Empaths in the workplace

Empaths in the workplace

by Lindsay on May 19, 2011

in Empath, Environment

Personal energy shields come in handy...

If you’re an empath and work in an environment with other people, then this article is for you! For some background as to what an empath is, read these articles:

Are you an empath?

I’m an empath…so now what?


Now that we’ve established you’re an empath (or know one), let’s get down to business. Being an empath isn’t easy, particularly when we don’t know how to or just are not caring for ourselves and taking measures to make sure we are getting alone time, having time to decompress and resting.

Empaths have the ability not only to feel their own emotions, but to also pick up on the emotions of others. This can lead to incredible internal struggles as we absorb other people’s emotional baggage. We have the uncanny ability to know when someone is lying, which definitely comes in handy. But we also have the ability to detect & absorb anger, sadness, nervousness and misery without ever asