read this article.
My guy, we met long ago in college(I found out later). We were good friends and lost contact when he transferred schools. I actually thought he was dead, because someone told me he joined the army. 7 years later, he found me on Facebook and now we have been inseparable. It’s weird, we both can’t remember when/how we met, but we both have the same vivid memory out of all the times we hung out. That one memory, we can both describe down to the conversation. We are totally honest and open with one another and I love it. I definitely never felt this way before. And the way I feel for him, if this isn’t true love, I would be confused to what true love really is.
Great article as always!

Silver February 29, 2012 at 5:59 pm

Ok now about a few months ago there was a girl in my dream and she kissed me next night same thing a few days after that i met someone at a party and she looked like she was from my dream now a few days ago she was in my dream again and her name was the same from the person i met i wonder if she is my soulmate.

Silver Meap February 29, 2012 at 6:00 pm

Ok now about a few months ago there was a girl in my dream and she kissed me next night same thing a few days after that i met someone at a party and she looked like she was from my dream now a few days ago she was in my dream again and her name was the same from the person i met i wonder if she is my soulmate.

Silver Meap February 29, 2012 at 6:00 pm

Ok now about a few months ago there was a girl in my dream and she kissed me next night same thing a few days after that i met someone at a party and she looked like she was from my dream now a few days ago she was in my dream again and her name was the same from the person i met i wonder if she is my soulmate.

Silver White February 29, 2012 at 9:41 pm

There was a girl from my dream and when I saw someone I regonize her from my dreams a few days ago she was in dream again.

Lindsay March 1, 2012 at 10:35 am

Might be your spirit guide, Silver!

Someone March 16, 2012 at 5:08 pm

Hi. I know this was posted years ago, but I would really like some help to understand what I’ve been going through. I’ll try to shorten it. I’m still in high school, and there’s this guy I’ve known for four years. We haven’t really talked, like at all, but he’s been in a few of my classes. Recently, I’ve been feeling this really strange feeling if I’m near him. For example, my legs will start to feel numb; and normally it’s hard to get him out of my head. He has also been in many, many of my dreams.

As cliche(and weird) as it is to say, I’ve always notice him, I guess you could say, more than you would just some random stranger.

But this just doesn’t make sense to me. Unless if you do want to go with the whole spiritual-connection-thing. If I could have some more insight to this, that would be great.

Lindsay March 17, 2012 at 11:31 am

Hi there,

If you’d like some insight into this, I can do a relationship reading for you. To order one, you can visit

If you’re not interested in that, I’d suggest maybe just speaking with this guy and trying to get to know each other to see if there’s a deeper connection there. All the best to you!

Honey March 20, 2012 at 9:23 pm

What about you feel a soul connection for someone but don’t know if they feel it?

Lindsay March 20, 2012 at 9:57 pm

I’d suggest trying to get to know them a little better – asking them to study together, hang out, go for coffee, something. Then go from there. Baby steps!

Mel March 23, 2012 at 11:48 am

I met my beautiful soul mate almost 4 years ago. We are both actors and were in a play together. The moment I saw him (in a cafe the day before our first rehearsal) I recognised him on a base level. He said he recognised and dreamed of me from a photo he had been given by the director. Over the 2 months we were working together I grew to care for, respect and then deeply love him more and more. We were the same in many ways…the same interests, the same talents and ways of working. I could see deeply into his eyes/ soul in a way that I had never experienced with another person. The thing is…he was 33 years older than me. (at the time 29 and 62) But it meant nothing. If I spoke to others about him I would become aware of how old he was and it would worry me, but when I was with him, the age didn’t exist. He was 5 years older than me in my mind and my heart. The attraction grew and one day we both talked about it. He felt the same. We both had the same very clear image of another life together. He could describe the fabric of the dress I was wearing; I could describe the position in which he was lying on the grass. We knew how many children we had together, one of which had died and both agreed on how and when. In the past life he had rode away to war and never came back. We could both explain the house we lived in and the church we had married in.

He had a very complicated relationship with a partner and his children. I would have been with him and lived this life with him. But the courage failed him, or me, or both of us. He taught me a lot about myself and helped me through a very difficult time. I know how deeply we love each other. My question is…can you love someone else after you have loved someone like this?? Are we supposed to be with these people even if the circumstances don’t suggest so?

Lindsay March 23, 2012 at 10:02 pm

What an incredible story! Oh my gosh, I just love this one! Yes, we can definitely love others after we have a deep, soul-level love like the one you shared with this man. Maybe it won’t be the same intensity (no two loves are ever the same, really), but we can still love again. We have more than one soul mate, I truly do believe that.

Sometimes we’re not meant to be with a soul mate for life – in fact, I’d say MOST of the time we’re not meant to be with them forever. Each soul comes into our lives for a reason, to work through shared karma, and to share more lessons and lifetimes together. I hope this answered your questions a little.

Kara March 25, 2012 at 6:27 pm

Hello, so ever since december, or begining of december, i have had real deep connection with a guy that i have known from school, work and my current school at we are attending. Its like ever since i first saw him. Its just i just felt this connection with him. I always want to be with him. I am so in love with him right now its so overpowering. I have had dreams of him and me while i asleep a few times before. I do believe that he is my soul mate. So in mid Feb, i told him how i felt that i really liked him a lot. and he texted me back saying that he dose need time to think about things. And i told him that is fine and i know we both or all need space. But its really hard not to ever think about him.

He is always on my mind, its hard not to be away from him, because i feel so connected to him. I do think he dose love me, but it too scared or shy to tell me. And so hes just taking some time to sort things out. But i do hope that he can tell me how he feels, because i know the waiting part is hard for both us. I think also hes a little afraid to commiting to relationships. But i just believe i mean i believe in so much that he is my soul mate and i am his. We always do the stare a lot, i know he often catches me glancing at him from across the room espically at work.

I have had glimpses or visions of us together in the future, they have not happened yet, but i do feel they will in time. What do you think or can tell me? Your article was very interesting and i just had to reply, i hope you can reply back 🙂

Lindsay March 28, 2012 at 5:55 pm

Hi Kara!

So glad you enjoyed the article! If I do a relationship reading for you, I’ll be able to answer your questions. Visit to place your order and then I’ll be in touch to get the information I need from you to do the reading!

shannon March 27, 2012 at 10:21 am

ive always had this feeling.. that we have been together forever as long as i can remember.

my name is shannon.. his name is art..

i met him about 5 years ago and we have been in this weird on and off and back on again relationship for these said 5 yrs.

we can never be apart or to far away from eachother without needing to be together, i feel so lost without him.

he has bad dreams when im not near.. same for me, and he says that with me next to him his nightmares are gone.. replaced with dreams of me.

the day i met him he told me everything about myself that i wouldnt express out loud.. and i saw his soul through his eyes.

his touch sets me on fire.. he says that we are purely electric.

and even from a million miles away i can feel it when hes sad.. it hurts. his tears bring me to tears. and even now… almost in tears thinking about how much i miss him and want to touch him, especially knowing how sad he is and how much he misses me.

i feel as if we have known eachother our entire lives.. he tells me things he never tells anyone else, only he can break me worse then anyone else can. our relationship never lasts romantically but at the same time it has always been romantic.. but its almost like we were ment to be together because it always turns out to be romantic and nothing else. i love him so much… he always told me he loved my heart, i never understood what he ment by that.

i dont know what to do…

Lindsay March 28, 2012 at 5:56 pm

Hi Shannon,

If I do a relationship reading for you, I’ll be able to shed some light onto your situation.. Visit to place your order and then I’ll be in touch to get the information I need from you to do the reading!

soul mate interests March 29, 2012 at 5:06 pm

i met a bloke on the internet a couple of years ago now , he was married but when i first saw his picture it was like i already knew him and we try and break away from each other but we both find our selves checking up on each other and also when im trying to forget about him. his name will appear in random places or his name will pop up in my head and when we say good bye i always know its not forever and i nearly always know when he is going to contact me . does this make him some sort of soul connection to me ?

Lindsay March 30, 2012 at 4:22 pm

Yeah – but remember we can have soul connections with folks and that doesn’t mean we’re supposed to be with them romantically. This sounds like a soul connection. 🙂

just a thought to consider March 29, 2012 at 5:28 pm

Re: soul mate interests: no, it makes you attracted to a married (and taken) man. It really irks me when people gloss over moral transgressions with “but we’re soulmates”. If you *are* the soul mate of this perosn he will move mountains to be with you..or not. Soulmates don’t have to end up together but almost always teach/learn from each other. But do not make the mistake of justifying hurting others (i.e. his wife, kids if they havge them..) with putting the ‘soul mate’ stamp on things.

soul mate interests March 29, 2012 at 5:34 pm

he is not with her anymore the thing is we dont meet up anymore just dont know cant really describe this feeling of knowing him before i met him and ive never really got to know him but we always seem to know if each other are down and get in touch with each other and help each other through it

Lindsay March 30, 2012 at 4:23 pm

COMPLETELY agree. Do NOT use your “spirituality” as an excuse to tear apart a relationship or step out of yours and cheat. That’s not acceptable or an excuse!

Lisa April 5, 2012 at 4:13 pm

Hi i have experienced the exact same thing, even though i’m 24 and he’s 40, the first moment i met him i only breifly saw him when i was called into the office at work to sent home because of wages, i only briefly like a slow motion film looked at him, i didnt really think anything of it at the time but something did happen which i just put down to shyness at the time. Afterwards i couldnt stop thinking about him even though i hadant properly seen him, i was back in at 3.00 am in the morning anyway and when i got about my business and constanly saw him around the shopfloor i walways smiled and he smiled back at me all the time, it wasant until a week later that i talked to him properly for the first time, the connection was instant and i felt that could approach him like ive known him my whole life, we stood 15 mins talking the first time and it was so fluent and natural and then the second time it was about 25 mins, i constantly think about him and cant get him out of my head and thoughts, i feel things that i cant even explain that i have never felt before in my life, everytime we wallked past each other he smiled and beamed at me everytime i to him, everytime i walk past him i get butterflies in my stomach, my stomach sumersalts and my body tingles, i always feel his presence even if he’s at the other end of the shopfloor and no matter where i go he always seems to appear in that location everytime i walk through a door or corridor i always want him to be walking there too and suddenly he is, ina friendly gesture he has put his hand on my shoulder once and touched my left hand twice with his right hand and everytime it felt like a shot a surge of electricity ran through me and it made me giddy and tingly, we always talk so naturally and he also seems to look at me even from a distance i can see him and feel him looking at me, after he speaks to me i feel so giddy and replay the conversations over and over in my mind. When he’s not there like on holiday or its not his night in i feel so sad and depressed almost and get to a point of sayin its stupid then as soon as he returns and i speak to him and stand in his essence i am so happy and elated like ive won the lottery, i constanly think about him sexually also and when i do i get electricty through my body, when he’s off i worry about him, wonder about him, think what h’es up to, hoping he;s ok etc. I feel such a connection and feel so many things i havent felt before, when i talk to him and find stuff out about him we have similar traits like ive recently discovred he’s quite a senstive person and is moved by emotional words and i am too, and its so confusing all the time. You see i’m married and he’s married which is a bummer really, and recently ive noticed he used to talk to me all the time and come and find me and talk and give me tasks etc but recently he dosent talk to me much and it seems as though he wont stand near me as close as he use to it and it is becasue he feels how i feel, he’s been feeling verything i have and he’s probab;ly wondering why he thinks about me all the time, cares about me and wants to be near all the time, he has been distancing himself lately but then something comes up wheere i talk to him and he to me and we just smile, and laugh and feel so great together, i dont want him to be afraid of anything happening i wont backdown or runaway all i long is to feel his touch and lips on mine, he needs to cross that barrier, push it away and not be afraid because all i want more than anything is to be in his arms, i know that this isnt one of the many soul contracts this is the only one, my one true soul mate whom i was meant to find and love, im quite a spiritual perosn and beleive in empathy and souls and living things around me, im so happy thinking about him, im at work tonight and know that he’s in i cant wait to see him and be around him, to let our auros and energies collide. For so long i always wondered why i felt like this about him, why always thought about him and felt things i could never explain, then recently i came across other posts of people describing meeting theier soul mates and couldnt beleive it, ive met my one true soul mate and everyday my feelings intensify and ignite i want him so bad, i cry when im not around him and alone, i cry when i worry about him and cry becasue i want him so bad, we share something so deep, so ancient that thorugh time and space as our souls were reborn into other shells the seed was still there waiting and now its finally found its light.

eskay April 8, 2012 at 2:04 am

Hey lindsay
i stumbled upon this website searching for some questions. I have been divorced once before and my second marriage too is over. 8 months ago i met someone by accident at work and since then it has been impossible to take him out of my head. He is in very complicated situations of life and so am i but whatever little time we get to spend with each other have been absolutely wonderful peaceful and provide a great sense of life to both of us. I know i cant be with him …however i have never ever felt so strongly about someone and its impossible to try to stop thinking about him no matter how hard i try . he has a partner for past ten years and he is a wonderful ex husband to his wife … but i feel so connected and undeniably attracted to him it worries me. i cannot recall feeling SO strongly and selflessly about any other person. we dont talk a lot or meet a lot …maybe once a month or not even that but every waking moment i know he is the one for me yet being very clear of the fact that we may never be together. My heart physically hurts and i cry everytime i think about him. He has given me nothing but love and peace for the shreds of time we spent together. I feel i know him and he does know me too … just we are unable to admit the same. Do you think he is my soulmate ? I am 36 .

Pia kulshrestha April 17, 2012 at 8:42 am

6 years ago i met a guy..and before meeting him i had a dream in which i saw him at first time now we love each other…and i strongly feel that we both have a divine connection…

Lindsay April 18, 2012 at 4:30 pm

Wow, that’s pretty cool, Pia! They say we only dream of those we either know in ‘real life or faces we’ve seen on a soul level.

Mike April 26, 2012 at 1:36 pm

Right now, I’m totally confused if this girl is my soulmate or not. We’ve known each other for almost 6 years now. We haven’t physically met each other, but we have that special connection. She always tried to get rid of me because she actually think that I’m just a fantasy in her life. This year we’re about to meet each other. Unfortunately, she already gave up in our relationship. Still, I can still feel that deep connection to her. Whenever she’s in danger, whenever she’s not feeling okay, I can sense it even if we’re living miles apart. This was actually my first time to feel this way. Yes, I want to respect her decision of leaving me again, for the nth time now. But I can still clear my heart with that connection even if she hurt me seriously so many times.

Lindsay April 26, 2012 at 2:50 pm

Hi Mike,

I strongly encourage you to meet each other so you can put an end to the ‘fantasy’ part. I think she might be partly right– unless you know someone face to face, you don’t REALLY know them. But I also 100% believe you two have a connection and you should meet in person to see if there is a future for you in “real life”.

J. April 26, 2012 at 5:36 pm

I joined an online chat thing with people close to me, I was bored and decided I wanted to chat. I was about to delete it because I wasn’t getting what I wanted from it. When I recieved a message from a guy named Bon*. He asked me if I wanted to go out with him that night. I was really nervous to meet him and I just meeting someone online was crazy. I than met up with him and we were driving everywhere and he got us lost trying to go to the beach. We were talking in the car as if thou we had known each other forever, we than went to the park and we had the most amazing night under the stars talking. We went on our second date to the beach and ended up making love on the beach. It was amazing and intense. As if our mind and souls only needed each other. Our third date came and I saw his tattoo for the first time. I remember it from many paintings or murals in my dreams before I had met him. We have understood each other from the first time we met. He had told me he broke up with his girlfriend a month ago. She came back to him and he was so lost and confused. We know were going to end up together but his chapter with her isn’t quite finsihed. I want to wait for him, I want to be with him in the end. I know we will be, my heart and soul have never been so intuned with someone else’s. He is perfection in every way. We look at eachother and see ourselves. I want to know why fate would bring us together when he wasn’t ready. We didn’t want to let go, but the only way to know if it’s true is if he come’s back to me. Which I know he will but my heart hurts because i know he is hurting. I can feel every heart ache he has, even when were not together. It’s as if thou he is my other half. I will let you all know when he is finally mine again. I will be complete.

b April 27, 2012 at 9:59 pm

My story. I don’t understand how I feel or why this even happened. I was married had nothing really to complain about. I loved my husband but never felt in love always had this gut feeling before I married him that I’d just end up hurting him and leaving for the person I was suppose to be with. I’m the kind of girl against cheating and wanted to be married forever. But I believe in God he doesn’t. I wanted kids he didn’t. Wanted to stay so maybe he’d believe one day…and he was so good to me and I didn’t want to hurt him… Never looked at another guy. Said I never wanted to be with someone as the same job as a kid I always liked my soul mates name…before he came to work with me I heard about this new guy with that name and got a really weird feeling like he’d be very familiar to me.
The first day I met him I felt like the fog cleared away. I wasn’t even really attracted to him really. I thought he was cute but when I looked in his eyes I felt complete like I could feel his innermost being…I’d get so nervous and couldn’t figure out why. I was never gonna say anything bc I was married and he was engaged and this had to be just some stupid crush that I shouldn’t be having. I’m married. He told me if there was no line to cross he would cross it. We really connected and talked all the time and both felt we needed to stop bc we were both in serious relationships but we felt some need to talk to each other and couldn’t stop. We both agreed we shouldn’t want to talk to each other every day. He told me he could see himself and we were each others backups and how he knew he had to stop his infatuation with me or he’d never be able to. We agreed that if we took a leap of faith we couldn’t trust each other…he told me he couldn’t make a decision and his fiance cheated on him and got pregnant but he stayed and raised her child as his own..she never felt sure and left a month before their wedding..completely unrelated to me. I took that risk. I fell in love with his complete self and felt my husband deserved someone who could love him as much as he loved them and I never gave him that. I stayed out of guilt of not wanting to hurt him. This guy I met has every quality I had prayed about for so many years. Has the same initials as my ex husband they are from the midatlantic both moved to my small hometown and both went to the same highschool as me. We both had similar issues in our relationships…it feels like we are on the same wavelength in life similar interests similar upbringings, think so much alike almost can complete each others sentences..when our hands touch, I can feel the electricity…I feel it when we look in each others eyes when we had sex he said somerhing about it feeling so comfortable and how that’s a bad thing..he said how he couldn’t figure out why he felt so close to me other than the similar interests and job but it felt more than that and how it was some look I gave him when I looked in his eyes. Everything was so intense and now we went from talking all the time and connecting and now to him telling me ever since I took that risk how he’s not looking for a serious relationship and how he shut down when he realized how serious I was and how I wanted way more than him and was ready for way more than he was..that was Dec and Jan and now he’s been dating someone else. I feel completely broken..I was so sure he was the one I was suppose to be with..I know I don’t deserve for it to work out bc we did a horrible thing. I swear he felt what I felt and now it feels like he got scared and I’m second guessing what I felt and maybe it was one sided. I don’t want to be with anyone else…I felt complete and completely happy and the sex was how its portrayed in movies and it felt like we just fit together. I could open up and be myself and not feel stupid while at the same time having that nervous feeling in my gut. I wish I could explain this better..we were both raised good and sheltered, smart kids…this wasn’t suppose to happen. Is this man my soulmate or did I just get duped by someone who wasn’t happy in his relationship? I don’t fall in love or let people in this easily. He just broke right on through and all I wanna do is look in his eyes and be held and feel complete. I feel like after he was around me maybe I sucked at certain things and that’s why he left. I don’t know I’m shy and quiet and not good expressing how I feel.

Alexandra May 5, 2012 at 11:14 pm

My story is a story of Synchronicity…
My whole life I have always felt attached to one boy. No matter what iv always had a crush on him. In the winter I was up thinking about him the night before a family vacation and had an intutition that I would run into him there. And guess what, I ran into him there. I have always felt weirdely connected to him and never knew why. Yet, I also know that we are not ready for eachother.

In one of my classes this semester their is this one boy who caught my eye from the very first day of class. As the semester has gone on I have realized that me and him are very similar and again another unexplainable connection. However, I blew it off because I was thinking about the boy I saw into in a different country in December whom I felt very similar ( but more intense) feelings for. I know this sounds like I tend to fall in love with boys but here’s more. When my family and I went on vacation again in the spring I was on the hunt for the boy I saw on my last vacation ( i mean anything was possible). Except, on the security line on the way home was a boy who looked just like the one in my class. I diddnt believe it was him because he doesnt live where I was on vacation, in fact he lives on the other side of the country. All of our communication before seeing eachother in the airport was mainly through smiling and eye contact so we had our first real convo in the airport with my parents. I really don’t understand how on two consecutive vacations synchonity could happen. Since coming back to school I feel like me and him don’t know how to act towards eachother but I feel like this is just meant to work out.

Annette May 8, 2012 at 8:55 am

About two months ago I met the most beautiful man that I’d ever seen. The first time we encountered was at the bar where we both asked for non-alcoholic beverages at the same time. And we bother looked at eachother and laughed and parted our ways back to the crowd of people, a short while later I turned around to feel an electrifying buzz dancing next to me, it was him. I felt in love every time he was next to me. We met outside and talked… We exchanged numbers but I told him to wait to see if we saw eachother again. He’s texted to see if we’d be in the same spot.. But have not been. I’m still thinking about him.

claire June 5, 2012 at 6:52 am

I met whom I believe to be one of my soulmates about 5 months ago. The attraction was instant and after a few weeks I realized he had some self esteem issues, which Ive never been the type to care what others thought but I couldnt understand because I think he is wonderful inside and out. I am also a single mother who has recently come up on some health issues which he has been there not in the hold your hand blah blah kinda way but in the hey dont worry your over reacting youll be okay. I love how she says their is no ownership or restrictions, we definetly do not restrict eachothers time and space we are merely just their for one another when the other is needed and it is cosmic how I can be soo upset and bam text message. I truely believe he came into my life and I hope he stays but if he doesnt i guess it was all in the plan.

Katie June 28, 2012 at 8:42 pm

Met a guy through a sport that my son plays. I am married & he is divorced but engaged. After a few games I feel a sense of having known him. I am comfortable and confident around him and notice that we are usually drawn to stand together & converse at the games. Having this experience has made me look into what a soul mate is. Help!

Lindsay June 29, 2012 at 9:35 am

Hi Katie,

While I’m certain you and this man probably have a connection – most likely recognizing each other on a soul level from a past life – I’d never recommend delving into that beyond friendship while you’re both in committed relationships. I would recommend maybe being friends as couples with him and his fiance, you and your husband, in order to keep things “kosher” but see if you’re meant to learn/grow together.

msfrances July 2, 2012 at 5:37 pm

I met my soulmate October 10, 2009. We are both musicians and I was invited to play on a concert with his band. While we were performing I didn’t really notice him. After we had finished or set, I put my stuff in my car. He came with his uncle and I was with my mom. he introduced him self to me and gave me his number saying he liked the music.
Later in the evening , He was performing with the other band. Our eyes locked and it was so electric that my mother could see it.
We saw each other on and off for years. I think that he knew who I was to him. Honestly I did to. I was afraid of it. We have never had a fight and regardless of the situations in each of our lives we continued to spend time together every once and a while.
I can dream about this man and he calls me. I can think of him and he appears. He can sense when I am hurting or going through. I have finally faced the fact that we are meant to be. Its funny I prayed and asked God to send me my soul mate and he called 30 minutes later. I truely love him and I pray our relationship will continue to develope.

Felicia July 6, 2012 at 3:38 pm

So i never really believed in this whole soul mate thing until recently. I was standing in a bar, in no way looking to meet anyone. Just there for a fun night with the girls. Then across the bar I catch eyes with the most beautiful woman I have seen in my life, other than my mother and daughter of course. It was as if our souls cried out to each other. She sent me a drink, we waved and that was that. But I couldnt get her out of my head. It was as if I knew her from somewhere. I just couldnt figure out how I knew her. The next day I was browsing through my social website and happened across her page. I wrote her and we exchanged numbers. We have been together almost daily since then. When we are apart, me miss each other like we have missed no one before. I describe it as, its my soul craving hers. When we are together, its as if I am with someone I have known my whole life. This is something very new and exciting to me and I now am certain there are soul mates for each and every one of us.

Theresa July 26, 2012 at 1:44 pm

I was walking around town yesterday working, and I saw my friends with these two guys. When they came over and said hi, the only name I caught was his. I found myself overwhelmed with thoughts and feelings about him, but I told myself I was being ridiculous, I had just met him. I continued working and I saw them all again, so I went up and said hi again. We were all talking, and out of nowhere I catch him staring at me and he looks right into my eyes and says, “You look really familiar, like I know you from somewhere.” We looked right at each other for what felt like 2 minutes–no..more like one specific memorable moment, only to be interrupted by my friend pressing her cheek up against mine and smiling. We continued talking and the other guy said “we” (as in their original group) should go get ice cream. I burst out that there was a certain place that was having one dollar ice cream and I had thought of going earlier with my workmate. Then he took a half-step towards me and said, “well, you’re basically done with work then, come with us!” (I was only “done” with work because he had very eagerly taken all my pamphlets.) So we went and I bowed out because I felt awkward butting in on what may have been a double date. I haven’t stopped thinking about him for more than 5 minutes since then, but I’m trapped by the feelings that this could all just be in my head, and also that my friend may have feelings for him. The hardest part is, the outrageously strong feeling I have towards him after that short amount of time. More than just finding him attractive, or that he said something nice to me–more that I just need to talk to him or at least see him again.

Gina August 3, 2012 at 8:32 pm

Thanks for this useful article! Especially the part about that a relationship with a soulmate can be rough. I expected it to be only positive, gazing in each others and all the other cliches in the book etc, haha. So, now I hope you got me on the right path; is it possible for soulmates to split up and reunite after a certain amount of time (when they are both ready)?
I’ve had a relationship with one of my best friends.. it was a fun relationship at first and we had a very strong connection. During this relationship I got into a huge depression because I didnt love myself. He could not help me, and despite of the friendship and the love, it drove us apart. We broke up in a kind of a bad way. I fell in a huge negative spiral and for two years my life hasnt been the easiest. After a while I met someone new. He tought me new things in life and inspired me to do something with my depression. I eventually found out I had to be the one to make an end to it, and my new boyfriend helped me a lot. After 1,5 year my ex contacted me (he was out of the country for a year) , we made up for our fight and decided to give the friendship another shot. He even told me he actually thought of me when he was away and also when he was in another relationship.. Not long after I went traveling with my boyfriend for a few months and my life completely changed, though we grew apart because I had grown so much in a short amount of time and he did not. During this trip I dreamt and thought a lot about my ex, but I decided to push these feelings away. When I came back, I saw him at a party (we share the same friends.) and it was like time stood still. We talked for hours and this electricity between us was buzzing madly. He confessed al his feelings towards me and so did I. We are together ever since and madly in love. It’s like time didn’t exist and we proceeded our previous relationship, whilst happier, cofident and more grown up. I have the feeling that we will stay together forever and we have a certain ‘duty’ in life we have to fulfill together.. it’s crazy but so logic at the same time. He’s exactly like I am, but he also has the qualities I envy and respect,and he therefore completes me, because he teaches me. He’s my bestfriend, but also my most romantic lover. This perfectly balanced combination of.. EVERYTHING makes our relationship ..perfect?!

I have questioned myself wether he really is my soulmate or not, due to the split, but your post has taken my doubt away. I really believe that he made me realize I had to grow as a person (hence the depression) , and that counts for him as well, before we could meet up again. It was destiny that I found my later boyfriend and to learn from him. everything truly happens for a reason!

This universe is so interesting and wonderful, I can’t stop smiling at the thought that there is still so much to learn and to experince and not to forget, love.


xxx Gina (sorry for my bad english, im from europe!)

Jennifer August 14, 2012 at 10:59 pm

I’m 20 years old and I just met a guy 5 days ago who is best friends with my cousin and from the moment we met we connected. Its as if we knew each other forever and beyond. He seems to be a guy version of me and we can just stare at each other for long moments. We finish each other’s sentences and can basically tell what the other is thinking. What is making all this painful is that we just met and he left and it really hurts. I know I’ll see him again and we still talk but it isn’t the same. I’ve never felt like this before and I don’t understand what or why it is I feel this way.?

Bianca October 23, 2012 at 8:31 pm

My guess is that you really fell for this guy and he might be the one for you. Try to keep in touch with him cause you never know what might happen in the future. It’s good that you have things in common and that you can communicate effectively. Distance cannot tear apart people who really want to be with each other and who enjoy each other’s company that much. I’m sure everything will work out in the end! Just stay positive and hope for the best!

Someone who always cares September 26, 2012 at 11:18 am

I’m 25 years old and I know this might sound crazy and peculiar but I still feel a deep inexplicable connection to my lecturer. Well, my ex lecturer to be precise as I’ve graduated. I have this strong and inexplicable feeling towards him for 3 years plus. Honestly, I did freak out and I thought I was crazy and denied this feeling for a year. The harder I denied, the stronger this feeling would be. He is 22 years older than me and a divorcee. I thought this was just an inane infatuation. Nevertheless, he’s not my taste at all. The weirdest things are, I really care about him despite his cold and unapproachable disposition and I want him to be always happy and safe.

I try to forget him, I really do as this sounds crazy but I can’t. I never felt like this before. Most of my friends find this hilarious but not me of course. I feel like my soul is connected to him and sometimes I can feel his presence. I don’t actually know him but oddly, I feel like I’ve known him forever.

This is not obsessive kind of love as I don’t ominously stalk him or force him to love me. I know he would never love me, but I can’t stop praying for his happiness as his happiness is important to me. It has been 3 years and plus I’ve strong feelings for him. I wonder why can’t I move on?

By the way do you think he can sense the connection or am I the only one who feels this?

AAAA October 1, 2012 at 8:35 pm

Well I had seen someone who I had never spoken to. I don’t know what it means but ever since I have seen him (several times) I can’t get him out of my head. Will I ever meet this person again? who is he? should there be a reason why I am unable to get him off my mind. I first saw him in the hallway and I didn’t know what was going through my mind (probably overwhelmed by my exam I had taken) so I didn’t bother.. However I did find him attractive and wasn’t able to get this strange feeling out of me. Then I saw him on again and again. We once made eye contact that was so intense! (something I have never encountered with any person on this planet) If I don’t see that face of his, I don’t know what I’m going to do! =/

mur5151 October 3, 2012 at 7:45 pm

I really liked reading this article. Four years ago a man came into my life, the very first time I looked into his eyes I thought ‘ wow, where do i know him from, i’ve met him before’. This person has become a friend, but a friend that I have had an exceptionally strong connection to. The relationship is a respectful one, as I am married, and he has never crossed any lines. I think about this person a little too much, and have had to manage my feelings , which i have and will continue to do. I respect this persons opinions and I could talk to this person for hours and hours. I am comfortable in his company and have a desire to spend time with him because his conversation is enjoyable, challenging and interesting. I feel like I know at times even what he is thinking but I don’t reveal this. Many times his conversation has made me think about me and my life direction. He is an inspiring person. I do feel he has come into my life for some reason but I do not know the reason.

Leila Alphonse October 4, 2012 at 5:04 pm


My Story is as follows:

I reunited with a guy I met when I was 17 and i’m 38yrs now. He lives in Trinidad and I live in the States. When we met and talk after 20yrs it seem like time hasn’t passed. I feel this deep connection with him. Like I have to tell him everything, I don’t care how it makes me look. I think about him EVERY DAY, I mean he’s the first thing I think about in the morning and the last thing at night. He’s married (unhappy) I know he wants to be wit me (a spiritual reader told me so) and listening to him and seeing his action for myself confirms it. But his wife has a spiritual hold on him (he can’t leave her) I text him like I don’t have any sense and he doesn’t respond all the time, but I know he’s reading my messages. This is driving me crazy, I have this feeling for him that I can’t explain, I never felt like this before. And i’ve been saying this before I started reading up on Soulmates. I tell myself leave him alone but I can’t. I literally think about him every day, it’s going on 1 year this month since we re-connected. I’m in love with this man and I don’t know why. If you ask me does he make me happy, I’ll have to say I don’t know. I haven’t spent that kind of time with him to answer, but I just know I love him and it’s driving me crazy. Any Suggestions?

Ara October 23, 2012 at 4:23 pm

If you love him LEAVE HIM ALONE. If hes the one he will come back, and if you really believe that he is your soulmate. there is nothing to fear. When I thought I lost mine, because he was leaving me for his 6 year unhappy relationship, I thought my soul has excaped from my body, for 4 days I felt numb, the 4th day I saw a way out. I accepted I was totally sad and I was OK w my new personality, and I was actually OK with it. 2 days later turned out he had lost my # and he was dialing a wrong # and he thought I had never wanted to talk to him again, he went thru the same. Every since that moment we both had to be apart to know how strong this was. I love him, so much and every morning I Thank God for making me this miracle and having him in my life. I have learned SOOO MUCH!! Untill you have accepted and learned YOUR LESSSON nothing will change.

Silvergaze October 8, 2012 at 12:27 am

I me this guy who goes to the same school as my best friend and the school I want to go to next year, but it was just like I saw him and it was like he was the only person there. I haven’t really had any experience with dating before, but even though I just met him like two days ago I feel like I’ve known him forever. We haven’t really seen each other much but were keeping in touch by facebook and we both know we like each other.

Tory October 15, 2012 at 11:35 am

He knew the moment he saw me, but I didn’t until three years later. I never thought I’d really love anyone, so it’s still really scary for me, but the idea of ever losing him makes me just want to break down and cry.

AR October 17, 2012 at 12:37 am

About 2 years ago I met this guy while working at a retail store. I can exactly remember when I had that first glance at him. when I first talked to him the first thing I asked him was “do I know you? I feel like we’ve met before”. I thought to myself he might be related to me. On the other hand, he thought mayb we had dance at a party, which was impossible. Later on we realized we had never met before. He was a big flirt always sweet and giving me the nicest compliment. and me although I have always been a shy person with him it was so easy to flirt back, I was so open. Every time we spoke to each other there was direct eye contact..and everytime I looked at him I couldn’t help but smile. It was like a flame burning inside an unexplainable feeling just full of emotions. He left my job;but even after, we had a chance to go on a date, we kissed and it was that one unique feeling..I felt so protected when he was around. Unfornutaly, later on he went back with his ex who he had been dating for 5 years. I was sad but I accepted it. We met Oct 2010 and after months we woudnt talk..but sometimes out of no where he would txt or i’d text him to see how he was doing. Sometimes he would even visit me at work..other times he would call me. We even spent time together when he was hired at the same mall we once met. He then got transfer to anther mall. Last saturday he came over my job with his girl and once I saw her I remember why I had put my feelings to the side. Me and him kept texting each other since we had for the past 3 days, then last night we went for a pizza and the same feelin remained it was like magic we talked, we laughed, we smiled. I always loved spending time with him. When he took me home he gave me a hug and a kiss on my forehead I felt like I never wanted to let go.Today I came back to reality, he has his girl,makes me feel we will never have a chance as much as I wanted to.

Bianca October 18, 2012 at 8:35 pm

Three years ago I was going on a trip with some friends and I was in a train station. It was the first time I ever went on a trip on my own, without my parents. There was such a big crowd in there as many other young people were squirming around the place. Suddenly, my whole body freezed when I saw HIM. He was standing right in front of me and our eyes connected like there was nothing else on this world that was more worthwhile watching than each other. His gaze was so deep and the feelings that I had were so intense that my only thought that came through my mind was: “This guy is the ONE! He is all that I have ever looked for, he is the right one for me!” We didn’t say anything to each other but it seems that he and his friends had the same route..we were both going to the same place. That is how I saw him twice after that but I just couldn’t make the first move and go introduce myself, although he kept staring at me the whole time. A few months later I saw him again in a shopping mall. He was just wandering around, alone. I said to myself that this time I won’t miss the chance to go talk to him so I presented myself. It was a rather awkward moment but he seemed to be pretty open in the end. We started to talk almost everyday since that day and he seemed to like kinda the same stuff I did..and I liked him because he was sensitive, friendly and very intelligent. I found out that he had a girlfriend at the time when I first saw him so that is possibly why he didn’t make a move then. He introduced me to his friends and we started hanging out. Things were going better and better between us but after a while he just faded away. He started to avoid me and didn’t get in touch with me anymore. I knew something must have happened and I discovered after a few months that he had hooked up with a girl from his group of friends whom everybody knew was like his best friend. I was torn apart when I found out about them and I tried to forget him but it was not that easy. I gave up on him and found someone else now but I saw him once again recently when I was with my boyfriend at a rock concert. I couldn’t believe my eyes and I felt his stare electrifying me from the distance. He was watching me from the crowd and I felt the urge to look his way even though I didn’t even know where he was. I think he is single now and I talked to him a couple of times after that but he saw me with my boyfriend and I don’t think he’s gonna make a move on me in this situation. I don’t even know if there is any chance for us to be together in this life because he keeps slipping through my fingers. I really don’t see the point of him coming into my life like this other than to just mess me up. If you have any advice to give me please do so! It would be really helpful. Me and my boyfriend get along pretty well too and I don’t want to give up on something that is real for the illusion that I could be missing out my real soulmate.

Ara October 23, 2012 at 2:15 pm

Well.. This article is totally true. I can help because Ive been thru it.

It was an od circumstance. I remember I met him , he was in this miserable 6 year relationship. He looked so sad, but when I saw him my jaw dropped. I thought OMG that IS the man of my dreams. Of course I didnt try to talk to him, he was taken. I remember my prayer. God please give me something like that. Well 7 months later, at a party we had our first conversation and at that moment my lift changed forever. We talked for hours and our eyes never stopped looking at each other. I remember him saying.. Your amazing! and me running away…. The next day I ran into him again and those eyes kept following me. I felt peace in those eyes like I have never felt, but again I did nothing and went home. The next day he FB me that we should hang out. He was with this girl, I didnt like and well I thought, I want to know more. Its been 8 months since that day and we are so super in love. He ended up leaving her and I became his # 1. Yes he was very confused and so was I. But I had faith, and I knew after that moment there was no way I could live without him, In fact, it feels like I was waiting for him all of my life. My faith , my senses, my intuition has soared! I went witih the flow, not judging anything that was happening. and he always came back to me, even when he tried to break up w me numerous times because he had a relationship to work on. At the end, we both choose love, and he is now helping me in this mission/project I have always dreamed of. Life is amazing and I am grateful. We live together now, I cant spend 1 night away from that mad and I am always happy, I have learned SOOO MUCH!! Dont be afraid to love when you feel it. No rules apply, its is not egotistical love, it is more. its spiritual and it is REAL.

Bianca October 23, 2012 at 3:37 pm

Well, I’m truly happy that it worked out for you! You were very lucky, indeed! My story is a sad one cause it seems that he didn’t feel the same way about me 🙁 Maybe he never admitted that he had feelings for me cause he was in a relationship when I asked him about this..way too late I guess. I really don’t know what to do at this point. I’m having trouble communicating with my current boyfriend and I feel like we’re getting nowhere. He is a dificult person and he finds it hard to let someone into his heart even though he says he loves me and that I look perfect in his eyes. With that guy that I mentioned in my story was a whole different experience. We could talk for hours and he paid attention to every little thing I said or did. That’s the kind of relationship I long for and I’m just sad it didn’t work with him back then. It seems that I’ve lost my chance with him and I am kinda confused at the moment. Thank you for trying to help me, I’m glad to know other people have been in my situation and that they understand what I’m going through. I appreciate you took the time to answer me! Maybe I should just follow my heart and it will lead me to the right decision…

Ara October 23, 2012 at 4:36 pm

Thats the thing… FOLLOW YOUR HEART. It knows everything. TRUST ME. No matter where it takes you, no matter the pain of the world. Soulmate love isn’t egotistical, its spiritual. It develops growth and pulls out who you really are.
I miss him when Im at work (It sucks)and I look forward to oue nights together. Hes my best friend. Dont settle otherwise its showing you don’t believe. No sad faces. Be grateful that you know of him. Know hes out there and he is on his way. Maybe that guy wasn’t the one, but he will be better. In a ratio of a guy I was crushing for 1 year.. my soulmate is infinite better, in other words IT IS NOT FROM THIS WORLD. My soul is free, and that is why I will always love and be grateful to that man.

Ara October 23, 2012 at 6:41 pm

I am REALLY curious why so many of you think you found your soulmate. None of you felt growth? I did. The soulmate is out of this world. Its like all your deepest dreams come true and you go back to your “self” when you were full of ilusion.

Why are you guys dating guys you dont even like? W T F

I never did that

maybe thats why I got what I wanted because I NEVER LOST FAITH

Bianca October 23, 2012 at 8:21 pm

I don’t ever date guys I don’t like but I try to give it a shot with those who might be interested in me also. I know from experience that dreaming about a guy that won’t ever look at you is a great mistake. It has to come from his part see if he’s involving in the relationship and to show you that he truly wants to become a part of your life. I agree with you when you say it has to be an experience that ultimately leads to your personal growth in every aspect of your being. Most importantly, believing that you’re going to find the person that is right for you is essential to the triggering of the whole encountering. I also believe that good timing is also a factor as if you’re not ready to meet your soulmate you’re not gonna be able to find him. Trust your instincts cause they are never wrong! Every time I felt at peace with myself and happy with my life something good has happened to me that improved my experiences.

Jen October 24, 2012 at 5:11 am

Wow, just what I needed to hear.
I met my soulmate almost 2 years ago. I was on vacation by myself in Florida and he was visiting his friend in the same area at the same time. I visited Florida regularly, but I couldn’t seem to find a place to stay where I usually did for the right price. So I booked what I could get and hoped for the best. My choice of flight times was unusual as well. I even had to change my flight once because I wanted to be sure to be back in time for my little nephew’s birthday. I arrived around dinnertime and was very unhappy with the hotel I had to stay in, it was not the cleanest hotel. Tired and hungry after a cross-country flight from California, I went downstairs to the hotel bar/restaurant on the beach. I was there for maybe a couple hours when I saw 2 guys walk in. It felt like time had stopped. I still remember what he was wearing and how he was standing. I am pretty shy, but I knew I needed to talk to this guy. I started talking to his best friend and before I knew it, we were walking along the beach. He was visiting from Canada. After spending most of the night together, he kissed me. It was not like any kiss I had experienced before. My head was spinning and he knew it.
The next day he kept texting me. He wanted to go for dinner and a movie, but I was feeling pretty scared from the intense feelings of the kiss from the night before. I kinda tried to blow him off. He was quite persitant and we hung out the next night. At 32 years old, I had never been in a relationship before. We spent an amazing night together. Chemistry like you would not believe.
The next day, I.left on a planned roadtrip

Jen October 24, 2012 at 5:41 am

phone died on

So the next day I left on a planned roadtrip with a friend. Marc and I were texting the whole time. It was only a couple of days, but I could not wait to see him again. Turned out he had to fly back to Canada on the same day as I did, Valentine’s Day. We spent one last amazing night together.

We spent most of the night talking. He told me about his dreams as I listened with tears in my eyes. I had no idea what I was feeling, but it was good and so real. He’s about 20 years older than I, divorced with two kids.

We kept in touch after we both flew home at about the same time on the same day (turns out he intuitively had changed his flight as well). And our relationship continued through Skype and a few trips back and forth. My feelings for him grew stronger, even though we were apart.

He later told me when he first saw me that night at the bar, that everything in the room stopped when he saw me. His first thought was “there she is”.

I’ve been living with him in Canada for about a year and a half now. We plan to marry this summer. I really like the quote about soulmates being a mirror. Although the first year was unbelievably good, it has gotten a bit harder. But I know we have both been growing as a result of this relationship. We both have our strengths and weaknesses. I do know that I love him more than I have ever loved another person and cannot wait to spend the rest of our lives together. But I still can’t get over that wonderful, mysterious feeling that when I look into his eyes, he sees down to the pit of my soul. That his eyes seemed so familiar when we first met…

Bianca October 24, 2012 at 6:42 am

That’s a really interesting story! I’m glad you two worked it out together and kept in touch with each other when you were apart. I’m still confused as to what I should be doing myself but I think maybe I just need to be more pacient and wait to see what happens next. I have been told the same thing by my boyfriend, that the moment he saw me the first time he knew I was the woman he had been waiting for. He even told me he couldn’t sleep that whole night because he was thinking about me and he was asking himself why he wasn’t able to talk to me more. The good part is that I felt the same way too..when I got back home I couldn’t get him out of my mind and I kept smiling for no reason. I was just so happy that I met him that basically nothing else mattered for me in those moments. We’ve been together for 2 months now but I now study in another country so it’s been tough for me lately. I know that in a few months I’ll be coming home for good and we can enjoy each other again but I’m not sure if we’re going to last until then. He says he loves me and that he’s going to wait for me but I won’t take this for granted as I’ve been hurt before many times and I don’t trust guys that much anymore. Hope he’s going to be more supportive this whole period of time as I need assurance from him that he actually cares about me.

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ashley November 7, 2012 at 7:40 pm

okay, so im dating this boy, and i met him thru my brother. things were are good, he treats me right, but i feel like there is no spark. there is no doubt that he loves me, and i love him too. were just not meant to last forever ya know. and this other boy i met a long time ago, who has always been my friend, started hanging around more and more. he liked me the whole time. i was to stupid to realize that this man could be my perfect soulmate. we share a deep connection, and he is so gentle. he makes me feel whole, and when he isnt around i feel weak and empty.

but for some reason, i know i cant be with him either.
because he is my soulmate in karma. i fucked over this girl that i once called my friend, bc she dated the one boy, that i was juuust retarded enough to give everything too. & now i feel like everything the radio, tv, people around, basically everything happens for a reason, & when he is around there iis no hiding anything from this man. it just spills out naturally.
although he has seen almost all of my mistakes he still tells me he will always be there for me, but in a way i think he is scared of me, bc the whole time he liked me, he had no idea, and within a few short months he found too much about me out. he read me like a book.

i just want to be able to find a way to either be with my soulmate or move on from this karma, bc it is so painful.
ive never had a guy treat me the way he did before all the bs happened. i deserved it. but i hope my karma wasnt to “lose” my soulmate ; could that be true?

william November 14, 2012 at 1:05 am

I know the feeling , im 25,when I was 15 a new girl moved to our school. She ended up in my Spanish class. It was ten years ago but i still remember when she walked in class, every detail. I knew as soon as our eyes met we were mutually drawn together.such an electrifying feeling, we ended up dating for a few months, broke up over something stupid. I would still go to the waffle house and see her every now and again. One night she said sher was moving back to her hometown, I stayed t,ill her shift ended and walked her out. We hugged and as we stood in the parking lot and ended up kissing her.

william November 14, 2012 at 1:27 am

She asked me why I had not said anything , she still felt the same as well. She ended up moving, now she is married. I saw her a couple of months ago and I still felt the same feeling as if it were yesterday. I dated a girl after her for six years until we split in July 2011. I was really messed up. Thought their was no one for me and all hope had been lost. It seemed the harder I looked I would either find nothing or end up with someone I really didn’t wanna be with. I quit dating or looking about 6 months ago, then a last Saturday I was invited to a party by an older female friend and her boyfriend, I attended. While their I caught a time of this woman setting at a table , she ended up being my friends daughter wow didn’t know she had a daughter! The familiar feeling. I didn’t say anything more to her that night , I thought she was with another guy there. So after the party was over I went home and got a call after party at my friends house. I went it ended up being just her me and her mooms bf sitting around the fire. We ended up talking and it was instant comfort, I felt no need to hide anything,or fear of her judging me just unexplainable! She said it was odd that she felt the same way, she had never had that happen and was normally a pretty closed person, since them we have been spending alot of time together, seems like it passes so fast especially when we just sit outside and do absolutely nothing. Now im trying to tell her mom without getting killed. Oh…she is 22 just sayin.

Laura November 28, 2012 at 2:48 pm

Is it possible to know somebody is your soulmate without ever speaking to them?

Sometimes i just feel something and when i look somewhere there he is and he’s looking back.Even in a crowded room i just feel something and just look to him indistinctly and he’s always looking back.When i look at his eyes my head hurts and they look like they’re(his eyes)are saying so much.We barely even see each other but when we do it’s like somebody turned a light on inside my brain.I can’t get him out of my head,ever.There isn’t a reason i should feel like this about a practical stranger but i just can’t help it.

Please just tell me straight if i’m being delusional or not.Somebody needs to tell me other then my head.

Bianca November 28, 2012 at 4:13 pm

Of course it is possible! I experienced love at first sight too and I couldn’t get him out of my mind either..for months in a row..until I saw him again and I just introduced myself to him and we started a beautiful friendship. Things didn’t work out as I wished in the end because he ended up being with somebody else and we stopped talking to each other after a while. But who knows? Maybe someday I will see him again and he will change his perspective on me. We just keep running into each other for no reason. I saw him several times since he got himself a girlfriend and I had the same sensations that you described. I felt his gaze from the crowd and it was like I knew exactly where he was as I looked straight in his direction. The best way to find out if you are made for each other is to actually go and talk to him, see if he responds to you in a positive way. You can’t avoid each other forever, especially if you say you have feelings for him and that you get the chance to see him from time to time. Be brave and see what happens! Good luck! 😀

Mike M. November 30, 2012 at 7:50 pm

I think I have found my soul mate even though it goes against everything I ever believed in before. I was at my doctors office a month ago when I locked eyes with a girl who works in there, a girl I have seen many times before and who I thought was pretty but nothing else at all. After leaving I did not think about her or our eye contact what soever and then it me very hard as first thing I noticed was my stomach tighten up and then all of a sudden a deep love for her a feeling of familiarization and a feeling that she felt the same way, all this happened in the first couple seconds and I have not been able to get her out of my mind. I wanted to talk to her but am afraid of 2 things, 1 that she will think I am very strange and 2 that she feels the same and then it would go against every thing I believed in and then I will have to rethink everything from me being an atheist to wondering about spirits. I have been married for 16 years and I love my wife and never strayed or even thought about it but this love I feel towards my soulmate is uncomparable by 200 times to anything I have ever experienced and I do not know what to do. This girl is probably half my age and has so much growing and learning to do that I can not even think about being part of her life but I really want to, so I am not sure if finding your soul mate is a blessing or a curse and I do not know what I have done to deserve this pain.

Auras December 8, 2012 at 12:06 pm

Hi Everyone. I felt compelled to tell you about my story. 4 weeks ago I went to a friendsafter work drinks and met my soulmate. I noticed him almost straight away, but it was only after I’d had a few drinks I asked my friend who he was etc. I was asking this as he came over to me and my friend (who he knows) and introduced himself. That was it for the rest of the evening we were only interested in talking to each other. The chemistry was noticable to everyone and it felt like there was nobody else in the room. We exchanged numbers as although we work for same company, we work in different offices. He had texted by time i had gotten home to see if he could meet me for lunch the next day (i was working from his office). He went to our mutual friend in the morning to get my surname to send me an instant message on the internal work system and we talked pretty much all day. We met for lunch and sat across from each other grinning like cheshire cats. I found myself telling him all about the loss of my grandmother 2 years prior and how it affected me so much. We were in constant contact for the next week and saw each other 5 times. Everytime we were together the intensity was like nothing else Ive ever know. We literally couldn’t take out eyes off each other and he said to me “Where did you come from last week, out of nowhere and mesmerized me?” All of our conversations are about things that matter, like values, upbringing, our deepest throughts and passions in life – we don’t talk about what we did when were out last saturday and which friends we hang around with. Within this first week we were out on a dinner date, smiling at each other and he made some comment about not having known each other this time last week and he said “that sounds so weird saying that i didn’t know you a week ago” and i agreed 100%, its like i know exactly who he is, what he’s feeling and it just gives me such a feeling of happiness and uplifts me, i can also tell it feels the same for him.
He was only 4 weeks out of an LTR when we met and he has pulled back now as he says he thinks that we have taken things too fast and shouldn’t have rushed it, should have gone slowly from the start, but it felt so right…… I have had terrible anxiety, stress, insomnia since we met as i just felt like all my senses were in overload. I think meeting him has prompted a spiritual awakening. I have always been interested in the psychic world, and am very intuative about things. However, in the past few weeks, i have been having lucid dreams, my intuition and feelings are more intense, i even saw him during a lucid dream with a purple aura. Its like even though we are not around each other and interaction is limited the connection is still there, i know how he is feeling. I him the pulling back from me and i asked him about it over IM and he admitted that i was right etc, but i asked if i he would meet me in person this week to talk – he agreed. Now we have met in person, there is no doubt in my mind that the connection and the chemistry is there, but he looks so stressed out! i haven’t asked him to tell me what is wrong, but he is clearly going through something (I am assuming to do with ex). I am ready for this relationship and intensity, but i don’t think the timing is right for him at the moment. For once in my life i am able to 100% confidence to step back and have paitence with this man. I know this is what he needs me to do, to give him the space and time to sort his head out so that if we do move forward we can do so completely. In the meantime, i am sending him healing and love and using the time apart to develop myself. I have been meditating and trying to expand on the empath skills it seems that i have – i now have explainations for a lot fo the negative things which have happened to me in the past! I know this sounds very dramatic and profound, but it’s all true. Someone else wrote above it’s about the heart knowing, and it does for sure, you just have to believe in it and trust in the universe for things to turn out the way they are meant to. I have spoken to 2 clairvoyant mediums in the past 2 weeks and they confirmed nearly everything i had picked up and felt. Learning to trust your instincts is the best lesson and skill that we have to get us through life and to make us happy. 🙂

Something about the eyes December 25, 2012 at 10:41 pm

I am so glad I found this!
I went on a holiday a few weeks ago and the first time I saw this guy we were doing a quiz and he was running it. We just looked at each other and it was as though everything stopped (cliche I know) but afterwards he came up to me and said that he had seen me before- that something was so familiar. I also felt this weird feeling of familiarity but I just tried to laugh it off. The next night when we were all cleaning up he came over to say hello and I stood up and our eyes met and it felt so wondeful, yet so strange! He sort of looked around the outline of my far (it was quite dark) and then back at my eyes and although we were a bit of a distance apart we felt so close! I looked away feeling a little awkward/shy and looked back at him and it was asthough his eyes made me freeze. Everything stopped and it was as though I was being sucked in. I said goodnight and as I walked off I couldn’t help but turn around and he was still looking. Often when we were just sitting around and he was across the room with other people our eyes would meet for a considerable amount of time and I could feel other people sort of looking and wondering what was going on but I couldn’t stop! A few days later I was relaxing on a hammock reading a book and I looked up and there he was just smiling with his beautiful smile! I cracked up laughing and so did he and he came over more seriously and said I wanted to tell you something. Do you want me to tell you? I felt a little nervous but didn’t want to lose the chance so I said yes of course! And he bent down and said.. your eyes. Your eyes are so … beautiful. It’s like you have God behind your eyes. You have eyes from God. Then he said, the other night at the bar I couldn’t stop looking at you. At your eyes. At the shape of your face- its just beautiful. He said, has anyone ever told you that before? And I said no. And then he said people need to tell you these things. People are shy but I’m not, I wanted to tell you. I wish I could have your eyes. And then we had this beautiful conversatiom about him and about our lives. Another day we were sitting together and he said, you know what I told you before? Well you know all the people hear, they are talking about it too. I walk around and I hear people saying things. She is so happy, always just so happy. And I told him he was lying, but he insisted he wasn’t. He told me I was like an angel. That when I’m far away he often doesn’t see anything- just the clothes, like an angel floating on the earth. He taught me so much and I’m sad that I never really got to thank him for that (but I’m in the process of writing him a letter right now). He was the one who taught me to be happy- to feel wonderful all of the time like life was a miracle, because it truly is. When I first saw him I admired his endless happiness and life he had in his eyes. It was as though they were so alive and sparkling with joy! But it’s funny how he saw that in me? Maybe we met to show each one of us how to grow and remind each other how wonderful life really is. Because he did just that, he brought me back to life and now I’m away from him I fear that I am losing this wonderful feeling, but I’ve made a deal with myself that I will never ever forget the way I feel and the way I felt with him. Hopefully I’ll see him in a few months, but even if I never do I really feel so grateful for our meeting. He really was sent to me by God. Sorry it is so long and poorly written- trying to type it on a phone 🙂

Something about the eyes December 25, 2012 at 10:44 pm

**outline of my face. Sorry!

ashley December 30, 2012 at 4:02 pm

I have more than one soulmate in my life. I have Adam, Andy, Ross and Dan. Each of these men have shaped my life in some way and with each of these men i share an unbreakable bond. I’ll start with Dan.
I fell in love with Dan the moment i heard him playing guitar at a bonfire over 7 years ago. I was mesmerized. The burning logs left a glowing halo around him. Staring at him, I found myself not caring who saw my passion. The kind of soulmates Dan and I share today are that of best friends. We were both too fearful of ruining what we had between each other to take our relationship any farther. We both admit to our chemistry but have both decided that we don’t need the physical aspects of each other to be happy. We have never even kissed each other yet we know the magnitude of our connection and never leave it alone. This is my friend soulmate.
Next comes Andy. We are the forbidden soulmates. Always connected no matter distance or time, and always coming into each others lives at the crucial points. The love between us is clear and our physical attraction is unreal. Andy appears in my life once or twice a year. Nothing ever changes. We talk and discuss about how our relationship happens for a reason and it usually ends with a kiss and we go our separate ways. The problem with Andy and I is that the timing is never right. When together we stop time, while everyone around us speeds time up. The universe teases us. Andy is my forbidden soulmate in the fact that circumstances never allow us to have an ongoing relationship, just bits and pieces over the past 7 years.
Ross is the classic story of how our eyes met across the room. I looked up from lifting weights in the gym one day and there he was staring at me gaping smile and all. I feel when he looks at me. We started talking on the phone at night. Never meeting in person as I wanted to avoid cheating on my current boyfriend Adam and i didnt trust myself to hold back from Ross. After a few nights of talking things got so deep and so real that we both knew we were soulmates. We called each other out on it. I cannot act on it though as I am in love with Adam. What the hell do you do when you meet another soulmate when you feel you already are with one? So i broke his heart. I let Ross go. All the while telling each other that we are in each others lives for a reason and we just need to figure out that reason
In fact with Dan, Andy and Ross, each of these men have brought up the “everything happens for a reason. You are in my life for a reason.” And for years now I’ve been trying to train myself on how to recognize what those reasons are.
Then there is Adam. Adam and I did not connect at first sight. Or second sight. Or even third. Three years with this man and we are working in reverse. Adam is my proof that soulmates can grow together over time. We had nothing in common at the start, and each day we learn something new from one another and build up our relationship. Soulmates can be made through pure love. Sometimes hard work is involved. It hasn’t been an easy road with Adam but our love and support is slowly progressing our relationship to the point where we feed off of each other, learn life’s lessons together and become soulmates.
Stop and think for a moment: It’s said that a soulmate is somebody with whom you’ve shared a past life and past connection that seems to pick right back up where it left off, correct? If this is true then at some point one has to start that first interaction and that first past connection with a soulmate. They don’t grow on trees, they grow in love. Creating a soulmate relationship is the most rewarding and life changing in my opinion.

eureka January 1, 2013 at 11:44 pm

I believe the man who have been pursuing me relentlessly for 3 months is my soul mate and it’s very hard to say that I cannot be with him, even though I want to be so desperately. No because there is so much difference in our age and our backgrounds. And we are totally different in every way.
Observing the way he pursued me, I thought he was going to destroy the building I was living in, if I rejected him. That was very scary.
He got rid of all the male species around me.
I rejected him though. Because it just is not good. I saw a lots of trouble on both sides.
Though, I still get his visions and his name pops here and there where ever I go from time to time.
But I think he hates me.
May be he is not my twin soul mate but a karmic soul mate.

eureka January 1, 2013 at 11:50 pm

And my heart melts everytime I get his vision.

eureka January 2, 2013 at 1:58 am

This is one cool soul mate who is so calm and collected but still loving him very much.

Nicole January 15, 2013 at 9:09 am

I think I have found my soulmate, but I don’t know how to tell him. I get so happy when I’m with him and he understands everything I say. I’m really the shy type, any suggestions??

Selma January 15, 2013 at 1:38 pm

You should just try to talk to him more and see if the feeling is mutual. If he likes you too, he will let you know at some point. Be yourself and just enjoy your time with him as much as you can. You don’t have to push yourself to tell him how you feel if you don’t feel ready for it. Take things slowly and let the time tell if he is really the one for you!

Arthur January 20, 2013 at 11:39 pm

I was turning to begin the self-checkout at the local big box hardware store when I was struck to the core by a bolt of spiritual lightning. The young woman who stood before me, inquiring how we were doing today, was somehow as familiar to me as my own face. I wanted to blurt out, “Oh my God! It has been so long! It is so very wonderful to see you again! I have missed you so!” The only problem was, I could not recall having ever met her before.

Being unforgivably shy, and though I may have responded positively or, in such total shock, I might have stuttered and mumbled, I definitely turned away and continued with my self-check procedure. Suddenly there was a slight tug on my t-shirt as this young woman, possessed of the easiest most beautiful eyes I’d ever seen, began to relate how she’d attended the event that the shirt celebrated. And thus began the most relaxed, but invigorating conversation that I’d had in ages, though it lasted a mere moment, perhaps two.

Yet before it was done, she knew my name, my vocation, where I could be found each day, and that I needed to repair my toilet. I knew of her only that she was from Carbondale, IL, and was, in the most unassuming manner, the most beautiful woman I’d ever met. So stupified was I in this sudden exchange that I failed to ask her name.

Then my time was up. She was forced by conditions to assist other customers. I invited her to drop by the urban garden it was my job to tend and she promised, with a soul soothing smile, to do so.

Walking out of the hardware store I recognized something cosmic had just occured. And I couldn’t wait for the day I would discover her milling about the tomato vines or plucking cucumbers, squash or unearthing carrots in my garden. But wait I did, though never did she arrive.

As time passed, I grew more confused by what had happened. I began to wonder if it was only I that was so stricken by such a deep familiarity that day at the self-check. So, I returned to the store for the sole purpose of seeking her out and, after that, I was uncertain. But she was not to be found. And I have returned many times since hoping to once again be magically frozen by her quiet eyes or eased into an enduring peace by her beautiful smile. I imagine buying the most useless and insignificant thing just so as to tempt fate towards a sudden, yet unmistakable tug on my t-shirt.

But she is gone. To where, I do not know. I even wonder if the meeting ever actually took place. Maybe it was a waking dream. Perhaps it was an hallucination. I can only hope that it was a hint of things to come. And though it lasted but a few moments, and though I may never see her again, I will never forget our ‘reunion,’ and I will never again be the same.

I miss you, Carbondale. I look forward to our next moment together.

NiaJean February 16, 2013 at 1:04 pm

The first time we met eyes, everything
my life had and was didn’t matter. I
felt a quick rush of excitement as his
blue eyes wash over me.
He’s beautiful.

andie February 19, 2013 at 7:57 am

i still love my ex boyfriend , even though were already in our seperate path . were both college student from different university , i broke up with him 3 years ago . but then i realized that it was my very big mistake . I still thinking about him until now and i admit i still love him , is there a chance to have a relationship to him again?

andie February 19, 2013 at 8:00 am

please , i need an advice T.T
i dont know what to do toward my feelings . am i going to let go my or hold on to my feelings ?

katie February 19, 2013 at 9:40 am

I say you let him go…if he wanted to be with you he would have done something by now. I’ve been in a similar situation and if the guy doesn’t do anything to get back with you he’s not worth it, trust me 😉 you can do better, I assure you!!!

Elizabeth February 27, 2013 at 7:10 pm

August 1988 I laid my eyes on the most beautiful man I had ever seen in my life. I felt love at first sight, without a doubt.

I went to a town meeting with some friends (I never go to those and haven’t gone to one since). They asked if I wanted to go along. Oddly enough, when I asked my friend a couple weeks ago if she remembered going to that meeting, she said she didn’t, but I remember it like it was yesterday. It was about the town’s hiring policies for the local police department. I had no idea that there would be police officers from other towns showing up. I thought it was just for town people. So, I was surprised to see a bunch of state troopers coming in.

A few troopers walked down and sat along the edge of the wall near where we were sitting. I glanced at them, but then one made me take a second look, and after that, I couldn’t take my eyes off of him. I was close enough that I could see his name tag. He had the most beautiful eyes and the sweetest face. We were in the meeting for about 2 hours or so. I had the urge to go sit next to him, but of course, I didn’t. I felt like telling the trooper beside him to move so I can sit next to him, lol. We made eye contact once and when that happened, it was like I was struck by lightning. There was something familiar about him, but couldn’t quite place it.

I didn’t know if he was married or not, but I found out later (through the internet) that he was, but he divorced 3 years later, and remarried a couple of years after his divorce. I wasn’t married at the time. I had divorced 2 years earlier (alcoholic/abusive spouse), so was definitely not looking to do it again anytime soon. Besides, I would never mess with a married man. I never saw him again in person since that day, but he has crossed my mind every single day since. As crazy as this sounds, it affected me so much that I was unable to get into any serious relationship for 8-10 years after. Something was blocking me. All I could do was think of was him. Overwhelming feeling of unconditional love. I always wondered how he was doing, hoping he was OK, and safe.

It wasn’t until then end of 2012 that I saw some recent pictures of him and a video of him on one of the local news channels in my home state. I still feel the same about him. It’s like my heart stopped. I’ve never ever felt this way about a person in my life….EVER. I’m 48 years old and it is not like I’ve never experienced love before. I’ve been married before and I’m re-married now. This is somehow different. It feels vastly different. It’s not a crush or obsession, been there done that when I was in high school, lol. I know the difference. He has been in my heart for 24.5 years and I don’t see him leaving it anytime soon. I’m drawn to him like a moth to a flame. He still is as gorgeous to me now that he is almost 51 as he was when I first saw him when he was 26. I adore that man. I see such a beautiful aura around him. Something compels me to search for information about him to know more about him. I guess to fill in the blanks.

I’ve also seen some pictures of him from when he was in high school on and I didn’t even have to see his name to be able pick him out. I just knew somehow. My heart stopped when I saw those pictures, too. Like I was stunned. How this man can affect me like this after all these years is beyond my comprehension. There has to be a name for this kind of experience. Not sure what this is. I know it can’t be normal to have these strong feelings for a man for almost 25 years just by locking eyes for a few seconds at a town meeting, but it is what it is. My feelings don’t diminish, but instead they get stronger. With a normal relationship, crush, or obsession, whatever name you choose to call it, will gradually fade away into a distant memory. I have days I wish I never went to that meeting and seen him because of the pain I’m going through now and have been through before. If only there was a time machine. If there was a way to stop this, I’d be the first in line to do it.

I don’t live in the same state anymore. I moved away (when I got married again) 11 years after I first saw him. He is still on my mind every day. I can’t tell you how much I want to let him know what I’m feeling, but I can’t, and won’t. I mean, I know how I can contact him, but I won’t do it. He retired from the state police and moved on to another job. He re-married and has kids. I would never do something like that. I’d never want to cause anybody any kind of pain or drama. This is something I keep to myself. Even if I was able to tell him, I’d never expect anything out of it. I’d just want him to know that someone out there loves him unconditionally and wishes nothing but the best in life for him. Peace, happiness, and good health for all of his days.

I often wonder if he even remembers me at all, but I doubt it. I do live in the real world, ya know, lol. Part of me hopes he does remember me in a positive way and that someday he would try to find me. I’m here….all he has to do is look. He’s not on Facebook, but if he ever did get on there, he would find me easily enough. If it is meant to happen, it will. However, he will be eternally in my heart.

When I see pictures of the community hall where I saw him, it makes me so emotional. I physically feel it in my chest. I truly feel like I left a part of my soul in that building that day. I’ve held this all inside of me for all these years and it feels good to put my story out there. I know he will never see this, but it is a bit of a release for me.

Jennifer Bunny March 2, 2013 at 8:21 pm

That would be Macaulay Culkin, but that of course is ridiculous. But the only time that I was locked in a gaze with someone across a crowded room was with him. He started it too. All those feelings you listed would apply. So whoop. Macaulay Culkin is hereby my soulmate.

Lindsay March 4, 2013 at 3:44 pm

LOL! That’s friggin’ awesome. Maybe you and Mac are in the same soul group and you’ll reconnect again some day. 😉

Chris March 6, 2013 at 5:26 am

Lindsey, I’m in a situation with someone I feel is my soulmate from the first time I saw him across the room, and when we had our first kiss it was like fireworks like something I has never felt before. There’s so much to this story, but I feel like I don’t want to let him go and I think there’s a part of him that wont let me go either. I’m not sure if he feels the soulmate thing too, but I do know that he is scared of commitment and a real connection and he likes to keep me at a distance. Is it possible that he feels this too but just doesn’t know it? Will he ever realize?

Ashley March 6, 2013 at 9:02 pm

I know I have met my soul mate, it was 4 years ago, we would sit in her car in front of my house and talk for hours about nothing in particular, our first kiss was amazing, other people could even see the love over flowing from our souls..we went our separate ways but we always end up back to one another, and im still in love with her to this day when I see her I see my soul in her eyes, she has had my heart from the first moment our eyes met.

Shar March 7, 2013 at 12:53 pm

I hear lots about soulmates , in both ways, they exist and they don’t. I think they do, I just don’t know if I have actually met mine or not. But I would like to share my experience.
I started a new job. The first day of work, I saw a man walk by. He smiled at me, so I smiled back then he swung his head around and smiled again. I just brushed it off because I didn’t find him attractive, and I figured he WASN’T my kind of guy. I didn’t ignore him, but for the next 2 months I really didn’t pay a whole lot of attention to him even though he walked by 2 times a day! But after a while I did start to notice that any chance he got, he would give me this big friendly smile. One day he walked by with a co-worker and his co-worker gave me a really friendly, ‘I noticed you’, type of smile. The first guy gave his co-worker a very noticeably, that’s not acceptable look, and that triggered my curiosity. Why would he care? One week later he decided to intoroduce himself, and start a little conversation. I won’t lie, when he was walking toward me, in my mind I was thinking, “no way! I’m not attracted to you, I’m sure your not my type and there is no way this is going to happen!” But he said hello and I looked into his eyes and he looked into mine, and honestly it was like a bomb exploded. I literally had to step back. His eyes seemed to go forever and I got scared, real scared. I saw too much in his eyes. It was like in a half of a second I knew everything about him. I knew what kind of a guy he was, it seemed as though I could see his future. I felt like I was looking right through him. And it felt like he was looking right through me. I remember thinking that I needed to look away, he is going to know too much about me! And I remember feeling like I knew him from somewhere, which was impossible since we grew up in differnt countries. It was like I had knowen him all my life, he just hadn’t physicaly been there, that’s literally how it felt. It was such a calming feeling. I felt so relaxed and comfortable with him. I felt as though I could tell him anything and he would understand. I felt like I just wanted to talk to him forever. I saw things in his eyes that scared me. Not in a bad way, just in a OMG this couldn’t be happening, way. I remember feeling like he could see right through me. After we finished talking, I felt like I was floating on air, and I could not stop smiling! It was actually embarrassing. I’m a very careful person and I’m really skeptical with men, so I thought that I fell to fast and this just isn’t reality so I ignored him. And I knew he would be worth my time if he was persistent. And he was, he was very persistent. It was like knew exactly what to say and do. I felt like someone had given him a manual on how to make me fall for him. And I fought it tooth and nail the whole way. I felt it was very irrational of me to be feeling all these feelings for a man I had just met. But I saw so much in him I liked. He WAS my kind of guy, even though I still tried to ignore it. I like to take things slow and I knew when I met him he would too, and I was right, he did. I remember trying to figure out his nationality so I made up a little senario in my head…. An Italian, that still lives at home and his grandparents live there as well and his grandma is an amazing cook and all he eats is pasta! I remember laughing at myself thinking thats impossible! But one day he decided to tell me all about himself and he almost said that in those exact words! That’s how it is, he is Italian and yes he lives at home and yes his grandparents live there too and his grandma does all the cooking and he looked at me and said “all I eat is pasta!” That still makes me giggle. I kept trying to push him away though because a relationship just wouldn’t work right now. We continued to talk during his time in my city, he lives over 30hrs away, and the more I got to know him, the more I wanted to never leave him. But I don’t want to hold him down, I didn’t want to be selfish and try and hang on to him when I’m not ready so I decided to just say goodbye and let him go. He seemed to have the same feeling, although at least he was smart enough to open up to me and tell me everything about himself, his life, his goals, his dreams, everything. I wish i would have as well. He is so sweet. He even told me about his previous relationship. It was like he wanted me to know everything. He left 2 weeks ago. And sometimes a regret not telling him how I feel. He is the most intelligent, honerable, genuine, kind, gentle, respectful man I have ever met. He treated me just the way I wanted to be treated. He seemed to know what didn’t impress me, even though I had never told him. One time we were talking to another person and that person made a comment that I did not like, and he seemed to know that and before I even had a chance to react, he rudely interupted the conversation and let that person know that wasn’t acceptable, I was shocked, I still don’t know how he knew that. Three days before he left we were talking, and I was working, so he said that she should let me go and work since we had been talking for about 45min. And his words were “well, I had better get back to work and let you get back to work.” Then he shook his head, smiled, looked down at the floor and said, “ya, I had better go, I could stand here and talk to you forever!” And that gives me hope, I’m sure he felt what I felt the first time we talked and I know there was a connection. He understood me too well, and I hardly think he didn’t notice. The day after that he bought me a Starbucks and we walked the mall together. It was the most memorable moment of my life. I felt like I could walk beside him forever. He was just there for me, he was a shoulder I could cry on and a protector when I needs him, and he was always there when I needed someone to talk to. I wish I would have had the guts to tell him, but I think it worked out the right way. If we are ment to be, we will soon realize it. We said a short sweet goodbye. He wished me the “best in everything and I hope your life becomes just what you want it to be!” There was such an instant connection and lots of mornings I wake up and I turn over expecting to see him there. And maybe one day he will!

Anyway, that’s my story! I’m not sure, did I meet my soulmate? Or did I just fall for the wrong man? Only time will tell!

Someone March 11, 2013 at 4:56 am

So an how our eyes met across the room story well my freshman year of college I left and went to an out of state university while engaged to my high school sweetheart who went somewhere else. Well our first football game was an away game and I went to a party to watch it at a friend of a friends place. At this place a guy, for the purpose of the story we will call him Jim, stopped by for maybe 5 minutes. But during those 5 minutes it was like our souls connected on some weirdly deep level. Now then long story short within the next 2 weeks I had left my fiancé for him and was pursuing a very passionate relationship with this person. That same night of the football game he ended up finding me on Facebook and inviting me to a party. Once we both had the slightest amount of alcohol in our systems we couldn’t stop kissing and smiling. But it was not really physical it was crazy. But anyways John and myself tried for 4 months to make this relationship work but his friends always hated me and eventually the drama became to much and he had to choose, leaving me in his past. Well now it’s been almost 14 months since he walked away and I still haven’t moved on, and from talking with mutual friends I know he hasn’t entirely either. And even thought we don’t talk anymore whenever I run into him at a party on campus when we make eye contact it’s like my soul jumps for joy and my heart screams in pain. If anyone has any answers for this phenomenon let me know?

Lost in the sky. March 18, 2013 at 11:53 pm

“when we make eye contact it’s like my soul jumps for joy and my heart screams in pain”

Oh I know that feeling too well.
I can’t really explain the phenomenon because I am just as stunned by it. :[

Elizabeth March 11, 2013 at 6:53 pm

I don’t know if this person is my soulmate but I guess you can decide. I was told to attend to an 80’s cover band show with a friend. She works with one of the guys and also knows the band in general. Well when I stepped into the bar, the band members were wearing red leather suits so it’s really hard not to notice them. But there was one specific man that caught my attention. I guess I saw him looking at me first and when he had pulled me up on stage, he was singing so close to my face that my instincts were to give him a kiss. The thing is he is married, I saw the ring at the very beginning, but he was very fond of me. I know, it’s his alter ego… but the way that we look at each other… it is as if the rest of the world doesnt exist. Everyone can see it. I found myself coming to the shows every other week. From what I hear, he finds himself looking for me. We know we cant be with each other, he has been married for 20 years, this has never happened to him before by any other girl. I don’t want to break a happy home… We are basically keeping our distance… I was asked not to come for awhile. This is only the basic story of it… It’s just so long to describe…

Lost in the sky. March 18, 2013 at 11:41 pm

Do any of you know a way to distract myself away from feeling things towards my soulmate?
Long story short we met while were in our early teens and were both in our twenties now. The moment he walked into the room everything happening around me seemed to pass and his bright blue eyes locked to mine a minute seemed like forever. I don’t know what it was but I was instantly deeply attracted to him, not just physically. I felt as if some unknown force was pulling me towards him. Needless to say I had a boyfriend who I really liked so I felt so ashamed. Me and my soul mate talked that day, I noticed we would both stare at each other in a sense of longing and seemed very eager to talk to each other. I shrugged it off.
Over that year through a school program ( for teens with behavioral problems which I was there for the same reason as him being as we were depressed due to abuse.) we saw each other twice a month. Those days were the happiest days of my life we connected so deeply and the conversation never seemed forced. As it happen my boyfriend at the time was becoming very emotionally and slightly physically abusive. The next time I met with my soulmate he instantly knew something was wrong and we spoke about it. It turned out he had a girlfriend and she was very physically abusive towards him. We grew closer and closer I considered him a best friend and I soon realized I was undoubtedly in love with him. I thought about him from the moment I awoke to the time it came for me to sleep.
Time pasted the year was over. We were entering high school for our first year and we promised to keep talking through summer. But he went to visit his dad and I was being controlled by boyfriend at the time who had forbid me from talking to my soulmate after one of my “friends” told him that me and my soulmate were very close.
That summer was hell. The abuse became much worse I was so terrified I wouldn’t speak to anyone and if I did my eyes and head were down. I remember specifically my town has a festival every year in August and me and my boyfriend at the time were walking around and all I heard from him was “Look its boyfriend.” at first I was confused and hurt HE was my boyfriend. I fallowed his gaze and landed on my soulmate he smiled at me and I froze looking away from him. As my boyfriend dragged me away I couldn’t help but turn to look back at my soulmate his features sad but he looked at me with intensity. He understood.

We entered high school and after a bad break up with my abusive boyfriend. Me and my soulmate ran into each other at school and everything was perfect. We decided to date each other. We dated for 3 months we had a very passionate relationship physically and emotionally and everything was wonderful in till one day walking home from school together I felt something was off and he asked to talk to me alone from everyone. He broke up with me saying that it wasn’t me it was him and he still wanted to be friends. My heart felt like it had exploded in my chest I couldn’t breathe and started to cry and walked away from him quickly trying to hide my tears he called my name and I turned to face him for just a second his face soaked in tears his blue eyes looked like a rainy day.

For the rest of the year I tried to avoid him but he kept on trying to talk to me and make me jealous he had gotten back with his ex and would purposely do hurtful things. I couldn’t stand being around the school with having to deal with him and my abusive ex. I transferred schools. During that summer my abusive ex did something awful the police were called. I became a wreck super depressed and suicidal I never left the house out of fear. Court was still being process when I started my school year. Throughout that year my soulmate and I saw each other briefly while out and about. But never said a word I would become so nervous yet happy to see him even though I was terrible hurt still. For the next two years we started to see each other more and more and we became friends again. We were the same as before.. and we decided to try our relationship again after I embarrassingly proclaimed I still really liked him and he felt the same. We had been in relationships with others over the years but it never worked out mainly because we couldn’t seem to keep ourselves away from each other physically and mentally not in a cheating way just that we would be friends hugging and he would hold me longer than “friendly”.
So we dated again and it seemed good.. the only issue was that he was slowly becoming more interested in drugs and.. the one moment after we spent all night together in each others arms he told me he loved me while pretending to be asleep.. and I froze. I couldn’t seem to get the words out of my mouth I don’t know if I was afraid he would hurt me again or what it just never happened.
After that things slowly got worse and him and his friends got more into hardcore drugs and he had forgotten to come see me for a month.. I thought he was distancing himself so he could break up with me. Which leads to my current boyfriend. He was a friend from school I always found cute but we never really spoke a lot cause he had a very jealous and emotional girlfriend. They broke up and my soulmate had spoken to me or seen me in weeks I was a mess and my current boyfriend helped me. He became someone for me to lean on and I had started developing feelings for him. Not near the same as my soulmate. but it was a safe, warm playful love.
It still is. Me and my current boyfriend have been together for 4 years now. My soulmate at first was angry and told me he never meant to hurt me but things between us got worse. I had given up on him trying to force my feelings behind me. He kept trying. But I didn’t want to get hurt anymore. He taunted my boyfriend a lot and it went back and forth, they hated each other to the point that my soulmate under the influence of drugs and alcohol with one of our mutual friends who was mad at my boyfriend at the time came to my house while my boyfriend was there and tried to beat him with a baseball bat. Police were called. A month after that he was walking behind me and my boyfriend trying to talk to me I ignored him still very angry while going into the doorway of our apartment he yelled I love you.

Its been about 2 years since than. We haven’t spoke. Me and my boyfriend got pregnant and have a wonderful 8month old baby boy. I love my boyfriend we have a lot of ups and downs and I love my son he is my world.

Now for the problem to this day when my boyfriend says something hurtful towards my soulmate I defend him I become very hostile and I try super hard to not say anything . I’m still hurt with him (my soulmate) but all of my thoughts are clouded with wisps of him. I dream about him and my boyfriend gets upset when he comes to bed and I talk to him as if he was my soulmate.

From reading this this love may seem one sided but I completely feel with all my being that he feels the same. We glow around each other, and have this weird unspoken look like when I look into his eyes I feel all his feelings intensely, and all of our mutual friends notice how we are around each other including my boyfriend. Even now thinking about him and typing this the fluttering in my heart is driving me crazy.

I don’t like seeing my boyfriend upset because I can’t control my feelings. Its been years and it still feels like the first day I met him..
Someone please help me.
I’m so lost.

Charity March 22, 2013 at 9:01 am

Hi, I’ve enjoyed reading everyone’s stories! Tears welled in my eyes on several occasions. I think I’ve recently met my soul mate. My circumstances though are not ideal but to me, it feels sooo wrong that it feels so right!!!! If that makes sense.
My marriage is over, even though we’re still together, I’ve been contemplating on how to end it! I don’t think it’s fair to my husband that I have no feelings for him. My husband has been away with work alot & that’s when I thought I would join a dating site, as I was feeling so lonely & you know it was initially just for fun. This is where I met my soul mate! He messaged me first, but I replied politely because the age difference is quite significant. But he replied & said that wasn’t an issue for him. We eventually met up after lots of txting & the experience was incredible! Just like others have described the first kiss was like an explosion of pure ecstacy! Anyway to complicate things we’ve continued to txt each other but in the last 3 weeks his health has deteriorated & he’s been in & out of hospital. He is too withdrawn to actually tell me what’s wrong, so I’ve been txting daily inspirational quotes & support with which he replies occasionally with how much of an amazing person he thinks I am. Maybe this is my karmic soul mate!
I feel now I’m in limbo, just waiting in anticipation everyday for him to tell me that he’s well enough to get together again! I don’t mean to sound so selfish but it really has been frustrating, especially as I don’t know him well enough. I’ve accepted the fact that he’s entered my life to force me to make a decision about my marriage. I know now I need to move on, even if it’s not with him, but for my own happiness! I’m in such a rut that I must change my situation to experience life again & to share it with someone who is more like me spiritually. No-one must know about my affair/relationship with my soul mate until I organise my life for the best! Even if it doesn’t eventuate, he’s been placed here to give me that shake up, for that I will always be grateful. I live in hope & often fear of the unknown path ahead, I’m hoping the relationship has a chance to continue once he is well enough!

Sarah March 25, 2013 at 4:14 pm

hello well i certainly had quite the weekend. im 17 btw, so i met this guy and hes a really great person hes cute sweet respectful has a job. he asked me to the movies and i agreed but i couldnt leave my friend behind and he said his bestfriend wanted to come along anyways and i was like that would be perfect, well i mean i reaaalllyy liked this guy i mean he was a looker! haha, but i swear when his friend got out, everything changed. the first time he looked at me I got chills, everything about him drew me in. his eyes,his body, his lips,his nose,his hair,and omg when he talks or laughs, it is truly an amazing sound. i forgot i was with ppl. i almost kissed him i was so embarressed. but we went on to the movies and he kept looking at me in the movies,i was pleased. we got ice cream and he kept looking at me, and every time he talked to tell a story he looked at me and talked and said what he had to say. when we were in the car the guy i was with kept kissing my neck and i looked up front to see him staring through the rear view mirror and he turned it up so he couldnt see…i felt so bad, the whole time i wanted to be up front with him and holding his hand thats all i wanted, i didnt care about anything else, then when we were driving back my friend and the guy i was with fell asleep and so i thought id sleep a little so it wasnt awkward. so i wanted one last look and i looked in the mirror right before he looked in it and looked at me i held his gaze for about 10 seconds before i dropped my eyes…idk what to do. i really feel this strong pull towards him. help?

Lost June 2, 2013 at 1:38 am

I can relate to the moment you met him, for me it kinda seemed like freeze frames and nobody else existed besides us.
I think if you feel that strongly towards him you should approach him I’m sure that night he was jealous of his friend and felt just as awkward.
Maybe try hanging out in a group again but with more people and in not so much a date setting.

Carolina April 1, 2013 at 4:39 pm

Okay so I was at a party and I saw this guy who looked EXTREMELY familiar. So I approached him and asked him his name because I was sure I knew him. He told me I looked familiar as well. But after he told me his name I realized I didn’t know him. I walked away after that but I couldn’t stop thinking about him for some reason. So I went back to him about an hour later and asked for his number. We spent the rest of the night talking and I felt such an attraction to him. Now we’ve been talking for 4 days and were both having super strong feelings for eachother and can’t explain why we feel like we’ve known eachother before, maybe in a past life or something or like as if it was meant for us to be. Everything feels so right, were very honest with eachother, agree on many things and help eachother see good changes we need to make in our lives. Theres many great things i can say because this feels WAY different than any guy ive been with. I’m 18 and he’s 20 by the way, is it just me or this seems like my soul mate?

Jay April 3, 2013 at 11:12 pm

YES! Everytime we look into each other’s eyes, I feel like we don’t even have to say anything, we just know. The first time he looked into my eyes I felt this indescribable feeling that just took over me. It was like his eyes pierced right through me. I love looking into his beautiful eyes. And we have so much in common as far as interest goes. and when I look at him I see myself in the things he does, but I also see apart of me that I’ve been ashamed of and thats my childlike side. I am very child like and so is he. He’s so smart, funny, intelligent, talented, ambitious, passionate, determined, helpful, sincere, honest, sweet, kind and so many more. I really think I have finally found my soulmate =)

Cj April 8, 2013 at 10:17 pm

We were young when we first saw each other at a crowded party during the day. We had never met before, but I couldn’t stop locking eyes with him. We didn’t say one word to each other, yet I felt a strange connection pulling us together. I kept to myself of course. Only dancing with my girlfriends. The DJ announced the last song. And he pulled me over to dance with him. We both we being drawn to each other for some unknown reason. We had an amazing six months together, but I pushed him away because of my own commitment issues. SIX YEARS later with no communication we ended up at the same get together, both of us with our new significant other. I can only say how it made me feel, my heart and mind raced. It took me by complete surprise when I felt my heart shatter after finding out his girlfriend was newly pregnant. I didn’t understand why it hurt me so much when I had been trying so hard to pursue my own relationship. It was a truly painful experience. And a few days after he contacted me and told me how surprised he was to see me. He openly expressed how nervous and exciting it was for him to see me. His palms sweated and how he didn’t understand how six years later our connection is still alive. He told me he waited for me to come back, how he fell in love with me, he described how he met down to every detail, he remembered everything about our relationship, he wished we could turn back time. It is only now that I realize the beauty of the feeling of love at first sight and a soul mate. And after reading this post I understand in more depth the meaning behind the word soul mate. It’s torture to be without him, but we are trying to be good human beings and do not want to destroy family we have made while we lost each other. I’ve never felt for anyone the way I’ve felt his presence six years ago and just recently. I believe it’s not just choosing to be with someone or choosing to be good to someone or having common interests that make you last. I believe in the special spark. He and I will never be without bring “morally wrong” to others eyes. A touch of that mans hand melts my heart and sends a tear down my cheek. I know we are settling trying to do what’s right. This world is not of spirituality unfortunately.

Tene April 15, 2013 at 1:28 am

I think I may have met my soul mate. The way we met can only be described as being arranged by God. The first time I met him, I felt an instant connection to him. It was something I had never felt before, and I even wondered what the feeling was. I couldn’t describe it. I felt so comfortable and at peace with him. After that meeting I went home and tried to figure out what I was experiencing. It almost like my soul yearns for him. Every time I see him and talk to him, we laugh and talk like we’ve known each other for years. And I can not stop staring into his eyes. I’m just so drawn to them for some reason. I know he must think I’m crazy or something, because I can’t take my eyes off of his, but they drawn me in. I don’t know if he feels the connection or not, but I have caught him staring at me for longer than a person normally would. After reading, I think he just might be my soul mate.

c April 22, 2013 at 10:54 am

I met my soulmate about 10 years ago when I was married with 2 kids. I felt the connection but didn’t know/understand what it was. My husband at the time introduced us; he had always been uninterested in an emotional relationship and often found friends for me to talk with. So my soulmate and I were extremely close for an intense 2 or 3 years. He kind orifted away from me then; later he said it was just too painful and neither of us were ready to be together. I got divorced a couple of years after that. We’d always stayed in touch and he helped me through many tough situations in a truly loving way. He buried his feelings for me because of perceived religious differences and plus I.wawas always off limits to being married. After a couple ofreallrocky relationships and about 3 years after my divorce, I asked him why we’d never dated. I told him that I’d loved him always but of course that was a deep spiritual emotional connection; we’d never acted on that connection in a sexual or romantic way. He started thinking about it…and realized nothing was keeping us apart. He hopped on an airplane and aske me to marry him about 4 days later. We’ve been inseparable since. Looking at the list in this article I finally realized what the initial connection was and why it happened. It took 8 years for us to come together in a committed loving relationship which spans the eternities. Along the way he’s helped me become the person I am. We are raising 2 amazing kids together; my ex lives 2000 miles away. He’s the best dad, fantastic conversationalist, we talk for hours each day even after 2 years of being together 24/7. We both work from home. We frequently say the same sentence at the same time. Often I’ll text him or say something out loud that he’s thinking and vice versa. He knows me utterly and I know him. Our connection and love deepens daily. He says this must be something we arranged before coming to this life. So take heart…we found each other, instantly connected and patiently waited for the right time. It was not easy but it was eternal love at first sight. Every day is the happiest day of my life now. It’s meant to be.

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The guy I currently like is a singer. When I first saw him, I could not memorize his face (and even his name) easily because I had the tendency to forget faces. I only knew the leader of the band and the drummer. But during the second time I watched for signs of that singer that I am talking about, I was immediately drawn to his eyes, like his eyes were telling me something, like his eyes were sucking the soul out of me.

And that was when I realized I had a crush on him.

As I get to know the guy better, I realized (and was a bit astonished) that the two of us shared many similarities, such as places where we come from, blood types, outlook when it comes to hard work and money. He can be a bit blunt, just like me. There are times when I see myself in him in some things.

But the catch is, the singer is actually Korean, while I am of different nationality. So, is it possible for two people to be soul mates even if they live in different countries?

Crystal May 3, 2013 at 9:23 pm

I discovered my soul mate – and he discovered me – a few months ago. Never believed in this kind of connection until recently. I am 43 years old, and he is 60 (yep, that’s right I said 60!!) and neither one of us have ever…EVER come close to feeling this intimate, emotional and intense bond that we share with each other. Two things;
#1 – he does NOT carry himself like a 60 year old. He is very much a free spirit – a lot of fun to be around – and is strong as an Ox! We were only good friends, before an event caused us to recognize each other as soul mates.
#2 – and this is what I don’t understand – we recognized each other during a time when both of us are married to another. Why would events unfold for us to meet each other again, in another lifetime, at a moment when both of us have made a prior commitment to someone else? We have admitted our love to each other, we learned that neither of us feel any guilt – and I mean none at all. We accept each other’s individual social status (married to another) and are at peace with it. The more we discover about each other, the stronger and more secure the bond becomes. We have a bond that is unique, beautiful, and rare. Yet we cannot share our lives completely with each other. If there is a lesson that we are supposed to learn I need help understanding what it is. This situation we are in is new to both of us. Neither of us are bad people. This is not some sort of torrid affair – we haven’t even had “intimate relations” with each other. So why are our souls reuniting….now? Please help! Thank you.

Lynne May 16, 2013 at 8:34 pm

Wow, so many intriguing stories and ones so much like mine. Many years ago (1985) I met a man who was much older than I was. I remember the first time I saw him, where we were, all the details, etc. I ended up falling in love with him very fast, after initially finding him to be somewhat annoying (haha). After dating only 2 months, I became very uncomfortable with our age difference and I broke it off suddenly. He tried to discourage me from leaving but I just wanted out and fast (the age split had me thinking about death and loss and was very depressing). I never loved anyone as deeply since him, not even my husband. I think I know what lesson was meant to come from that relationship!

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M. May 21, 2013 at 8:00 pm

I have met my soulmate and he has met his, that’s one thing I know for sure. As if our lives were supposed to meet somewhere in the middle.

I’m 22 years old and my boyfriend is 20. When we met eachother about half a year ago, I was in a dragging relationship of 4,5 years. But when I met him, I didn’t recognise what was happening at first. Somehow we got talking on facebook and one thing led to another, and we were talking from somewhere in the day untill 7 in the morning. I didn’t know why I enjoyed talking to this particular guy, seen the fact he is a lot shorter than I am and I’m 2,5 years older, and oh! Almost forgot, I’m in a relationship.

So we kept talking. It seemed as if we were the same person. Big interest in music, we like the same food as we as we dislike the same food, we have the same favourite drink, and I could go on about this for a long time. I felt so free talking to him and it was as if he just liked everything about me from worst to best, just because it made me for who I am.
So of course these conversations made us both think about what was going on. And one day, when he had some drinks, he just pops a question: are you in love with me? And I just simply couldn’t say no. But i couldn’t say yes either, because i was with that other guy.
A choice had to be made and things kept getting worse in my relationship. I decided that I needed to talk with someone I trusted, and weird enough as it was, I asked him to take a walk with me. We talked for hours and hours about secrets of ourselves that I would normally tell only my closest friends. When we walked, sometimes our shoulders bumped or touched, it felt so special. I couldn’t look him in the eye for longer than 2 seconds or I had to look away.

After that night the only thing my conscience kept telling me was: : you just cant let this thing you have with him pass, you cant, don’t ruin this.”

So I decided to end my relationship. It hurt me very much, but somehow it felt like it was something that had to be done.
I had never felt so free in my life. It took me a couple of days to decide that I wanted to go see him. I was so nervous when I took the train.

And that’s the prologue of our love story. After that only perfect things happened. I would really love to share but it’s such a long story.

I think everyone who has shared their story here can relate to the fact that when you’re together something inexplicable happens.

Our first kiss was firework.

It’s as if we really feel eachother. Sometimes when something special happens, we get happy tears at the same time and all we just want to do is hug and kiss. And many other things happen all the time.

I hope you like our story!

xxx, M.

meenapiscea May 25, 2013 at 10:13 pm

Kind of an odd story for me.

Just when I thought I had given up on dating after a series of shitty relationships, i had taken some time to myself and then thought i might for the heck of it go on a dating website to see what was out there. as i suspected, i was hit up by the majority of creepers on the site claiming to be my soulmate when we had nothing in common. i didnt give anyone the time a day, and as i was about to get off the site, i saw his profile and stopped dead in my tracks.

i thought it was weird that i could feel some kind of magnetic energy through a computer, and he didnt even have the kind of profile pic where i could really go based on his looks. i just felt it. and as i read his bio, i was suprised to discover the interests and sense of humor we shared. i was very intrigued and had to know more.

turns out we both rated each other 5 stars and were notified about it. haha! after a few nice emails, we chatted and instantly it was as if i was having a hilarious conversation with a best friend. we talked for an hour straight, and joked and laughed the entire time. he expressed his intrigue and wanted to hang out with me, so I gave him my number.

he was unable to make the first date and kind of blew it off, but i didnt get upset because we didnt know each other anyways. he made another attempt to see me, and this time he came through and we met at an old book shop and restaurant out in the country side. i cannot forget the moment i walked up to him on the stairs and our eyes met as we greeted. i felt the sense of home immediately and it took all of 5 minutes before the two of us became lost in our conversations, like old friends who just reunited after being apart so long. we laughed, joked, and walked the riverside and along side farm lands, deep in convo the whole time. we connected on every level and had so much in common. so much! i was amazed at how much life experience we had shared. I remember him saying how pretty i was and that he liked me and def wanted to hang out with me. and as the sun was setting and we flirted, he put his hands on my face and gave me the most romantic perfect first kiss id ever had in my life. i thought i might faint and the eletricity was flying everywhere, he felt it too. what came afterwards is what could have been mistaken for two teenagers madly in love. our energies complimented each other, our innocent, child like wonder and laughter, our sense of humor and love of adventure, brought us to mountain tops, hiking, slow dancing in the streets, making out for hours, sharing stories, hugs, and dances, dinner, a drink or two, and lastly we sat in my car talking about more serious deeper levels of things, and it was just perfect in all ways. we both decided that we met to help each other, but he said that fate/destiny terrified him but i told him not to think about it. he expressed his anxieties and fears of life, and i tried to comfort him and let him know that I too have been traveling that road. he told me he thought i was a healer. and the night continued on kissing, laughing and appreciating each other and neither of us could walk away until i finally did. the sexual chemistry was fire and the intellectual and spiritual chemistry spot on. I thought for sure Id just met the man of my dreams. I looked forward to seeing him again, and I never did.

He kept in touch with me briefly on his own the days followiing, made loose plans to see me, but then cancelled the date. i knew maybe he had been seeing other women on the site and i was fine wit that, but also confused since our date was soamazing i would have thought he would want to see me as soon as he could. but that day came and went and i did not hear from him for 7 days. i finally texted him and said “i guess we arent firends, but i am happy we met and i wish for you to have a great summer” he wrote back right away, letting me know hed been busy working and asked how i was but never wrote back. a week later i found out he was in the hospital for psych reasons which shocked me greatly but explained alot, because he had actually dropped subtle hints over time. I let on as if I didnt know, but I hadnt been able to get him off my mind since the night we met, and a depression followed after we lost touch. during his hosp stay, i dreamed of him very positively and romantically, and woke up saddened. He texted me when he got out, and we wrote, but it was very simple. I let on that I knew nothing and he didnt tell me either. That was about the last time I heard from him.

Most people would think I was insane for the way I feel, but you know when your intuition/heart is telling you something and im trying to figure out what that is and make sense to why i met him , and what it meant, and if he will ever return to me. right person, wrong time? or is he a mirror? is he a lesson? a soulmate, a karmic tie? i fear i will never know, but my heart is sunken and my desire to date has deminished since. i decided to work on myself from then on, and I have. I just hope that I will understand why one day…

Avilasta May 26, 2013 at 3:13 am

I met my love almost three years ago.I remember the day very clearly-Thursday towards the end of July.It was about one week after my laparoscopic gallbladder surgery and I had decided to go to a meeting that was magical in nature some days prior.This meeting was hosted by a pagan group,and although I had been to a couple of rituals before,I had never been to one of their weekly meetings.I was curious.I remember I stopped by the library to check out a book,and then a convenience store on my way over there to buy granola bars and the song “Dance With My Father”by Luther Vandross was playing on the radio.After buying the items I continued onward to the church where the meeting was held.I got there,opened the door to the room where the meeting was held and entered.The attendants were seated in a circle and there was a banquet table nearby with goodies.I made my way over to the table to set my granola bars down.My eyes wander to the group,and they meet this man wearing eyeglasses.I thought “I know this guy from somewhere,but from where?”I found it difficult to stop staring.I set the granola bars down,and sat down.The meeting started.Sometime afterward,I was standing across from him at the banquet table and felt so very drawn to his energy.Sometime after that he came over and sat next to me.We started talking,and talked for a few minutes.Then I said something that came out the wrong way,and he stood up and left.I felt embarassed,and went home.As days passed,I found myself thinking about him a lot,and wanting to see him again.I saw him again right after my birthday,but was too shy to talk to him.I saw him again around Halloween.We started talking at this gathering towards the end of the night.We talked for hours even after almost everyone had left.I’ll never forget the first time we kissed.It was so magical.We were outside,standing in front of each other.When our lips met I felt something so uplifting in my chest.Some time later,I told him that I had been wanting to talk to him for the longest.He said he did,too.He said that when our eyes met for the first time,he felt electricity.We spent the rest of the night together and also the next day.Immediately thereafter,I decided to give him space(I hadn’t given him my number,and anyways I had his).The next time we saw each other was in December.He was a bit distant.For about five months,I didn’t know where I’ve stood with him.We had talked but not about what we felt.Towards the end of April I finally got an answer.He told me he really liked me,and told me why he was distant.I didn’t think those “obstacles”were a big deal.I let him know how I felt about him.We didn’t put a label on what we have.After about a month,he tells me he’s very much attracted to me,that there is something special about me,but that we shouldn’t be together because he’s afraid of the fire.I was devastated.I have tried moving on by dating other men but to no avail.Whenever we see each other,there is a familiar energy between us.I know he feels it,too.When we are intimate,we are so good together.I feel the divine within him,and feel a great spiritual connection.I want to make love to him all the time.I dream about him if I haven’t seen him in a while.I have felt strange the whole day today.I want to know he’s alright.I haven’t felt his kisses in eight months and that is too long.

Avilasta May 26, 2013 at 3:13 am

I met my love almost three years ago.I remember the day very clearly-Thursday towards the end of July.It was about one week after my laparoscopic gallbladder surgery and I had decided to go to a meeting that was magical in nature some days prior.This meeting was hosted by a pagan group,and although I had been to a couple of rituals before,I had never been to one of their weekly meetings.I was curious.I remember I stopped by the library to check out a book,and then a convenience store on my way over there to buy granola bars and the song “Dance With My Father”by Luther Vandross was playing on the radio.After buying the items I continued onward to the church where the meeting was held.I got there,opened the door to the room where the meeting was held and entered.The attendants were seated in a circle and there was a banquet table nearby with goodies.I made my way over to the table to set my granola bars down.My eyes wander to the group,and they meet this man wearing eyeglasses.I thought “I know this guy from somewhere,but from where?”I found it difficult to stop staring.I set the granola bars down,and sat down.The meeting started.Sometime afterward,I was standing across from him at the banquet table and felt so very drawn to his energy.Sometime after that he came over and sat next to me.We started talking,and talked for a few minutes.Then I said something that came out the wrong way,and he stood up and left.I felt embarassed,and went home.As days passed,I found myself thinking about him a lot,and wanting to see him again.I saw him again right after my birthday,but was too shy to talk to him.I saw him again around Halloween.We started talking at this gathering towards the end of the night.We talked for hours even after almost everyone had left.I’ll never forget the first time we kissed.It was so magical.We were outside,standing in front of each other.When our lips met I felt something so uplifting in my chest.Some time later,I told him that I had been wanting to talk to him for the longest.He said he did,too.He said that when our eyes met for the first time,he felt electricity.We spent the rest of the night together and also the next day.Immediately thereafter,I decided to give him space(I hadn’t given him my number,and anyways I had his).The next time we saw each other was in December.He was a bit distant.For about five months,I didn’t know where I’ve stood with him.We had talked but not about what we felt.Towards the end of April I finally got an answer.He told me he really liked me,and told me why he was distant.I didn’t think those “obstacles”were a big deal.I let him know how I felt about him.We didn’t put a label on what we have.After about a month,he tells me he’s very much attracted to me,that there is something special about me,but that we shouldn’t be together because he’s afraid of the fire.I was devastated.I have tried moving on by dating other men but to no avail.Whenever we see each other,there is a familiar energy between us.I know he feels it,too.When we are intimate,we are so good together.I feel the divine within him,and feel a great spiritual connection.I want to make love to him all the time.I dream about him if I haven’t seen him in a while.I have felt strange the whole day today.I want to know he’s alright.I haven’t felt his kisses in eight months and that is too long.

Avilasta May 26, 2013 at 3:14 am

Sorry about double post.

Avilasta May 26, 2013 at 4:08 am

I can talk to him for hours about anything.My mother told me some months before she died(I introduced him to her one night some time ago) that when she saw him she felt like she recognized him but didn’t know from where.It could be from a past life or in this life.My parents lived in a specific city in NJ where me and my sisters were born for about 9 years.He’s familiar with this city,he told me he spent some time here in his younger years(he’s almost 20 years older than me).So it’s very possible they saw each other in NJ.

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Giselle June 22, 2013 at 12:33 pm

I met my soulmate a year ago. We were together for just 2 weeks and then I had to leave him. It was love at first sight and those 2 weeks that we shared where magical but yet really painful because I didn’t wanted it to end. When I got back home, we stopped talking for some months until I had a new bf (trying to conscience myself that in that way I would forget about him). 1 year after we met, my soulmate and I started having contact on Facebook and Skype again and it was magical just as the first time. There was a timelessness it it that I can’t explain, it was just as we saw each other yesterday, not a year ago but after some weeks we stopped talking again, it is just to painful to talk to him because we can not be together even thought he could visit me or I could go to his country but we will always go back to our home and we will feel miserables again. We have planned to marry and be together for good again some day but I am not sure if this day will ever come and I feel like I am waiting for something that might never happen. I am only 17 years old and he is the only guy I’ve ever loved even thought I have met lot of people. I always wonder how my life would be if we end up together or ever worse, how it would all turn out if we are never together again. I know I will see him in each and every life because we are soul mates but it is really hard to think that I will have to live many years like this until I see him again in this or in another life. “Soul mate relationships, while wonderful, are almost never pain-free.” I guess this is true, those 2 weeks were the best of my life and he is the best thing that ever happened to me but yet, the most painful thing ever. Right now I am just going with the flow and expecting that some day some how I will be with him and all this years of pain will be worth it. Sometimes I really wish that I never had met him, that way my life would be much easier but I did meet him and even thought it is painful as hell, it is a once in a lifetime experience that every single human living should experience and I am really lucky to have met him independently of what happens to us in a future.

“I love you. I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope and every dream I’ve ever had, and no matter what happens to us in the future, everyday we are together is the greatest day of my life. I will always be yours and you will always be mine.” -The Notebook

Corine Corriveau July 8, 2013 at 12:00 am

Met many soulmates in my life. Though only one have been felt even before i turn back to see him. All the others took me a few days and an eyes contact. The one im talking about came in the store i work and as soon as he enter the store i felt something. I turn and saw his back and couldn.t understand why i felt that for a stranger without even seeing his face. When we met and talk i felt fhe strongest peace and calm ever felt before. I knew i had a huge love for him.

We met few times and he recognized he felt the same that day. Though he started to analize me with his mind and what he thinks he wants in a relationship and rejected me. I do not understand cauz in my eyes lots of things were good better us, i learned a lot from that rejection and release a huge past trauma so this is great. I still feel a lot for him and my door isn’t close for him to come back one day.

Jean July 24, 2013 at 11:37 am

Hi Lindsay! I’m 18 currently and have never dated anyone in my entire life. All the while, I never believe in this soul mate logic because I feel that no one is ever that compatible with someone since everyone is different. I did come across quite a number of people who have confessed to me since when I’m 12 till today but often the relationship stops there because I’m someone who is extremely cautious with who I’m going to go steady with and someone who values love a lot, so I don’t want to get any devastating heartbreaks. But it is only till this day, the first time in my entire life in which my mind is so caught with a guy that I’ve only seen for once. I’m feeling extremely desperate for 2 months already. The anxiety is killing me and so I need your guidance in telling me whether is this person of great importance to me in my life.

On the day before I first met him, I had the best sleep ever as I’m boarding the bus back home. It was the rejuvenating type of sleep that gives me the vigour once awake and I had a good feeling after that. It felt like some sort of sign telling me something magical is going to happen. Climbing up the steep hill to reach my house, I saw a dark tall and muscular silhouette right at the other end of the hill. He looked like a middle-aged man from a far. I was scared. Afraid. Because at that time, there’s only me and this “old man” alone in the hill and nobody else. It was awkward. As I was walking up, he was walking down, and our distance are narrowing. I told myself to not look up and stare at him in order to avoid unnecessary stares from that stranger. But I can feel intense stares coming from him, as if he’s trying to stare right into my soul from that far distance even though we are not maintaining eye contact. As we move closer, I was shocked. He was actually a young man, shaved head dressed in black from top to bottom. I have to admit he was sexy. He’s like the type of guy I’ve always dreamed of. He’s sexy face matches his sexy shaved head of his. And in my country, people with shaved heads are in the army. So he is probably 19. Still, he continues to stare at me. I’m felt super uncomfortable and this level of intensity rises as he’s only a metres away from me. Then, instantaneously I told myself that I should give him a death stare, which I’m absolutely good at because I’m the kind who convey a lot of emotions through my eyes, to scare him away so as to avoid uncomfortable stares when he’s going to brush past me. Here we go, 1,2, and 3! I lift my head up and peer right into his eyes as his brush beside me. Turns out he really did stare at me continuously from the time I started walking at the end of the hill to meeting him here. The face. The hair. And the tough and sturdy body. He was really sexy. He was cute. Usually when I make eye-contact with handsome guys, I would get very uncomfortable and then forget about the experience hours later. But this is different. The way how he stared at me. I would never forget. Its as if he’s trying to tell me something. Its as if he knew me long ago. His handsome face made me feel extremely comfortable and our eyes lingered on what seemed like eternity. This sense of comfort made me feel that he is someone important to me. But all this was abruptly ended when my cautious instinct shot back up. I turned my head and walked straight to my direction. My mind was extremely fluttered and confused. It was then I felt the urge to turn around again. There, I saw his back, the back that provides me with so much reassurance. I felt the extreme urge to run towards him and back hug him even though I have completely no idea who this guy is. In the end I didn’t, because my cautious mind told me to be sensible. And like that, I never met him again.

Desiree July 24, 2013 at 11:06 pm

It’s very overwhelming yet an immediate sense of peace & completeness from the 1st second you meet. The first time our eyes locked, the vibe could be felt throughout the room. I never believed in any of this until it happened to me. It’s like we are inside each other. When we are apart, I can think something and he immediately texts me the answer or word for word what I am thinking. For those who have never experienced this, it’s hard for them to comprehend. I cannot talk to my friends about it, they don’t believe, just as I didn’t. The connection is so deep and powerful it really cannot be described with words. We feel each other’s emotions which actually has scared me because it is something beyond anything I’ve ever experienced in my life. I am now a believer but I also think it’s a one in a billion chance you will ever meet the other half of your soul, when you do don’t ignore it!! Both of us strongly feel we were brought back together for a reason Do we ever find out who we were and how we were connected in past life?

Audrey July 25, 2013 at 8:09 am

I don’t know how to express my gratitude to magic and spell cast. I have been a single mum for two months when my husband left me for another woman. I couldn’t stay without him. I was devastated and so lonely. I tried to beg him to come back but he wouldn’t listen to me or even pick my calls, then i decided to take to bringing him back at all cost. I tried a couple of spell casters but no evidence that my husband was coming back till i came across this man online. I didn’t expect anything to happen but i kept my fingers crossed and just as magic is unbelievable my man came back to me some weeks ago begging me to take him. making promises of never leaving me and my son. Thanks Dr. Imogire of the

2Angels July 26, 2013 at 11:44 am

All my life i’ve been drawn to water… oceans, rivers, lakes, ponds… if I felt “out of sorts” as my grandma used to say, I went for a walk and always ended up sitting or walking on the beach. Just listening to the waves roll on the shore calmed me down… listening to rain hit the roof does the same. All my life i’ve been dreaming about a man that I believed was the one meant for me. January of 2012 I dreamt about him for the last time as I “knew” him then. I was sitting on a square table talking to a man in a robe when “he” came up and sat behind me. I immediately felt like I was a part of him, like we had become one. He pulled me back to him and kissed my head. I breathed out his name, (thats the only way I can describe it) Kevin. He jumped up and said I wasn’t supposed to know who he was and he started to back away from me. I keep reaching for him and calling for him to come back but he wouldn’t. The man with me laughed and told me not to worry, he knew where I was and he would be back to help me now. I had joined a website and in August a message kept popping up that someone was looking at me, but it always disappeared before I had the chance to click on it and see. This man looked very familiar to me and I couldn’t get him out of my mind. 2 weeks later he came back again and this time I was quick enough. Within 2 days I knew that I was falling for him, he said he knew in less than 5 minutes I was someone that would forever change his life. We took a chance and a month later we met in person and haven’t looked back. That was almost a year ago now. I moved to the same town he lives in and have met some of his friends, as he’s met some of my kids too. Looking at him is like looking in a mirror, not in looks but in actions, likes, dislikes… from food to music and beyond. He doesn’t have to say a word to me but I automatically know when there is something wrong. Being with him, talking to him, just seeing him makes me feel at peace, like everything is right in the world. Oh, and if that doesn’t prove he is my soulmate… this mans middle name is Kevin… and he lives a 2 minute walk from the shores of Lake Huron… you can hear the waves roll in at night from his bedroom window…. tell me, how can a love like that be wrong???

claudette July 30, 2013 at 5:01 pm

This story is happy and sad for me, iam 33 years old,separed and I thought I never met my soul mate, this July I was on vacation in typhoon lagoon Disney word everything was so nice we were about to leave but for some reason I decided to try the last. Ride call gangplank falls, I waited around 20 in line I was almost annoyed for the long line, but finally it was my turn, someone pull my tube out my hands he was working there and the only thing I remenber its meeting this beautiful and electrifying green eyes, believe me I felt sparks on the air, I felt so small so I do not know that he said, but it was like everything stops, I could stayed looking into his eyes I just felt like I was seeing myself in his eyes so familiar, I get in to the ride want it to stay with him, at the end I get. Out. And he was walking besides me, started to rain I recall he said something about its raining why people hide if we are in a water park, I know he was trying to talk to me, but I was so shy to look at him again, then I meet my friend and I lost contact, that happen on afternoon July 18, and I keep dreaming about him I can sleep when I remenber this electrifying feeling, I lived in NY and I know for sure he lives in Orlando fl, due. To the fact he work and that park, never feel this way before no body make me feel this way, I feel so stuped because I lost my chance to know him nd discover why we feel this way, if somebody read this story and for something resambles you contact me, I lwill wait until God put me near him again. Help

christine August 1, 2013 at 1:43 am

what’s happened to our commentator Lindsay? considering the vast amount of discussion, introspection, learning, so forth, that your writing has inspired, it seems like one of us readers should check in and see where you are, as I haven’t seen a post on here from you in quite some time… hope all is well…

michael August 3, 2013 at 2:15 pm

my name is michael i really want to share my testimony on how i became an Illuminati member, through my friend. i was moving with my friend for more than 10 years and he have been getting rich everyday and even giving me money but he never told me the secret of his success until a day i was frustrated to let him know that he should help me also that was when he open up to me and tell me that he was a member of the Illuminati that he have been in the court for more than 10 years that his riches and protection came from this i told him to let me be into the court but it not an easy task to be a member but i was finally initiated into the devil church of the Illuminati and i was confirm in there church. after a month of being a member of Illuminati i got promotion that same month in my working place and within a year i was promoted thrice in my working place to the extend of being a managing Director i never know how to thank this church of Illuminati and today am rich as my friend also, and also the one that surprise me most was that i got an accident with my new car and the car was right off but i still survive the accident and nothing happen to me i really thank you people Illuminati. so i just want to share to the world that this is real and it have help me and work for me so if you want to become a member i can lead you into the court of richness and you will never be poor again, know that it only a member in the Illuminati that can initiate you into the church of illumination they do not contact directly because they are fake Illuminati all over the world, this is my email they will tell you how to join,

Thobeka Khumalo August 6, 2013 at 10:40 pm

I think my story will be really crazy. I met this guy in grade 8, since I started dating at the age of 12, I know bad, but i’ve always been more mature for my age. I dated a lot of guys at between the time frame 12-14 years and already I was searching for my Adam. Then I met him, the most beautiful boy i’ve ever seen. He smiled kindly at me, as if he was thinking the samething, which he was because he told me I was beautiful. We then grew up and now we both 18 and best friends. We are so alike, we love the same music, same colour, we share the same opinion, we both can sing and when we sing people suspect we are together. We wrote identical speeches in English without even knowing it. We both got Fs because the teacher thought we copied each other.
Its too creepy. I can feel it when his around me and when he needs me, which he always does. His my best friend, I mean I have bffs but he is the best friend I’ve ever had and we can’t go a day without messing with each other or even making eye contact and blushing and jumping on top of each other. I am present at all his competitions, his a choir master and his present in everything I do whether its shopping, and even watches chick flicks without complaining. Our favourite movie is Twilight and our favourite car is an Austin Martin Vanquish. We encourage each other and we fyt like cats and dogs, but there’s no way we go to bed without making up. We constantly chatting on bbm and his gf says she envies our relationship. We started masturbated over bbm together but we vowed never to have sex and and we never did but that separated us for a while because it was awkward being around him after a night of bbm masturbation, but without realising it we wanted each other more, it was like we are magnets. The love we shared became lust but then soon became something no words can describe. We cuddle and sleep in each others arms without any sexual feelings. We have intimate moments like mind connection and heart connections. We gravitate towards each other. This scares me because I yearn for him when we are apart. We can sit together without talking and feel like that’s the best times of my life. I crazy about him and he longs to be with me but we never spoke about dating but we act like we are. Do u think we are soulmates ?

Croissants August 7, 2013 at 4:26 pm

This article was really interesting.

It made me remember of a man I met 5years ago. Since the first moment I saw him (and he was reaally far away… On a stage…) I felt something like a link which was established between me and him.

The second time, our eyes met a lot of times. But the most strangest time was the third time when he almost fell from his chair when he saw me (Believe me, I’m not ugly… ) and the same day he searched for me and then starred at me as long as he could.

But it’s been 3 years now since the last time I saw him and I’m thinking if I still should wait for him or choose someone else… With whom I don’t have this “link” feeling…

Before this month I didn’t even thought about the possibility of accepting to go out with someone else than this man, but I met someone with the same hobbies as mine. He is good looking, nice and everything but there is no ‘link’ between us… Nothing, I don’t know what he is thinking when I look him in his eyes, I don’t know how he is feeling….

For the one I met 5 years ago, I knew what he was thinking or how he felt, it was like we were connected to each other. Every morning I woke up with the sensation of having spoke with this man all night long. But since the last time we saw each other (and this time he seemed angry about something I might have done) I feel like I cannot connect to him. But there is still this feeling of being linked to this man…

This is so puzzling.

Ender August 27, 2013 at 5:57 pm

May I venture a pure guess?
Perhaps its more that it was to simply make you aware that two people can feel and experience that knowing and link.

Perhaps down the road a bit, the awareness you gained will ensure that you are not oblivious, and will be attentive enough when you come to meet someone else. A meeting that otherwise was very likely to slip by and be lost due to commotion, distraction, or state of complacency.

I wish you them the best. Keep your eyes open WIDE and be as ALERT of your surroundings if you happen to notice a sudden slowing or stopping of time upon even just glancing into and past someones eyes for a fraction of a second.

My gut tells me you otherwise would have wrote it off as silly or miss-perceived. If you experience this be sure to ask them if they might by chance feel what you may be feeling when/if you do. Especially if you seem to feel their mind and that they simultaneously feeling the same of you. Like your not two but one being.

Nessie August 15, 2013 at 12:31 pm

Dear Lindsey,
I have been in three failed relationships before but post break up,it was clear to me that we were not meant to be. The last one took all of my confidence,hopes and faith away and I was silently drowning my grief in my solitude,avoiding and ignoring all the male attention after that.
Then suddenly someone enters my life just like in the movies.I can still remember the first time we saw each other.It was a spontaneous acceptance of friendship from my side.And within days we were glued to each other over the phone.We had no secrets and we helped each other forget our past pains.I bonded with him as if I have known him forever.And within a month our long distance relationship had bloomed to a comfortable level.I instinctively felt him to be my better half.
Two months later,he suddenly realises that he is still in love with his ex.I was shattered.I felt like a thousand swords cutting into my heart.I could hear my heart break literally when I told him that he can go back to her if thats what he wanted.He has never turned back since then.But I am still at the same position.I m not able to take the pain this time.I have been crying day and night because I can still feel him beside me(even though we have never been together).He’s still the first and last thing on my mind from when I wake up to when I sleep.Its like something tells me he will be back even when I m crying and know for a fact that he has moved on easily.
I can still unconsciously feel him as my soulmate.He completed me.He left me in pieces but I dont hate him.
Why do I have this feeling in my heart that he will come back?But my mind knows he will not.

Lauren August 15, 2013 at 2:23 pm

I met my (now) husband when I was 16 and he was 33, so obviously there was a huge difference in age and a lot of obstacles. We chose not to get serious and parted ways. Three years later, I moved up North with a friend for college. Come to find out, it was his home town and where his mother was currently living. Just before moving back to MY hometown, we found each other – he had just ended a violent relationship (one of many over the past few years). We ended up dating and, two years later, ended up getting married. I can’t imagine being with anybody else 🙂

Betty August 15, 2013 at 8:54 pm

Is it possible to lose your spiritual connection with someone ? I felt as if I’ve lose my spiritual connection with this person although we dont know each other. Although this has happen a little place in my heart still has faith and believes

arch angel August 18, 2013 at 10:01 pm

I met my soul mate, Simon about 3 years ago, and even though we didn’t date, it was still intense couple of encounters over a 3 month period. but unfortunalty things didn’t workout. I was heartbroken for many years, but he never left my side spiritually. I’ve become a much stronger person now and I really do hope we meet again, I can only wish and dream for it now.

Ender August 27, 2013 at 5:33 pm

Just to let you know something I just learned about 12 hrs ago.
It does not necessarily happen only upon first meeting.

See, for the last few days or so a new buddy of mine, and a girl he calls his wife (regardless of their not being rings on their fingers), have been stopping by and visiting. Out of respect for him and because we just met I had purposefully kept myself from ‘really’ looking at her at any points in time. Not sure why other than it seemed the right thing to do.

Well, at some point me and her were conversing, when I noticed her smile as we laughed about something. When I noticed it seemed like she must have ran a comb or brush through her hair not long before then. I first was aware of the left and right sides of her hair being more golden and light filled than the times before. And when that caused my attention to draw upwards our eyes met and time truly stopped for a bit.

Though it was likely only 2 seconds, 3 tops, it was as if a massive amount of information was being transferred simultaneously between me and her. As I (really) looked into her eyes, while she looked into mine for the first time, it was like we were both jolted awake and filled with love for each other. At the same time we seemed to both marvel in the this unusual and seemingly whole body/soul/mind experience.

Just before I looked away because I felt that if he seen us looking at each other that way it’d break his heart because some how he would feel/see that we were at that moment in complete love and an absorbing giving state of being with one another. Just before I looked away we both smiled brightly, still directly looking into one another’s eyes the last thing I feel like we both felt and thought was to be not concerned with the timing and obvious complications.

It seemed like we went from being two beings to one, and I regretted my decision to end that locked in miraculous event. But a strong feeling sureness and patience seemed to allow me and her to tell each other that we were feeling the most purest love either of us have ever or will ever, in our entire lives. And therefor sure that we would never forget the experience and the rarity of it.

I am not sure about her because I had then just looked to the left of my chair, but I felt the slow-moving-of-time lessen (speed back up gradually) as I shook it off. And right before it all seemed to go back to normal I groaned out a, “uughhh man, oh man” then for some reason (with out thinking as to why) leaned back far in the chair and up at the ceiling. Letting the frustration of being incapable to in good conscious, doing what I wanted which was to talk with her and have her talk with me, about what had just transpired. :/

Victoria September 3, 2013 at 7:28 pm

I came upon this website as I try to understand the relationship I have with a man who’s the love of my life. We broke up 6 years ago but we can’t stop loving each other even when e are going out with others & that has made it very difficult. He was in a 2 year relationship that ended sometime back & I’ve been in a relationship 4 years & this is where things get difficult again. I’m not in love with the man I’m in the relationship with, I do love him & he does love me but, I know he isn’t in love with me either. The man that I am in love with has asked me several times to come see him just to talk. I’m scared to because I have the feeling if I do it will lead into other things & I feel like in some way I will be doing what is right because we have a deep love for one another but, the man I’m with even know I know he’s not in love with me will have a hard time with it. This man & I have connected souls & no matter what has happened between us & who we have dated we seem to never let go of one another. We have been through it all, raised our two children who are now adults we’ve been good to each other & we’ve been horrible to each other & like I’ve said somehow we have such an incredibly deep connection we can’t let go & in my heart even know I’ve tried to fight it for many years & be logical about things…My heart tells me that’s where I belong it’s like shaking up a compass but the arrow still points to him. I love him so much it brings tears to my eyes no matter how many years pass. So, I’m again at a crossroads as to what it is that I need to do. The man I’m in the relationship with has been very good to me of course, we have our issues but I just can’t see staying with someone when neither of us is in love with one another it’s almost like having each other there is so we aren’t alone. He won’t come out and say he isn’t in love with me but clearly it’s something you feel. It seems unfair to both of us that we would remain in a relationship when yes, we love each other but we aren’t in love with each other & there is a difference. I’m in love with the other man & with this man I’m in the relationship with, I feel I’m holding back & preventing from finding the one he’s truly in love with. I’m at a point where I just really need to clear my head & then make some decisions. Thank you for reading my post & any advice is welcome. The thing of this is the man I consider my soul mate seems to always create these types of situations but I’m the one that usually has to deal with some difficulty in order for us to be together. Is he worth it yes, do I love him yes do I know he feels the same way after 20 years for me yes. So I have pretty much answered my own questions. At times these karmic lessons can be very hard, difficut & painful all at the same time.

TimeEnder September 3, 2013 at 9:02 pm

Question: I got confused when you said, “The thing of this is the man I consider my soul mate seems to always create these types of situations but I’m the one that usually has to deal with some difficulty in order for us to be together.”

Maybe you can clarify a bit. Not fully knowing what you meant to say there bugs me enough to ask. I mean I can guess but it is a good bet that since you conveyed your thoughts up till then, seemingly near perfect, it could mean that it is a bit less-crystal to even you yourself.

*I will say this though, in reply to the situation you spoke of… I have two minds. By that I mean recently I thought I found/got my ‘Zing!’ but hindsight being 20/200, it is more like our ‘Soul-Mate’ or ‘Love-at-first-Sight’ has more to do with us than it does with the other personal at all.

By that I mean I had all the factors present themselves for me.
1. Time slowing as if to stop all together
2.An overwhelming feeling of connection and love.
3. Feeling as if they could feel my thoughts/feeling, as it seemed I could theirs.
4. …Just an amazing joyous and warm and fuzzy moment where me and the girl seemed to be not two people of the world, but rather One Soul. One being.

And well though I will always remember and cherish having experienced what I make mention of here, honestly right up the my last breath of this body. I came to an unusual conclusion/awareness.

(I’ll try and make this short. But I think this is hands down the most interesting and fascinating thing made known to me in a long, long, time. And trust me, with me, that’s saying allot.)
**See, our reality is not as it seems. We are all one. But subjectively perceiving a limited experience, unique entirely to our own perspective. Before here, I think we all were One massively conscious and amazingly aware Being. We made this place and went into it, limited, only by our mindfulness and our hearts.

[Note: As conscious observers, the very fabric of our environment changes more like sounds of music determinant upon each and every change in us, far more than we now (so limited) can ever grasp normally.]

I said all that in hopes that it would give perspective. If you are up on modern scientific knowledge, you will likely not think I am completely crazy. And if so, therefor, you may benefit from my conclusion on the matter. Of this thing we call Love, Soul Mates presumptuousness or otherwise…

>—-> When I looked into her eyes and felt us as One. As Love. As my Zing! My ‘Love@FirstSight’… it was an illusory misinterpretation. ***The ‘connection’ we had was not shared with the girl, I’ve come to believe. It was an individual recognition and acceptance that for that moment, I seemed to be completely ‘One’ again and like ‘I’ expanded out to encompass this entire realities space. And since all is as of Mind. If to me it was then it actually was that, not just that it seemed. At first I was heart-broken to realize my one-sided, limited-to-self experience. But after a week or so I value and cherish it. ((crazy opinion here–>i think this ‘place’ and our separateness will very soon be done away with. i feel as though we as nearly at the end (beginning/being again as One us).

I apologize as I realize I am replying here as much for me as I am for you. And I needed to think-aloud in the same way that you would not take my suggestion for you to heart, as more likely posing truth beneficial to you than not. Had I just said this paragraph to you…

You are with the one you are with. It is not fair to communicate secretly in any way with them with out first telling the one you are with about the situation of your very strong feelings for the one you are not with. Truth be told life is short, but more now than ever. Tell them of your struggle, of how it seems you two aren’t In-Love, and of how you feel completely In-Love with the other person. Of how you feel terrible having to bring it up, but of how you would feel 100% worse not doing so, and possibly keeping secretes. Tell the one you are with that it is something that you can not ignore. And that you would like to take some time alone, a month or two, so that you can process and make a decision based on sound judgment. Once you are able to. Then I suggest you de-glamorize the other guy in your mind fully. Being sure to Not ignore any red-flags you may otherwise gloss over being aware of, in attempts to keep it as it is in your mind…that he is your true love, and that he loves you as complete and fully as you do him. If it is meant to be. It will be Sweetheart. You will not need to struggle, or worry, or fear about any part along the way. Who knows. If you realize it is just possibly your inner longing to be again with the All as One, as We once were; causing you to long for what you do not have. I would say this, “Fear/worry not even a moment. When we stop searching, this way or that, and attempting to acquire that which we feel we lack and are incapable of individually. It will effortlessly find us, that is, the awareness that there is only us. So to struggle or yearn, for or against ourselves for any reason, is nonsensical and dooming ourselves to painfulness.

Just be. Open-heartened, and honest, and as kind as you can be. To yourself, to the guy your now with, to the one you are not but feel drawn towards… (keeping a distance physically as far as you and the one you think you belong with. for perhaps a month at least. the one your with now would appreciate it, it will make making a decision (the right one) possible, and it will protect you and the one you are not with but think you maybe should be with, from confusing lusting-after complete unconditional-love (something which can not be found by you or I. It is something a thing we must stop and let find us.)

Be well – Love,
Times Volent

PS. Sorry for the crazy long, (at times) ramble on. Everything that happens does so for reasons more often than not unseen/unknown by us day in day out.
Take is slow I would suggest. I want not to discourage you Victoria, though I want you to think on this – You are with the one you are with and not the one you make mention of. That is not to say that change cannot happen, and for the better for all parties involved. It is just to say this in closing, ‘what is meant to be will be regardless of what you, i, or they, do.’ ;]

L September 18, 2013 at 12:39 am

I met this guy a while ago and when i met him i felt like id known him before but i just don’t understand him and i know that he doesn’t understand me. I just wonder why when we spoke after 7 months after not talking because he left why everything just melted away and it felt like no time had passed?

Mona Lisa October 2, 2013 at 3:27 am

I first met my soulmate when I was 14 but I didn’t realize it until about four years ago, I am now 24. Let me elaborate. 🙂
Back when I was fourteen, we had very brief small run in together.. I remember this feeling I can’t describe like a mild version of when I realized he was my soulmate, but I had no clue why I felt that way.. Our eyes never met that day he just stood out to me for a reason I couldn’t explain.. honestly, our meeting was so trivial that day it’s really amazing that I actually recall it.. I didn’t know his name,i didn’t know where he was from, we didn’t even speak I just saw him. That’s how I know it’s special.. It just wasn’t our time yet but I still felt a slight pull to him..six years later I got offered a random job out of the blue, that I took thankfully.. The first few weeks I worked with the same person, then I see on my schedule I’m scheduled to work with someone else.. I always have anxiety about new things, so I was not very thrilled haha..

I get to work and there he this time I didn’t recall the first time I saw him.. We worked together a few weeks before I realized anything. One day after work two of my coworkers him and I decided to go out booze cruising. My one coworker had been trying to ask me out but I had no interest, so I asked the other coworker who’d I’d originally worked with to do me a solid and sit in the front so I didn’t have to. Which left me and my unknown soulmate in the backseat together..not what you are thinking sickos.. Hehe! So we drive around for a little while, and I FINALLY look into his eyes..

I honestly don’t know if there are words that can describe how I felt. It’s like I was overcome with a sense of complete inner peace, like I was looking at a part of myself that was lost and finally found.. It’s like we felt our whole future without it happening yet. I kissed him, I didn’t even realize I was going to I just did.. I never thought of him like that before our eyes met. It was not something I’d ever do, I’m normally quite shy.. Other times I’d go out with a guy I’d panic and we wouldn’t end up kissing till our like forth date.. But there we were deeply connected without really knowing eachother at all..

Here we are four years later, still desperately in love with eachother. We just fit.. He gets me to try new things,I keep him grounded.. Things that are impossibly hard for most couples to get through we face with ease.. We’ve had ups and some horrible downs.. But we’ve always loved one another endlessly.. We sacrifice for one another and we spoil one another.. It’s just so easy for us when it would tear other relationships apart we have a bond that can’t be broken.. We can’t go more than a couple hours mad at one another before we both text eachother sorry I’m wrong, alot of the time at the exact same time 🙂 it’s been the best four years of my life and time still stops when we catch glances.. I love that man, he made me believe in the “when you know, you know” 🙂 I used to tell everyone that was impossible bullshit.. Captain hypocrite over here.. Best luck to everyone on what life brings their way!

jessy October 7, 2013 at 3:48 am

I contacted Dr.muku of, because someone that I loved the most suddenly left me. I have always been the one that has been hurt. I knew that when I first met him, he was the one I have always been looking for. For some reason he’s been holding on to the pain from a past relationship. Dr. muku of so far has been in contact with me every day and has decided that he will take my case. He told me that me and the guy was very well matched and she will help clear his mind from all the negativity. Thank you Dr. muku of Thank you for choosing my case. Thank you for giving me hope again. I’m looking forward for the spell to be casted and to be happy again. I have full faith in you and what you can do. Thank you.

SMac October 30, 2013 at 7:19 am

I’ve led a rather painful life in childhood and adulthood, suffered many years of all types of abuse from a young age and.continued to attract this in my adult life.

After a painful marriage and break up I changed and started to become more aware of this and wanted to change.

I started changing when I was also burdened with a feeling of loneliness and embarked on a dating site in hope to meet someone.

I’d chatted to a few guys and found myself turning many away once the subject turned to a physical sense.

Until one night a man sent me a message, rather random wasn’t really able to see what he looked like via his picture but a voice within me led me to continue talking to him, over a wk went by of conversations until he to bought it to a physical sense but by this point I was already hooked and entered into further conversations.

I began to doubt myself as I’d promised myself not to do this but at the same time I wasn’t able to stop.

I wasn’t wanting a full blown relationship because I was still healing but I was lonely, the connection I felt for this guy was already set in and I felt a deep desire to meet him.

After several attempts to walk away I finally agreed to meet him and so I did, from the moment he walked in that connection was for me amazing I felt instantly that I knew him and felt completely at home and safe.

Over the wks though I fought with myself and tried again to walk away, he had said he didn’t want to have deeper feelings, just to have a friendship and a physical relationship until either.ready to find more.

This confused me because When together the connection was amazing.. Like no other I’d had before.

I ended it often but often but on the Times I’d feel his presence with me, felt I could hear his thoughts and shortly after he’d contact me to ask to see me again..

This confused me so much because once he was back he’d again deny any deeper feelings for me, but together the connection was undeniable..

This went on for a year until I insisted it had to stop, in his last message to me he said that he’d learned something on himself and that he would try to move on, on his side to leave me in peace.

But still I am plagued with pictures of all ate meetings in my mind, my mind constantly thinks.of him and almost in conversations with him often.

Feel I’m crazy but this happens without force, happens when I’m busy or using distraction techniques..

I can’t get him out of my head, I don’t feel it’s over

I Feel are lives together have yet to be complete, though I don’t feel he is my life partner I definitely don’t think are time is over!!!

Is that wishful thinking or a true awareness..

What ever I now try to leave it in the hands of the universe, if it is meant to continue then we shall but if it was just my wishful thinking then in time I’m sure my heart.will heal and another.soul I will meet.

Which ever it to be I give thanks to the universe for the time we did spend together weather it was mostly physical, he was a kindred spirit that has already thought me much and I am truly grateful for this..

I wish you all light on your journey to awareness, Times will be hard and painful but always know the universe only ever gives you what you need nothing more nothing less xxx

TimesVolent November 1, 2013 at 12:44 pm

I believe that at times The Universe (Its Creator perhaps or just one aspect of its purpose), is very good at bringing us and others into interaction of which can do just as you say (or I thought you did as I read very fast) which is to show us how we error.

By this I mean specifically how we can allow our Expectations to lay waste to our future probable happenings in which we could be very happy. I believe you are on the right track and feeling crazy in vain And that that only comes from disallowing yourself to embrace the wondrous dutifulness that goes into making things possible for ourselves and our happiness. Your resistance to knowing you can move on smiling for having had the experience lesson. Whatever that all may be and entail, as far as you can or will discern. And be then ready and prepared calmly and openly without expectation of your own minds/self volition. But with rather something more akin to peaceful pleasant knowing. 😉

Take Care and Keep Your heart and mind Open and Unbridled. (lol i have never said that before 😛 but I believe it true and apt)

PS just about a month ago I went from not knowing of a girl to seeing her online and being/feeling, as though i was, very warmly and fully full of love for her. Even unto falling almost as far as I could for her. But I pulled back realizing the unnatural and amount of disproportionate likely hood that it was justifiable i felt what i did, over the truth that i should not have been. (in my mind, while having a moment of truth moment). Then i pondered the fact the girl was SO MUCH like me that i felt i knew that would and was a negative and that it couldnt have worked out really. A day later i was unsure and very sad. Two days later (aprox) i asked the Universe, to bring me and a girl that might be on the world, who could say be meant for me as i for her. One which I could love and be loved by. Laugh with and console and cry with. If it was good and not in relation to my own understanding or hopes or expectations…
(i even specified that if she came from Europe, and maybe new of a small place we would one day (as if) sit by a cottage and look out unto the Sea while in peaceful love with one another and maybe having a child born of us running about.. Also that if she had Lond Dark Bown hair and a very good sense of humor; id be very fine with that.. and guess what.

About a week ago. One month later aprox. I went onto an online game that i DL on a whim, contacted a guild in one area on a whim, and came to meet a girl which very much fits all the perimeters who lives somewhere in Europe, and whos parents own a cottage right of the shore of the sea. She is so funny and pleasant (though worried to not find love) and she has long dark brown hair to boot. ;D

*If I didnt realize the Universe (i believe) was preparing me for being willing to go through what i did so that i would learn a great thing for my self. I had long since put being in love again out of my mind, to safeguard my heart till i died. The Universe (God/Creator of this place) and us all, certainly work together in wondrously magnificent ways at times. And for that. I say… Thank You.

A November 16, 2013 at 3:02 pm

Please try to withhold judgement from this post I am trying to give the most accurate description possible. I am desperate need of help I feel as if I am having an existential psychotic break.

Let’s being. I am an extremely intelligent person. I am highly rational and logical but I have always been able to hold on to a sense of emotional intelligence, which leaves me very vulnerable in the mental/professional world I would be classified in. Also I am only 19, I know to some that sounds a bit young, but trust me I am so far beyond my years that I cannot relate to anyone within ten years of my age range and although most of my friends are in there 30s and 40s, I still feel disconnected from them as well.

Here is my story:

I have a seasonal job. Every day when I walk into the locker room my eyes always stay cast down to the ground to avoid eye contact. I do this because making eye contact with people makes my emotional intelligence come out instead of the rational. One day in December when I walked into the room, like any other day, I felt a strange, the best way I can describe it, is as a “tuggingness” feeling, my eyes left the floor and fell straight onto a gentleman who was sitting down. He had dark brown eyes that immediately started to send some sort of frequency to me, and he was smiling. I felt so uncomfortable I looked down instantly and walked as fast as I could away from him. I want to add that I can still literally have this entire scene played over in absolute clarity in my head.

Initially I dismissed this feeling as attraction. Our second encounter was quite novel. You see I am ski instructor and I was teaching a lesson on a hill. And suddenly out of nowhere he skied by and got so close to my face and teasingly mocked me about what I was shouting at the kids. It happened so fast I could barely comprehend what was going. I again dismissed this. I did not know this person, nor was I particularly interested in getting to know them. Again, I have clarity with this scene.

Anyway, weeks passed, without contact. I found my thoughts about this person growing. So I asked a trusted friend about this person. They told me that he was in his 30s and was currently in a committed relationship with someone. I internally laughed at myself at how carried away I allowed myself to get with this person, my normal state of mentality was restored, and it was again confirmed to me how much I needed to cage up this emotional aspect to my psychic. It was just attraction.

I would like to add that I have been prone to having obsessive crushes and infatuations with people, none of them amounted to anything. Thus another reason to make me skeptical about this whole scenario.

On March 30, I attended a party, one at my boss’s house who is a 35 year old man and strangely one of my closer friends. I had not seen the man that I have been talking about in a month and I had little hope of ever encountering him again. Unfortunately for me, he arrived at the party. I remember feeling a strange chill run through my body, and I looked away from the conversion I was having and I saw him. Instincts kicked in I tried to position myself in a way where I was sure he couldn’t see me. I even left the place I was standing. I went into the garage, and talked to some of local co-workers that I have known almost my entire life. But then he invaded. He walked into the room and refused to look at me. I got the vibe he was acting a bit awkward as if he were trying to avoid something. He eventually positioned himself directly across from me and once he was standing still it happened. These massive waves of energy starting pouring out of him and over too me. It was like I could understand everything about him without knowing what I was understanding, I was getting huge amounts of varying emotions coming from him yet I was not feeling overwhelmed by this, I was, too much surprise on my part, feeling very comfortable as if this was a natural occurrence. I knew he could feel something strange happening judging by his stance and expression. I was not able to understand the depth of his understanding of what was happening, but I knew he knew something was up. At one point the girl he was dating came into the room briefly, he did not even look at her. The entire room got hostile and tense. I think she could feel it and this is why she left. It is weird thing to say, and many times I have tried to convince myself but to no avail, that in that moment I could feel his closeness to me and his distance from her.

I hate the word feel, I think feeling things is just so irrational.

After this incident we made eye contact several times that night, and each time transcended in intensity. I had never felt such a connection to anyone before. I would look into his eyes and it was like he was reassuring me of something, I felt innocence, familiarity, blind trust, things of that nature. Although we never talked he was constantly shifting his body and gaze towards me so that we could see each other. And in some instances I even saw us mirroring each other’s movements.

I have not seen this person since that night. And to say my life is hectic would be an understatement, I have recently run away to the forest because of other factors of my life that have been making me deteriorate. And the strange thing is that no matter how distracted I am I still think about him. These memories, although few, these feelings, haunt me day and night. Sometimes I even allow them to launch me into anxiety attacks because I cannot understand why this person means so much to me, and why I cannot forget about them. And you know what every time I have come close to forgetting, I’ll dream about him. One time I even thought I heard his voice call my name while I was drifting to sleep.

I do not believe in love at first sight, I do not believe in karma or telepathy. This connection I had with person has literally shattered the foundations of my understanding of the universe. I need someone to reassure me that I am not losing my mind. Sometimes I think that I would like someone to tell me that I am losing my mind, because that would be more comfortable than accepting the alternative. Can anyone explain what is happening to me?

A November 16, 2013 at 3:05 pm

I would also like to add that I would literally do anything to unexperience this and forget about it. I wish this never happened to me. I wouldn’t wish it upon anyone.

diptee December 21, 2013 at 3:22 pm

I ve found my soul mate in my best friend (male)
Am in a perfectly very happy relationship with my love, but my soul mate is my best friend ,we share the same views of life, the same dreams, the same aim, we understand each other better than anyone else , we do not fear about judgement in our friendship, we are so free , so open and i can be totally myself with him , he s had a few love affairs but they did not work well for him, at times he tends to be jealous about my boyfriend .. i dont know how things will turn out in the future..if we ll be together …personally i want to be with my boyfriend but my best friend is someone ill never ever forgo for anything 🙂 and the best my best friend and I know each other for 4 years over the internet (fb ,skype ) but we met only very recently and i was like ive known him for ever – no hesitation or what 🙂

Sad Girl December 26, 2013 at 2:49 pm

I had found my soul-mate & loved him for 7 years. We had went to a country called Belize so we can be happy again with out our old lives. But when we got back to the USA for to see a baby born. We were stuck in Omak, Wa. On the first two weeks we were there He started to get a phone call from his ex wife he was divorcing. I don’t know what was said at that time but he started to acted a little weird. But its like his old self but this was a little different. He had 5 hours talking with her then on another day 10 hours but it started to scair me. Then he was going to another state to visit family for only 7 day but now I have not heard from him for 4 months until my birthday came. He called yelling at me but then I have not heard from him cents then. But I can feel all him emotions. When he is sad, happy, angry, jumping for joy, even when he has sex with his ex. I think we were set up to make us separate from each other. His kids & ex wife had it all plain. I found her phone number on his FB when we were in Belize that his daughter gave him just in cast she told him. One month befor we came back to the USA. But I never looked before we left there. Now when I look in the morrow I’m looking real gray like I can’t breath. I just thought it was all me so I put makeup on just to hid it. I looked on FaceBook & see my soul-mate he is looking the same way as me. Like he’s really gray like he can’t breath. I have not smiled in 5 months & same with him. He wrote me one time but I didn’t get it because of the people I stayed with stoled my daughter inlaws Nook Color that it was on. I have not stopped crying for over 5 months. I want my soul-mate back & so does he but we don’t know how. I’m going to try to go where he is so he can see I’m here. Help me please I know we were set up on all of this.

SMac December 28, 2013 at 6:52 am

I don’t understand what’s happened for me with this man I met last year, I felt safe and connected with him on such a level I’d never had before, but he always said to me he didn’t want a relationship with me thatbecause of his life and work he only wanted a friendship with the extra benefits, I feel stupid for allowing this to happen, the reason I did was because I thought on another level, I felt emotions I’d never had with a guy before, when apart I New when he’d contact me and then he would, tried many times over the year this happene to end it but each time he’d come back, each time again I knew it would happen..

I’d be happily getting on with my life not thinking about him, then he’d pop into my head and then I’d hear from him…

I ended it again after a year of this happening but this time it is over though as hard as I try to forget and get on with my life he still enters my thoughts, I ask this to stop but it doesn’t 🙁

I don’t understand how on one level it could feel so right like we had so much in common, enjoyed doing hobbies together not just intimate time, but on another level he always told me I wasn’t to mean anymore to him than this !! Why then can’t I forget, why are my thoughts invaded by him, some say it’s because he’s probably thinking about me…

Its getting worse to I’ve now started to dream about him nightly, like his presence invades my mind throughout the day and night.

The only benefit I have had from meeting him is self growth, healing from past pains which I’ve had many, but why can’t I spend a day not thinking about him? Why as time goes on is that getting worse instead of better??

Please if anyone understands what is happening to share how I can move on and remove him from my thoughts, because though I thought he was the one for me he clearly doesn’t feel the same and I just want peace…

Thank you for the support in advance dear friends xxx

mar December 28, 2013 at 9:54 am

SMac maybe this helps: tell him what you feel. Hiding your feelings is what hurts you. If he doesn’t feel the same, it’s for the best. This may sound harsh, but extreme attraction is not always the same as love. Love takes more than one person. I hope this helps you. X

SMac December 28, 2013 at 10:26 am

Thank you Mar,

I did tell him I liked him a lot but I never told him I felt a deep connection to him, I don’t use the L word..

His response was always that he just wanted friends..

Though many times did his actions contradict what he was saying.

What more can I tell him without sounding like a crazy woman lol

Just don’t understand why my thoughts can’t be free of him mostly, I’ve never struggled this much to move on and I find it draining to be perfectly honest x

mar December 30, 2013 at 7:09 am

I can imagine that this is hard. It takes a lot of courage to say it and mean it. And maybe it’s to early for the two of you, but he isn’t ready for such a big commitment. Sometimes it helps to take some distance and see how he reacts and how you feel without him.

JoJo February 5, 2014 at 5:07 pm

Yes, our eyes have met across the room & it felt like nobody else was in the room- time stood still for about 30 seconds. It was a moment I could never forget!
He is a friend but since I’ve known him I felt many positive and happy memories. When I first met him, I think about that moment all the time- I felt like I was struck by lightning! I also have experienced some painful times too. However, the dynamics are always changing. I’m curious to see how forgiveness from him comes to play when I’m around him again. Both of us are married, but when I’m around him, I feel like he’s my security and I’m not being judged. He’s usually positive and we both have read a couple of the same books. One we both have read is The Secret & we both work with children in our occupations. Since the painful part happened, I’ve become more spiritually stronger. He may only be a small part of my life, but I will take that instead of him not being in it at all! My son loves this guy too!

Selena February 6, 2014 at 11:04 am

Hey I’m Selena ! So I’m 16 and I’ve had the weirdest experience ever ! So he’s a family friend and I only met him 2 years ago at my cousins wedding which was at his house and as soon as we locked eyes , it felt so electric it’s crazy !

Like I wouldn’t be exaggerating about something like this but he’s 4 yeas older and I even noticed how even he seemed struck . And then we talked and it was instant attraction ! Like most of the girls at my school go around and date boys but I’ve always felt this calling to wait for the right one and as soon as I saw him across the room , I knew he was the one . It was like I was drawn to him . And it’s funny how we didn’t instantly date or flirt but I felt like I knew him from ages ago . And he’s super shy yet he tries so hard to steal the spotlight just to grab my attention and it’s adorable ! I’m actually a non-believer of love but just meeting him made me fall in love without any Rationale ! And it’s like we can just sit there without talking and communicate more than words ever can . It’s this mutual bond of care for each other which I love the most !!! Sadly we can’t be together due to family issues and that hurts me so bad because if there was ever someone I’d be with , it would be him in a heartbeat .

Selena February 6, 2014 at 11:22 am

Hey I’m Selena ! So I’m 16 and I’ve had the weirdest experience ever ! So he’s a family friend and I only met him 2 years ago at my cousins wedding which was at his house and as soon as we locked eyes , it felt so electric it’s crazy !
Like I wouldn’t be exaggerating about something like this but he’s 4 yeas older and I even noticed how even he seemed struck . And then we talked and it was instant attraction ! Like most of the girls at my school go around and date boys but I’ve always felt this calling to wait for the right one and as soon as I saw him across the room , I knew he was the one . It was like I was drawn to him . And it’s funny how we didn’t instantly date or flirt but I felt like I knew him from ages ago . And he’s super shy yet he tries so hard to steal the spotlight just to grab my attention and it’s adorable ! I’m actually a non-believer of love but just meeting him made me fall in love without any Rationale ! And it’s like we can just sit there without talking and communicate more than words ever can . It’s this mutual bond of care for each other which I love the most !!! Sadly we can’t be together due to family issues and that hurts me so bad because if there was ever someone I’d be with , it would be him in a heartbeat .

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Nanna April 9, 2014 at 5:48 am

I have met a guy after i got married and got kids. our Marriage wasnt working ok. Still i do try. I met him during my work he normally chat with me and then he gave me his number. I thought i should call him. Use to stare at me Always looks in to m eyes. The first night he came to my place just to see me. was different for me. I mean he was romantic loving and i felt something extra ordinary when he leaned to say somethig in my ears. He talked to me softly and when he hugged me from behind and the time he kissed me i felt i belong to him. After he left i did felt Happy but later on wards i started feeling guilt. So i decided to let him go i ve sent him a message saying what ever happnd was a huge sin and we have to forget each other. he didnt reply neither called but inside its killing me. Still i Cant call him becoz i dont knw why he came in my life.

teddy May 7, 2014 at 1:33 am

So what if I’m a girl in love with a woman. When she got to know me better upon our second or third get together she told me I look familiar. I wanted to say, well maybe you’ve seen me in your dreams!

Blue Heron June 2, 2014 at 5:57 pm

Just got out of an abusive 13 year relationship.. (I am 36) it could be argued that my ex was a soul contract.. I was used and abused thru much of it.. and after he choked me on valentines day, and being terrorized for 2 months afterwards trying to make him leave and the restraining order and sending his things to his mothers house, I’m realizing 2 months after the breakup.. just how serious my issues are with co-dependency and deeply rooted my problems are.. I am seeing a psychologist and attending coda and group therapy.. around the time of the breakup I met Roland (30 yrs old) online thru experience project.. we became close but it was like a working friendship that slowly has begun to develop into something more.. I do like him and enjoy his company and he is close to my age.. the problem is that we both started talking to this younger man named Jacob (19), and I wasn’t expecting the connection with him.. it’s upsetting because what is socially acceptable is to date Roland who is close to my age and has a shared generational cultural history.. yet the connection with Jacob is immediate, intense, almost psychic.. we both have been kind of knowing what the other is doing before confirming it.. I have been fighting against it… but either Jacob is an old soul or I’m a young soul.. either way, mentally, spiritually, emotionally we connect on every level, he understands my emotional core and even though he’s extremely complex.. I understand him as well.. I tried to change it into a spiritual relationship only and stay as a mentor/friend in a non-sexual way, it seems purer to me to do that, and not mix romantic love into selfless love like that.. that way I could be with Roland without complication.. but Jacob would not have it, and after months of pushing, I finally relented to phone s… mostly because I haven’t touched either of them and I was curious about this magnetic orbital attraction to Jacob.. and to my surprise to both of us it felt like we could feel the earth moving, was the most spiritually profound intense reaction I’ve ever had to the act.. Jacob is now certain that he won’t settle for anyone else but me, and I am certain that 17 year difference relationships do not work, at least that is what i’m convincing myself of.. I never thought I would ever be looked at as a cougar.. I told them both I will not date anyone for a full year until I’ve grieved properly for my ex (which probably isn’t nearly enough time) they both know they are competing and I am staying friends with both of them until I’m ready to commit to a new relationship… I’m also scared to death.. Jacob says he wants a family in less than 5 years and he has begun planning his life around that, including starting a business (we both had the same dream the same night about that, a blue heron walking along tall grass), and he wants to have a family with me.. I think i need to ask the universe for help because I am beside myself over it.. I just think that he is meant to grow up at his own time, not a time he invents for me.

AnnabelleMaree June 8, 2014 at 7:28 pm

Hi, Im a girl who has never felt whole. I dont let myself feel, I dont let myself have relationships after my past ones. In less han two weeks i will be 18. Ive never been a person of religion, but for the past year ive felt this pull towards God, and Christianity. Growing up it was forced on me, and When i came out as a lesbian, it was forced on me even more. I met someone Two months ago. A Guy. Now for someone who has been a lesbian for four years, Having this attraction, not just a physical attraction, but a pull towards a guy, is something new. I didnt know how to go about it. He is a christian, and his religon plays a part in any relationship he has. I cant help but wonder, was my sudden pull towards god and religon leading me to meeting this guy? Is he someone who is supposed to be in my life? Its like every part of me is pushing me to be with this man. But at the same time we started talking, his ex girlfriend started talking to him as well. And he is confused. I dont know what to do?

well... June 9, 2014 at 9:55 pm

Well…this is a bunch of bullshit. When you fall in love or are even just infatuated all kinds of crazy chemicals get released that make you feel all kinds of crazy ways…for bonding purposes. So that you stay together long enough to make and raise babies.
I’ve felt these things THREE times in the span of three years with three different people, three different people with which I had short flirtations with/dated for a short period. And did that mean I met and lost my soulmate three times? No, I just fall in love easily.
Don’t get me wrong it can be a wondrous feeling especially, I imagine, if it lasts (because of course I wouldn’t know lol) but it does not mean that you are meant to be together because the universe decided so. Please don’t make that mistake because it occurs to me that that line of thought can lead to pretty blind decision making abilities…and we’re already blind enough when in love without more mythology to cloud judgement.

Carrie June 11, 2014 at 11:26 am

I believe that I met my soul mate! But in the situation it just wasn’t right at that time. His friend turned jealous and I believe he poisoned his mind against me. Before things turned sour, me and him got on so well! He always gave me butterflies and was always so sweet. The way he would look at me was so cute. He would reconise any little thing I done differently and always had lovely things to say. His eyes would also light up when he saw me and his little smile and face would change whenever I was around. He would remember certain things I wore and give me little hints that he had been checking up on my face book. When we had a arguement I deleted him of facebook out of anger and now wishing I didn’t. He’s a loyal friend and his friend made up horrible rumors about me so of course hes going to believe him. Ive never seen him in ages but still I think about him everything second of the day. The first time I met him there was something about him I loved. I think if it wasn’t for his friend coming between us we could have been in a relationship and happy. Why still to this day I feel that something isn’t over? I look for him all the time, hoping that one day I will bump into to him. Just to see what he would be like with me again. Hes the only one I want to be with and I hate it cause it hurts. Can anyone give me any advice and do you think that he could have been my soul mate ? June 12, 2014 at 6:30 pm

Very good write-up. I absolutely appreciate this website.


judy June 15, 2014 at 7:16 pm

carrie u should persue it, nothing stopping you but something that someone said….you never know till you speak to the horses mouth as they say..

judy June 15, 2014 at 7:27 pm

People can be mean and cruel….and jealousy is not a good thing I should know….I have that tendancy and Im working on it, so for me working on it Im changing my mind set cos I want to be a better person, and another thing…company we keep can play a major effect on us, they can enhance us or they can make us miserable… we eat can help and our surroundings too…so Carrie , Im praying before you decide to move on…at least (and Im not saying do it) speak to this person……for your own peace of mind….peace out

Silly June 26, 2014 at 3:49 am

The strangest thing happened to me last year as I walked out of a grocery store my eye caught this man who looked shocked and bedazzled to see me, I gave him a smile and left the shop. I did not think too much about the encounter and shopped there every so often and he would follow me around, I later called him my stalker. It felt like he was stalking me but why did I go back to that shop? I realized that he was not there and I felt empty and sad (this was strange because I don’t even know his name I don’t even know the sound of his voice), I thought he had been transferred or got other employment, so I stopped shopping there.

I went back after about a month of not shopping there, and to my amazement there he was. He seemed very happy to see me (I was secretly very happy to see him as well).

I have dodged every interaction that he has attempted because I am afraid of what will happen.

I took my mom to the shop about 3 months ago, whilst she was deciding on what fabric softener to buy she started to laugh, when I queried the seemingly unfounded laughter she told me the story. With my back to the one entrance of an isle and her half facing the entrance, he walked to the entrance and peeked at me en looked dead straight into my mother’s eyes hahahaha he then quickly made his getaway before I saw him. This would usually creep me out but I found it charming.

The other strange thing is, I have noticed even if he did not see me enter the shop it is as if he can feel my presence (I don’t believe in other lives or the healy feely stuff so this is strange to me).
I am married and thus the reason I cannot talk to him or start talking to him because I am afraid that I wont be able to stop the inevitable. But just seeing him 3 times a week gives me pure joy (It’s been over a year since our first encounter it was in April 2013).

Skunk June 30, 2014 at 9:08 pm

I’m 19 about to be 20 in the fall. I’m a Scorpio and out of all my compatible signs I always go for Capricorns. My soulmate is a stereotypical Capri while I’m a complete Scorpio. Our connection is so strong and loving. I’m a pansexual female and my soulmate is a girl as well but she’s straight(or so she says). That doesn’t keep us from holding hands or cuddling though, and we do give inoccent kisses at times. We are both art majors in college and have never had a fight ever. We actually met when she was in college and I was a highschooler. Every Valentine’s Day we are eachothers Valentine and make cards and write a letter or poem of appreciation for eachother. I am hardcore for sure that this girl is my other half. She feels it too. I have never felt such a strong emotion in my life. It is the simplest word but it can’t describe the feelings we share. Love. It’s not enough. I love her with all my heart and do simple things to spoil her haha! Everything from bringing her lunch or snacks to carrying her to class in the mornings when she’s tired from working third shift at her job. I’m two years younger but about a foot taller and alot stronger than her. We even have pet names for eachother, she’s my chipmunk and I’m her skunk. It’s got it’s personal meanings behind it and we adress eachother usually by those names. I wanna be with my chipmunk forever.

Lifelite July 2, 2014 at 10:51 am

I met my soulmate 8 years go. We began a relationship 2 years later. We’ve been together for 6 years. During the time before we got together we were drawn to each other. I know that the moment we meant is always going to be a picture in our minds and our first kiss was something out of a story book. After meeting we kind of stalked each other without the other knowing it. We talk about it now and laugh. I my husband is my soulmate because we connect on a level that is superior to any other that I’ve ever felt. We are great friends. I knew that we were connected when this thing that has only happened to me a few times, happened. I was in one room and he in another and I started singing a song and he rushed into the room and asked me what made me think of that song I said I don’t know It just popped into my head. He said he was singing the same song in his head before I started singing it out loud. We’ve done that a few times. I often feel like we’ve had experiences that I feel like we’ve done them before or been there before but we haven’t. I’ve never been more comfortable with anyone.

We both had a very physical and emotional connection to begin with and we became the best of friends. Recently we have been separated and it has been a stressful and emotionally exhaustive time for us. Throw phone calls and letters we have become even closer, if that’s possible. He says sometimes he can smell me and feel me which I thought was just him dreaming, but the last month I have felt something touch me. The first time it scared me to death and I started crying because I thought I was crazy, mainly because I wasn’t asleep or dreaming. I was wide awake and driving. A very distinctive feel of a hand grabbing my thigh with not a full hand but the finger tips. I kept this to myself at first but after it happened again, while I was driving, It was night time. I thought a spider had jumped on my leg. So I smacked at it but nothing was there. I told my husband and he told me he often thinks about touching my thighs like he used to when we he was home. It’s still hard to imagine but I know what I felt and I love that we are connected on that level. I have heard about dead partners coming back and touching their spouses, but when both spouses are alive? I read something someone said about being connected and when your souls have known each other for a lifetime can they be connected this way and experience what we’ve experienced. It makes me happy.

buster18 July 4, 2014 at 8:47 pm

i was at a building when this guy entered…he caught my attention. my eyes followed him from the time he walked into that door, to the time he went up the stairs of the building. before he finally disappeared from my eyes, he looked my way and our eyes met. we stared for a few seconds until he disappeared from my sight. from that moment, i never forgot him. i am not sure why, but deep within me, i long for that time to cross paths with him again. and now, i got an email from a company on that building. i got really excited, as i feel like i am being called by fate to go back there and who knows, i might see him again….

Amyanonymous July 7, 2014 at 4:30 pm

It’s so very sad reading many of the above stories and I so feel for anyone who has lost someone very close. My story is about losing someone who was very special. Perhaps many will judge me, but I met this beautiful man where I worked, and I was married at the time, and still am. Very long story so will try to keep short. I never had many boyfriends before marrying, but I became quite gradually, very attracted to this special man and we ended up having a relationship. I felt very guilty as I was married, and this lovely man had mentioned at times our being together. The chemistry between us was electrifying and amazing. He was the sweetest, kindest and gentlest guy I ever knew and was so very gentle and caring with me. I then had a baby (with my husband) and life moved on. I still saw my beautiful man on occasions, over about 30 years. I know, it is such a very long time. Didn’t really meet up that many times, but each time it was wonderful to be with him. I know it’s no excuse, but my husband had been physically abusive in the past towards me, and in many and most recent years has been so mentally abusive that it basically contributed to a recent breakdown I’ve had, but there were other factors too. I hadn’t seen my lovely man since 1998 but we spoke on the phone and I know we still loved each other, but our lives were pretty separate and very busy. I had been fairly ill since 2008 but had just made up my mind to contact my man just this year and suggest meeting up, which I know he would have wanted to do. Our relationship and feelings were always there, but I stopped seeing him on occasions as I loved him so very much but knew we could never be together as, by then anyway, he had married and had a child. I know he wanted to go on seeing me and knew, as I did, that what we did have together was very special and that it would never change. Even after seeing him sometimes after long periods of time, everything would be and feel just the same. There was no embarrassment or inhibitions, we were truly comfortable with eachother and we knew we had a special bond. I rang to try to get in touch with him just over a week ago and was told the very unbelievable sad news that he had died just last year. I was, and still am, in total shock. I feel also so very bad that I called him in 2011, was planning to try to meet up also in 2012 and chickened out, as I always do. I put down the phone when he answered , not because I didn’t want to speak to him or was being horrible, but he always knew I used to get really nervous if I hadn’t spoken to him for ages and I would never want to intrude on his family life. He always used to say, and I know he meant it, that I could ring any time and he would always speak to him no matter who was in the room with him, even his wife. But once we had spoken etc it was fine. It was just me, I never wanted him to think that I would ask anything or too much of him, which I didn’t. In fact, contrary to that, it was he who had asked me to go away him years ago, and I couldn’t because I had a daughter. Just to say that had I not chickened out of the phone call I tried to make in 2011, I would possibly or probably have met up with him, learned he was ill and dying, and would have had the very precious chance to have told him one last time how much I loved, and had loved him and we would have been together one or two last times. Now, I am just left with my beautiful of him and of us, and I just hope he remembered before he died, that I did truly love him. I am in a very unhappy marriage and often wished I had left, but I didn’t. I will always know though that I could never love anyone as I did my beautiful sweet man. I really don’t know how to face the days now, in fact, I’m not really bothering much. Feeling a little sorry maybe for myself as have not recovered from the breakdown I’ve had, and was so loving the thought of seeing my special man and making plans in the future to see more of him. I can’t speak to anyone about this, have just one close friend. Life really is so cruel at times. I wish everyone peace, and perhaps some happiness in the future. I’m sure you’ll all wish this for me too. X

Im_A_Believer July 9, 2014 at 7:08 pm

We are soul mates, I have no doubt. Everything about my own heart and soul, and this story, tells me that is true.

I met her at a job interview. I didn’t even want the job, really. A family member had worked there for many years and has health issues stemming from it (stress). But, I went for it – Synchronicity number 1 – and there she was.

Something about her – Nothing about her. I just knew. I knew there was something weird at play here, but had no idea what. I was basically content in my personal life. Got away from a job I discovered I hated for 21 years, had a pension coming in, and could pursue other ventures. But something kept nagging at the back of my mind to find a job. So I did. She voted against me getting the job actually. She went on vacation so wasn’t around for the second interview and I was actually down about that. I didn’t even know her! Of course, even against her vote, I got the job anyway – Synchronicity number 2.

We hit it off almost immediately. Once the ice was broken about my feelings for her, she was like a wellspring of joy and love and light. We started spending the work days on project work and we spent weekends together. No, not that. Just doing something; anything; nothing. I’m not that old, but we just wanted to be together, to complete the puzzle, if you will. We would meet at retail stores, go out for lunch, shop, just be with each other, enjoying who we were when we were together. We are both married, I’ll get that out in the open now so you judges out there can get on with your life’s calling. You have no idea how beautiful and meaningful that a soulmate realization can be. Indescribable in it’s beauty and heights it can lift you; horribly agonizing when you are torn apart. True ‘married’ souls. There is a huge difference between soul mates and being committed to a marriage.

With a soulmate, you always know what the other one is thinking before anything is said. She and I have the same passions, or same variety of passions I should say, not just one thing. She actually lived in several of the cities and small towns that I visited on my travels, at the same time she lived there. She worked for one of the companies at the time I visited, but she was in a local office, and my visit was in another country. I mean we are talking some small, cowpath towns most of you have probably never heard of.

Our paths crossing and crisscrossing all the time, but we never met until she voted against me getting the job. We could talk about anything; shared all our emotions, which for me, in this short of a time span is pretty amazing; and yes, the physical togetherness was beyond my vocabulary. She introduced me to her siblings, to her children and she wanted me to meet her parents. Who does that unless there is something pretty amazing going on?

She is miserable with her twice (maybe more times) cheating husband. He does not love her, I’ve witnessed it. I absolutely can’t breathe without her. I am half a soul. When we had to split, I lost the better half of my soul. I went to work one day and her office was empty. Nothing. Gone. I was devastated. Utterly devastated. The howling, wailing, hollow sounds that followed were not of this body. Pure torture. And now, even 4 yrs later, her name and birthdate are everywhere; license plates, signs, mileage markers, and for a real kicker; her birthdate appears in my bank account, my personal cell phone number, my hotel and airline accounts, etc – all of which I had long before we ever met. My laptop for my newest job has her birthdate for the asset tag number. Every time I open it, there she is.

So she’s been with me always, at least as far back as I have gone in the last four years to research. And her name showing up on license plates all the time? It’s not so much that they show up, but when they show up. At first it was while I was adamantly saying to myself how strong I am now and can move forward – BANG! there she is again, at that moment, right in front of me. Almost like she still knows what I am thinking and is responding. Four years of journaling these incidents. Four years, and counting. Some days I can’t keep up. I have told a number of people, including a relationship counselor, intuitives, authors, etc. but still no one quite believes this is true. It doesn’t matter. I know it is true, as much as I wish it weren’t sometimes. I stumble on her everywhere; I went to Spain 6 months after we were split up (a nightmarish experience by the way). She told me once that Spain was her dream place to go, and there I was. I had traveled extensively before we met, but had never been to Spain before. It was quite by ‘chance’ that I was there at the time. I went on a business tour and after we stopped, we were standing at a stairwell near the entrance. A pile of Christmas packages about 3 to 3.5 feet high was there. Only one name written on an A4 sheet of paper – A__. Not going to give her name, just fill in the blanks. Just a typical American/English name. In Spain?! Why wasn’t it Maria? Ariana? Miguel?

Coincidence? Really? Right.

Some have told me we are not through. There is more to be seen. I can only hope. One person said I am creating these incidents myself. Really? I suppose that’s possible, but wow, that’s some power, making signs and numbers that represent my soul’s deepest desire. And I’ve apparently been doing that for a number of years – before we even met! I should start desiring a castle in Ireland!

Again, I’m not a brokenhearted teenager talking here. I have been around the block a few times, read all kinds of writing on this and other related topics – synchronicity, spirituality, psychology, healing, and even poetry – Rumi and Hafiz, writing my own, etc.; and quantum physics (like this – a team of scientists from the University of Jerusalem have used quantum entanglement to allow two photons – that never even existed at the same time! – to communicate with each other; and, yet, some of you reading this still don’t believe that soul mates are even possible; somewhat we have met in a past life, possibly many times).

I’ve had all kinds of personal relationship and spiritual experiences in my life, including what I will call being “nudged from the other side” to do things I would not normally do just so I could meet someone who is now a lifelong friend on a whole different level. But that’s a story for another time. And even with that experience – nothing – ever – like this.

So what do I do now? Muddle my way through the days. Will I ever experience this again? Time is ticking away. I don’t know, but I never say never any more, folks. Would I do it again? Beyond a doubt. I love her still. I had a dream once, that an intuitive foretold I would have. Didn’t tell me the message, only the messenger, and I didn’t have the dream until many months later, having forgotten all about the conversation. Making a long story short, the message was this: “It never dies.” It never does.

Jaclyn July 13, 2014 at 6:04 pm

This is the first post I have ever replied to on any site.

My boyfriend of 2 years and I recently broke up, 2 weeks ago. I have been having the hardest time letting this go, and have seen him since. We are exactly like our old selves around each other still. All of my memories are so vivid with him, every single detail. Especially the first time we met briefly 6 years ago and all our encounters since.

After coming across your site, and this specific explanation I feel like I can finally start moving forward with the breakup and continue hanging out with him and not feel an impending doom of never seeing each other again. I’ve also known there was something beyond all my other relationships (both romantic and friendly) with him. Thank you for helping me move past my first heartbreak!

bb July 17, 2014 at 12:43 pm

What great stories here – and what a great post. I love the Gilbert quote – it is so true.

Yes, I fall hard for soul mates – I think we can have more than one, and we more often than not won’t spend the rest of our lives together. I had just turned 21, was kind of a mess like any passionate 21 year old, and went to a private party for a band traveling through town that had played a concert the night before – they also played a couple of short sets for the party. Anyway my friend was part of the “press” – he had an indie self published music rag – and had met some of the band members the night before, and as we walked in the door he introduced me to S – the drummer – I was a little preoccupied, tired and had just gotten off work running on hardly any sleep, but when I shook his hand a jolt of electricity went through my body. I had to do a double take on his face. We proceeded to spend every minute of the rest of the night together – except when he was on stage – and the vibrations and electricity between us was something I had never felt before. I felt like we knew each other, it was truly LAFS. He said things to me about myself that nobody knew and even maybe I had forgotten, he “saw” me in a way people I had known for years never had in one look.

So I proceeded to take him home and we spent the night in the throws of passionate sex until the sun came up and he had to make it back to the tour bus and leave town. He wanted my info to contact me, me being jaded kind of appreciated the experience as momentary and thought I would never hear from him again as he was leaving for a European leg of the tour in a week or so – and he proceeded to call almost every night from European pay phones, and I had never felt this strongly for anyone as I had for the man on the other end of that phone. Anyways – fast forward him constantly traveling, and myself as well for work, and seeing each other whenever possible, talking marriage later, meeting each others families etc., we were together and in love and planning our future together for almost 6 years, we had an open relationship and it taught me so much about myself and the freedom we we gave to each other that never diminished what we had, he allowed me to grow without holding on too tight and I gave him the same, it was beautiful and made me into the person I am today, and the person he saw in me allowed me to fully even know myself. I won’t get into the sad part of the story – it is a little Romeo and Juliet at cross purposes – but we still are very important to each other until this day.

And I just met another soulmate. This one I am reeling over right now – from our 2nd day of briefly talking we had both admitted that we see each other in the other. I won’t get into the details – but this is a doozy. On our last night together before I had to leave town he took me out – with his daughter. She is quite the talkative and beautiful 12 year old, and he hung back for the first hour or so and just listened to us talk, and as I got to know his daughter, I saw myself. But a different self, a self that I would have been without some of my damage from my childhood. I saw this girl who so knows she is loved and validated and is so free and so comfortable in the company of her father’s work colleague that she just exhibited pure joy, a joy I never had with my father and had to cultivate later in life outside of family affirmation. And I was astounded and taken aback, because who his daughter is is because of the environment he has created for her, a girl I see myself in, and my heart just broke and leapt in the same moment of so wanting to crawl into his lap and also reside in that space. And the trip home – well I couldn’t make sense of the feelings of being around him and his daughter had brought out in me, and it sent me down a road of looking at things from my childhood I never have, and in not just the situation with his daughter but my entire time with him shined a mirror on healing I didn’t even know I needed to do. Oh, and yes, from the moment I met him I loved his spirit, there was something about him that made me feel at home. So yeah, no plans for this to go anywhere right now, we are now across the country from each other, but just had a hit over the head with a brick soul mate encounter again, and my life has been enriched and changed forever in just meeting this man.

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Joshua Tilghman July 25, 2014 at 10:27 am

Love this article and the quote by Elizabeth. I have a quote on my own website by Cathy Thorne stating:

“Myth: Your soul will bring you bliss. Fact: Your soul mate will bring up all your unresolved issues.”

Soul mates are best for our growth.

Jennifer valencia August 16, 2014 at 3:41 pm

is Mr CB born 090179 my soulmate he is a virgo

Evelyn August 16, 2014 at 3:44 pm

I briefly dated someone in my early 20’s who I fell in love with. Unfortunately, he was not ready for me or whatI had to offer. A few years later I settled, married and had two wonderful children. I’ve been married for 25 years. This week, that someone, finds me a professes to me that I was the fish that got away, he has never married, had several long relationships but as he said was never lonely only alone. We started to talk on line, and it feels as if it was just yesterday when I saw him, we did have a wonderful friendship 25 years ago …could he be my soulmate or am I just infatuated with what was? He is saying all the things I wanted to hear from him many years ago. I have told him I can only be his friend but can’t help but wonder if I’m pushing my soulmate away.

aurora September 12, 2014 at 2:32 am

I had married a guy at 16 and we were so bad for each other that i became depressed. We split when i was 17. My sister had a wedding 6 weeks after me and him split. June 17 2012. I met my soulmate. He was 31. I saw him and went to him and started talking. I am usually shy but i said a couple sentences. A voice litteraly told me he was the one dont let him get away. I wasnt looking to date but i listened to the voice. I asked if he had a fb. I left and was gonna add him but i knew he would add me. I didnt know his name yet nor who he was. The next morning i awoke and he had added me. We chatted and hung that night. Yes he thought i was young but he also saw i had been married and had a child.. I felt i loved him at first sight.. I was his first love. He was my 2nd but this love was stronger. He changed from a woman to woman man to a one woman man. We have been dating from june 19 2012 and continue to this day. We have to be in seperate homes due to custody issues though. We have 5 beautiful kids. 2 together but he counts my first marriage child as his. He has been a better father by far. I lost temp custody obly because im legally married to my ex. But he has wronged my son in many ways. Im considered an adultress though. Anyway im hoping i stay with this guy forever. He is a pure gentleman and our love is strong. I never had this great of a feeling for anyone. He may be up in age but it feels so right. Yes we have had our share of fights and hurt but we come back.. I think he is my karma and regular soulmate. He is truly amazinf.

aurora September 12, 2014 at 2:39 am

My ex wronged my son. Not my dont wanna confuse people.

Butterfly September 23, 2014 at 11:51 am

I’ve been searching for a place to get out what I’ve been going through as it weighs heavy on my mind every day. Earlier this summer I was chatting with a good friend on FB and it came to light how he REALLY feels about me and has felt this way since the day we met for the first time which has been about 10 years now. Thinking back, I do remember when our eyes met that I felt something too, but being shy and lacking self confidence at the time, I never thought for a minute that he would be attracted to me. We have both been married over 20 years. He is a little older. As we talked more and more we come to realized how much we have in common on many levels; interests, music, art, philosophy, humor. When we are together we are totally relaxed and at ease with each other and have shared very personal things in our lives, coming to find out that many things we’ve gone through are also extremely similar. We’ve told each other I love you and I truly do and know he does too. We both have said that no one has ever made us feel this way. It is intense and like someone said, I feel electricity throughout my body whenever I think of him, hear his voice, see his picture, etc. But when we are alone, in the presence of each other, all that goes away and it’s just a peaceful calm, like letting go of a deep breath you’ve been holding for a long time. It’s not a sex thing although I know that would be good too. He likes staring into my eyes, not the creepy way. He is supportive, giving, a gentleman, romantic, wise and he tells me I’m beautiful and perfect just the way I am (I have a physical disability). He dedicated the song ‘Just the Way You Are’ to me. I had never heard it before. Because of him I have come out of a darkness that I didn’t even know I was in. I have been unhappy in my marriage for about 10 years, but I never knew how unhappy I was. I smile more, I am more outgoing, exploring new interests, I’ve even lost weight without really trying. When I look into the mirror my eyes glow with an intensity like they never have before. I’ve had many people make comments about my appearance and people are much more receptive and open towards me. I don’t feel shy anymore about striking up a conversation with a stranger and I really don’t care anymore what anyone thinks of me. I try to pay it forward all the support and love that he has instilled in me to others I feel need a little TLC. I’m almost 50 and I’ve NEVER been like this. Don’t get me wrong, my husband is a great guy, never has abused me, isn’t a drinker or anything, it’s just that we’ve grown so far apart over this time (and I’ve told him when I’ve felt unhappy, unappreciated, alone for 10 years) that I feel I’ve outgrown him and not sure I could ever feel that love again that a wife should feel for her husband. I do love him, but he’s become so much like a friend. He was devastated when he found out how I feel about this other person, who he also knows. And I would have been too, but what did he expect? BUT, I WASN’T looking, it just happened. I’ve never gone out looking. This other person even had a talk with my husband telling him what he should be doing to keep me by his side. That’s how caring my friend is. And I was there and heard the conversation so I know it happened. And my husband is really trying, but why did it take the threat of me leaving for him to make the effort now when I’ve been forthcoming letting him know over the years when I was unhappy? This other person and I were making serious plans to leave our spouses and make a life together. When I thought about giving up our new house and leaving the area, something I said I would NEVER do, it didn’t bother me, but instead I was very excited about it. He even asked a coworker what he went through for his divorce. My friend too has been unhappy in his marriage and has stated to his spouse when he was feeling neglected. Then she found some of our conversations, emails and snooped on his phone and they had some serious rows. They did a lot of talking and he did a lot of thinking, a lot of crying on the phone with me. He said that he still loves me very much and that he hopes someday we can make a life together, but he has always striven to set an example for his kids (all grown) that you are in it with both feet. It broke my heart. I know he still loves me and wants to be with me and I love him, think about him every day. We still end our conversations saying I love you. This news of his decision is very recent and my emotions are still very raw. I’m am trying to deal with it all and trying to give my husband another chance for us, but right now in my heart, I long to be with my friend. Like he said, if our spouses were assholes this would be so much easier. And I know some of you will say I’m an idiot for believing my friend really does love me, but you didn’t see the struggle he’s gone through with this, the tears he’s shed, his sleepless nights. We live a few short hours apart and phone and internet are the only contact we will have now with intermittent meetings here and there because we both belong to the same club and are on the committee. I agonize in the possibility that we may never have the chance to have a life together and at times wish he never revealed how he feels about me, but then again I wouldn’t trade how he’s made me feel or what he’s done for me for anything. I appreciate constructive criticism, but if you can’t say something nice, please don’t respond to this post.

laula September 24, 2014 at 2:06 pm

I went on a first date with someone I met online 3 days ago, and we ended up talking for 3 hours. It was like I knew him already and we were instantly connected. We ended up making out in the car like a couple of teenagers, but kissing him felt like home and it was so familiar. I just got out of a 4 year relationship, and it never felt this easy. I saw the new guy again yesterday for dinner, and we watched planes land at the airport and cuddled/kissed for 3 hours. I was so comfortable and never had felt this at ease with someone new before. I’m not normally affectionate with people I barely know, but with him I wanted to kiss him everywhere and just be in his arms. It’s easy to see a future with him and it terrifies me. I’ve never experienced this before…is this a soulmate connection or is this just lust?

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Shay-Marie September 28, 2014 at 2:45 am

I’ve read that twin flames are different to soul mate connections. Twin flame or twin soul connections are tumultuous at first and the circumstances surrounding the two are not conducive to a “good” relationship, however one partner may feel overwhelmed and “run”, because the connection is so undeniably strong. I feel like I met my twin flame. I just feel it deep down that we have know each other and he was probably the great love of my life, because when we met, we were both seeing other people and we were friends, but we gravitated towards each other. The attraction we felt was magnetic and our chemistry was electric. I was in a relationship with one of his closest friends and we just started chatting. We became each other’s comfort. The sexual chemistry was so tense that we wanted each other, but we didn’t do anything. My partner found out we were talking and he (my twin flame) chose his friendship over what we had. When I say electric, I mean everyone could feel the “vibes” bouncing off of us. He just stopped talking to me. I haven’t seen him since our last encounter which was 2 months ago. I still think about this man every day. Thoughts of him, dreams about him – it feels as if he’s part of me and now that he isn’t in my life, part of me is missing – a very BIG part. In the past I used to think about him and he would text me at that very moment. He was like the male version of me, like a mirror image. The last time I saw him, we spent hours and hours talking in his car. We kissed and touched (nothing sexual, it was more sensual) and he stared into my eyes and I felt it. It was the most difficult feeling in the world. An intense love that I’ve never felt and probably won’t feel it with anyone, because I’ve never felt it before. I know we’re supposed to be, but it is tearing me apart inside. I have been living my life, but I feel in my heart we will meet again. I just know. He feels it too, but he’s terrified, naturally. We didn’t ask for this.

Karyn October 1, 2014 at 9:54 am

I have to tell my story to anyone that will hear it. It’s been about six years now since I met him. I was actually dating a guy who I am now engaged to. He brought me to one of his friends rehearsals for their wedding that he was a part of. I saw this guy at the church and felt this spark, this gut wrenching feeling. I can still feel it six years later. Anyhow, I didn’t get to new him at the church because the rehearsal was short but we all moved onto dinner. It was laid back bar/grill type an I was sitting next to my boyfriend and some of the other guests and his name was Mike finally met my eye and we stared at each other which felt like eternity and we smiled. But my bf hadnt introduced us yet but all through dinner we could not stop staring at each other . It was the most intense thing I’ve ever felt. I know him, I knew him and I think I loved him. Finally we moved into the bar area where I had the chance to actually meet this guy who I know I’ve met before maybe not in this life but in another. My bf introduced him as “carp” but he grabbed my hand and said “mike” and when we touched hands. Everybody else faded away. I mean everything. It was just the two of us. I knew I needed him in my life, I wanted him in my life, I had to have him in my life. We ended up going home not too long after meeting him bc the wedding was the next day. I could not wait until the wedding bc I could see him once again. At the wedding I sat with a few of the girls. I looked for him and finally saw him but he was an usher. Moving on to wedding night, the wedding party went in the limo and I was asked my Mike(my soulmate) to join all the rest of the friends to Applebee’s to have drinks while we wait for them to have pictures. I of course accepted and could not wait. I sat next to Mike and god, I’ve never wanted to touch someone so badly. Not like sexually but like just be around him. And I knew he felt it too. He asked if I wanted to drive back with him but the girl I rode with said thats not a good idea, I feel like she knew we had something else and I did have a boyfriend. So I rode with her to the wedding. I still regret not riding with him to this day. We gotto the wedding and one of the older dads was trying to have him talk to another girl and I was encouraging it too even though that obviously was the LAST thing I wanted. And he even said no, I’m not like that. Well I had not eaten very much that day and drank and started holding Mikes hand and hugging him and he was not stopping me. My bf saw but he was drinking too and just said I was young. But anyways Mike kept asking me for my number and I wanted to give it to him but I didn’t bc I was with my bf and I kept saying I shouldn’t but I knew I needed too. Then I got pulled away from him and the night ended. The next day my BF ran down to grab our clothes from the car bc we didn’t grab them. Well fast forward to next day Mike was not from around us he was states away and I did everything I could to find his number, to find him. It was hard bc I was dating someone he knew and all friends were his friends. But no luck. I even wrote a letter to the same guy in Florida and just prayed it was him. It wasn’t. A few months later, I finally got into my bfs phone to grab his friends number so I could secretly text or call and ask for Mikes number but the next day we were out fishing and my bf told me that Mike had just died in a house fire that night. It took so much from me not to cry right then. Then I find out that that day after the wedding Mike put his number on my windshield of my car and my bf saw it and just crumbled it and tossed it on the ground. My bf said he didn’t think much of what was in the letter bc it was cold out and knew it shouldn’t be on my car. My bf told me all of his friends new Mike wa trying to talk to me. I think our connection was so big and bright everyone could see it. I regret everything about that night except not getting his number. I kick myself six years later for not gettig his number. I should have done everything. But I lost my true soul mate. I know it. I still get into his obituary and read it from time to time. Thinking of what could have been. So it’s been six years and I just had a baby with my fiancé who was my bf at the time and my son was born May 26th 2014 which is the day that Mike my soulmate died, May 26th, 2009. I find it to be comforting and eerie all at the same time. Who knows maybe he was supposed to be in my life one way or another. I’m hoping my next life I marry him. This might sound like not that big of a deal but when I met Mike, my heart skipped beats, my legs bent at the knee my life felt whole even though I didn’t know him. At the time I had been with my bf about four months and of course I love my bf but we have a different connection. The connection with Mike is indescribable an i never was able to live and love it out.

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Nancy October 22, 2014 at 3:49 pm

I can’t say whether this guy was my soulmate or not. But at almost 36 now I have never before nor after felt the way I did with him, as short a time span as it was. We met on my 32nd birthday (a Halloween party) and I was impressively drunk but can’t forget just looking across the patio and seeing him there watching me. It was a disaster before it even started as he was 11 years younger than me. (I look under 25 miraculously but also probably the root of my problems). We exchanged numbers and made it clear in our messages that we would just be for fun. Then we made plans to meet up again and I panicked thinking it was a bad idea but once again my eyes roamed the room and just slammed into his. It was like that every time we met, we were often in a crowded space and I was always ‘aware’ of him and whenever my eyes met his everything and everyone else disappeared. My sister tells me she’s never seen or experienced anything like it. She says we were like two magnets pulling towards each other. Like magic. And it felt like that, every stare, every touch, every kiss made me feel timeless. He ended it, which was the right thing to do, he was only 21 after all. And it’s been 4 years now, almost, but I still come to tears easily if I think about him too deeply. I can still close my eyes and picture him exactly. It’s so stupid, we barely had 4 months if that and it was not supposed to be more than a fling. But I can’t shake his memory loose no matter who I meet or how hard I try. Only thing worse than never finding your soulmate (which I had thought before my 32nd birthday) is perhaps meeting and losing him.

dreamingpassion October 28, 2014 at 3:13 pm

WOWOWO , all these stories make me think sooo much about my situation/experience , mine is a little bit the same , but mine the initial was her voice, and the way she got to my phone was that the first time we talked was related to work and like hundreds of calls I made before, but this call was different , she and I immediately connected so I found out afterwards, she wasn’t supposed to be there at that moment , she’s the head of her company and she never answers phone, but that day she did and that’s how she got to talk to me , and that’s just the beginning , in my life a lot of spiritual/soul /alternative situations have happened , but this connection was different , I somehow felt deep in my soul and heart , this woman was special, well we started talking and discussing the reason I called for of course all very professionally, and to be honest I thought she had a cute voice and something about it made me think that, but as I was at work I never had a second thought about it , so we hung up and I continued with my calls, weeks passed and I had a list to call companies , and apparently she had 2 companies and out of a list of 5000 companies and we were a team 6 , I was given the list were her second company appeared , so like every other day I made my calls and came upon her number , called like normal , and started following my script , hadn’t recognized it was her at first , but she did recognized my voice and every time she talked more and more I realized it was her , so this time she tells me that it’s amazing how we got to talked again , in fact I forgot to say this list was given to someone else and that person, resigned that day and their list was given to me, in fact that project was terminated the next day and no more calls made to continue, so more and more I realize that this meeting was not a coincidence but deeper than that and after reading all these stories I’m convinced more and more that we are soul mates , and this is just the beginning , we continued talking and everything we shared with each other was like we each were living each other’s life’s , her likes, her wishes, her values, her desires, her passions, and I can go on and on ,but to keep this short so throughout our talk I told her about my ultimate passion which was seeing the fall foliage , up in the mountains I’ve had this desire/ dream for the last 8 years , and for one or other reason hadn’t had the chance to go , but this time I felt deep inside I was able to do it ,
Well it happened all the ducks laid in arrow everything started to work, my job gave me the day off, the savings were there for the trip and I had her schedule in place also to go with me, and to be honest with you the planning was amazing when I physically met her I had the same reaction as a lot of the people on here
All the same feelings, the trip was amazing it was like we’ve know each other forever and we both felt soo comfortable with each other, every little thing she did felt just perfect , lately it’s been a little bit less sometimes I’m a afraid that its ending , and as far as her I’m not sure ,she’s been a little bit , not as affectionate to me as I thought , maybe I’m the one who had those feelings and maybe she doesn’t feel the same way as me, I’m getting all kinds of uncertainties and doubts we also have came to the conclusion that our favorite numbers are also sooo alike , we finish each other’s sentences and soo many other things that I can go on for days, but every moment more and more I’m feeling that our meeting and what we have it was not a coincidence , a lot of things with each other’s lives but, sometimes I have a fear that’s it’s all in my head, because I’ve never met anyone sooo special, humanistic, loving, thoughtful, smart, cute , etc. also we are the same age, in conclusion I’ve only known this woman for 3 months and I don’t want to make things worse or ruined the possibilities that she can be my soul mate. I totally believe we all have one. Any how to finally conclude Its incredible how I came upon your site, just out a query, it was an error query on Google and started reading and found this article, I don’t know why I’m sharing this, maybe because I want the universe to listen to this via my writing, or just let it out of my system I’m just soooo lost with this. Maybe from somebody reading this can give me some advice or suggestion of how to go about with this relationship, thank you for reading and wish everyone the best in finding their soul mates.

Martin Scott November 26, 2014 at 8:35 pm

Hey my name is Paul although Paul is really not my name i wish i can tell you my really name but i don’t think it will be wise to do that. I have a big happy family my wife with my two boys. They are my all and all in this world. My miserable life would have be over a long time ago if not for them and my wife is the most, let me just say that she is wonderful. Like very marriage we always had our own problems she wanted me to be always around her and the kids but i work at the embassy. It so hard to avoid coming home late and living very early first thing in the morning i though she understood that. Quitting was not an option cos i love what i do and more over my pay is really beautiful. To an extent i lead my marriage into the problem we found ourselves i should have tried harder i should have not assumed that all was well when all indication showed that they weren’t. Honestly i owe my happiness and improved marriage life to Metod Acamu a spell caster that help get my wife back cos she was on the verge of leaving for another guy a fashion photographer. Now that i am thinking of it, she left me for the guy she was with him for months before metodo helped me with the spell that brought her back to me and my boys. I use to think money makes every woman stay but no she in are awesome nature proved me wrong. All she wanted was to be loved just as how she loved me and i failed. All those while i was at work all day long, she felt too lonely that she fell into the arms of the photographer. Her mind was made up she wanted a new life with the guy she was sure he would give to her all i could not give her. Every thing happened all of a sudden that i didn’t get a chance to try and fight for her she just left. I was glad she left my boys with me and was not going to war for custody of them at least it was way too early for that. For months i thought that i could leave without her as long as my boys were with me but we missed her mostly me. I never needed anybody the way i was in need of my wife to return back to me. We still talked during our short separation but each time i bring about us as a topic she always find an excuse to end everything. Honestly i don’t know if she was mad at me or she was no longer in love with me anymore. As scared as i was to loss her, i took a step to contact Metodo Acamu to help me get her back. I first heard about him on the internet there were quite a number of comment about him on blogs and even on Facebook so he just seemed like the perfect person to help me out with my problem at that moment in time and just as i thought , he was the right person. You may not all agree with my method but when you really desperate you can go to any length to get what you want. That was pretty much were i stood at that point in time. Metodo was wonder with me, he promised he was going to help me get her back and he did just that for me he was candid with me. He made it clear to me that he does not charge for anything he only need the materials he listed for me to get to enable him get the spell done and also told me it was almost going to be impossible for me to get the materials. Like he said the materials are not that way to force us to pay anything there are just want is needed and also you can bring the materials to his temple yourself or get the materials ever you are and mail them down to him or like me give him he money to get them which i promise you is less expensive and more stress free. All this happened few months back but now, my family is back together and we are happy just as we were before. You can also read all other comment on the internet about and how Metodo Has helped a lot of people. This was not written to make you contact him by force it just to share with whoever cares to read how i got back together with my wife and family but if you must contact him use this email { metodoacamufortressx at yahoo dot com } use this email in the standard email form. I kept it this way to enable comment here

Pat December 3, 2014 at 4:55 am

Bare with me this is a long one, I should however be saying something to her right about now instead of this, but I’m to scared to, I can’t believe it myself.

So in collage, in class, first class we had, I was in my seat, there as like 6 others there we were all on separate tables, so four chairs to a table. She then walks in like a ray of light!!! First time I see her and yes I did see a ray of light!! Was around 17. She looks around the class and she walked over to my table and sat down. At this point I was so shy and could not beileve this girl sat here…so we talked a little and I could tell she knew I was shy so she never pushed me further. Like she understood me somewhat.

Anyway I oftan saw her around college talking to other guys, or them talking to her, she was stunning. I ol way walked by thinking to myself ‘I want to get to know her more’ but so does everyone else, chances are I’m out of her league. So I never.

So the following collage year, she was nowhere to be seen. So now she is someone I once sort of knew.

Years later, while at work, there she was!!! In the other department working away with the same uniform as I. I actually hide from her thinking she might remember me. She was married I had discovered.

Later that year she transferee to my department To work. There she was the girl of my dreams right opposite me.

So I said to her I know you, she said do you? I said no worries. So I was upset that she denied knowing me. But what can ya do. Anyway, she then said fromwhere ? I said collage we did a project together, she started thinking and asked if I knew the tutors name to which I did…

We got along after that, so much to a poit she asked me out to dinner…I could not go as she is married! I told here bring the husband…she said he will get in the way?! Your husband will get in The way of what??? I was clueless and neive at the time.

So we started going out, as friends. It was great, I never looked at her as a potential girlfriend as she was married so I was just myself around her.

Slowly slowly she wanted to keep seeing me, I was trying to put her of the idea always as I could not no longer resit myself and my feeling for her. Let’s just say when I first kissed her, I never knew till this day what I felt, it littrally felt like the wart had moved for me. Like damn !!!

We were so bonded connected I just knew she was the one but I could not ever tell her this. It was wrong.

So we were in and of for two years, then hubby found out right mess ended. We always found a way back to each other. There was a time I wanted to die as I was not with her. Weird but true like the other half is missing what not.

Any way, 6 years later…no contact apart me rambling to her Facebook from time to time. To no response.

Now, had a response! 🙂 it as juts ‘what do you want? She was am angry soul 🙂

I just told here !!!!! Heard nothing probalbt shocked her!

Now she wanted to meet I could not make it I had cold feet, blew it. I set up a meeting…after, I canceled then said I’ll do it. We never met. Now she probably thinks I’m wasteing her time, I don’t know what to say.

I had a sign other day, like god was tellin me to call her and to go be with her, I evan think I know what she was wearing that day (a maxi skirt) not sure how true, but I freaked out. Did not contact her. Thre days later I have not slept, I feel her here with me??? Like she is here…or this fuzziness etc sometimes my eyes light up from inside and a tear falls. But it is not my tear?? I don’t get it

I want to see her so bad but I don’t think she will see me, I know her very well and her me but it kills me that if I ask her to meet again then she rejects me or worse still just says nothing

It hurts so my but if I don’t ask I will needs know, it’s like 50/50 and I’m finding it hard to use my heart or my head

Frankie December 6, 2014 at 8:17 pm

I was with my soulmate for exactly 2 years.
I remember the day like it was yesterday.
He was younger but he seemed to be more mentally older.
We met in the summer of 2012 and didnt reconnect till Oct 2012.
After that we were inseparable, I was going through a relationship break up and he was there all the time, comforting, shoulder to cry on etc. We were complete opposites but that didnt matter. People looked at us and thought he is not strong enough to be the man you seek or the age difference between us. The judging of us. We fought and about it or I did and he still remained and still wanted to be with me no matter what. I would push him away, would tell him to go find the woman of his dreams. He would return back to me every time. I wanted to be with him as much as he wanted to be with me. It was like we were constantly going through lessons and we always ended up in each others arms and it was bliss every single time. Like nothing in the world mattered.
I lost him in a tragic car accident a month ago.
How do I get him back. How do I reconnect with my soulmate??

des'ree January 10, 2015 at 7:40 pm

Wel it started one night at work it was so very cold i was doing my round rovering when he this young stud i have met. but hardly spoken to til this knight. he held me so close I can hear his heart beat . but we were both feeling warm as he held me I urged to kiss him I resisted. soon he and I and another associate were so cold we’ve found a warm spot to huddle with conversations then she left to her designation where we try staying warm. I found this little room and paved it down with Styrofoam where helaid down and ask me to join i did only cause i was freezing. he rolled me on top of him then he persistently acknowledge he wanted to kiss me I resisted for a while the five to stay back started to make me hot . so he grab me dragging and pulling me in I gave in as we stared in each eyes we’re looking control soon he starts to undress me looking into my eyes still holding my hands in heat of passion he pulls out a condom puts it into my hands i said no no no i don’t know how he puts it on and ravishing my 40 years old body we went for a while til being called back to our original posted stations. and it didn’t stop there it went on again at work.and the next day after that .I feel strongly for him because it felt like big daddy and Des’reehave met somewhere and the past life thing i wish his parents understood our souls. we’re just making up for long time missing in actions hope he knows important his his always answer forever. love you big daddy a.k.a c.c.

gena January 18, 2015 at 2:52 am

I met this guy my third year in college. I was at work and it was as if I felt him walk into the room. I felt a chill over y body and then I looked up from the computer I was working at only to see this beautiful young man looking right at me. I immediately looked away because i had never felt a sensation like this before. It was indescribable what I felt when our eyes connected. he proceeded to the other end of the room and took a seat but turned his chair to face me. I could feel him just staring at me so I looked at him, he looked away all the while my heart was fluttering. we alternated looks for about half an hour before he approached me. I looked up from my desk and our eyes connected we azed into each others eyes for what seemed like an eternity and it felt like time had stopped and there was no one in that moment in that room but the two of us. I eventually snapped out of it and I think he forgot what he was about to say because he stammered a little and then asked for a pen. With anyone else I could have easily started a conversation but not with him it was as if the connection or unspoken emotions between the two of us were so strong they left me paralyzed. Also Although we were both students at my university and same age I could not act because he was a client in our program I could not act on these intense feeling because it was against policy. So we exchanged longing looks for about a year eventually we began a friendly banter but we were prohibited from acting on our mutual attraction. But I know this was not just some crush. I would often have dreams of him right before I would see him on campus or at work and yes we attended the same college but our school housed over 70,000 students the probability of running into one another outside of work was pretty low the fact that it happened after I dreamed of our interactions was surreal. There were things that I would discover and fall in love with like songs,poems and quotes and I wouldn’t tell a soul only to discover he loved those same things without me mentioning anything to him. It was as if he was me in male form. As we approached college graduation we began to make more overt moves toward one another after all we were graduating and had nothing to lose. Id be leaving to law school and he would be leaving to pursue medical school. On graduation night we both attended the same party our eyes met across the dance floor and I walked over to the side. he followed and came to talk to me. We stepped outside and talked until the end of the party. Our conversation flowed so easily as if we had known each other a lifetime. We ended the night with an electrifying kiss. When his lips touched mine my body became warm all over and I just wanted to be absorbed into him. Yet wI met this guy my third year in college. I was at work and it was as if I felt him walk into the room. I felt a chill over y body and then I looked up from the computer I was working at only to see this beautiful young man looking right at me. I immediately looked away because i had never felt a sensation like this before. It was indescribable what I felt when our eyes connected. he proceeded to the other end of the room and took a seat but turned his chair to face me. I could feel him just staring at me so I looked at him, he looked away all the while my heart was fluttering. we alternated looks for about half an hour before he approached me. I looked up from my desk and our eyes connected we azed into each others eyes for what seemed like an eternity and it felt like time had stopped and there was no one in that moment in that room but the two of us. I eventually snapped out of it and I think he forgot what he was about to say because he stammered a little and then asked for a pen. With anyone else I could have easily started a conversation but not with him it was as if the connection or unspoken emotions between the two of us were so strong they left me paralyzed. Also Although we were both students at my university and same age I could not act because he was a client in our program I could not act on these intense feeling because it was against policy. So we exchanged longing looks for about a year eventually we began a friendly banter but we were prohibited from acting on our mutual attraction. But I know this was not just some crush. I would often have dreams of him right before I would see him on campus or at work and yes we attended the same college but our school housed over 70,000 students the probability of running into one another outside of work was pretty low the fact that it happened after I dreamed of our interactions was surreal. There were things that I would discover and fall in love with like songs,poems and quotes and I wouldn’t tell a soul only to discover he loved those same things without me mentioning anything to him. It was as if he was me in male form. As we approached college graduation we began to make more overt moves toward one another after all we were graduating and had nothing to lose. Id be leaving to law school and he would be leaving to pursue medical school. On graduation night we both attended the same party our eyes met across the dance floor and I walked over to the side. he followed and came to talk to me. We stepped outside and talked until the end of the party. Our conversation flowed so easily as if we had known each other a lifetime. We ended the night with an electrifying kiss. When his lips touched mine my body became warm all over and I just wanted to be absorbed into him. Yet I felt as though whatever this was I was not ready for as if I was not complete enough for this type of connect so after that night I pulled away. he would call/text and I would only sometime respond/answer. now I am at law school and hes at med school but i feel empty as if there is a void in my life that needs to be filled. There is like a part of me missing and i constantly think of him. I really believe that he was my twin flame but now we are oceans apart.

Kristy Ann January 21, 2015 at 7:22 am

He is a gay in his talks and actions but he never admitted he is. A friend of mine and 10 years younger. Just last night i was thinking that if he would wear purple the following day then he must have a connection with me. I told other friends that i saw my crush wearing same color i wore prior to meeting him.
And to my surprise, he wore purple and had told me that we have the same color for the day.

Is it a mere coincidence or my message had travelled and we matched.

i can”t believe it!!!


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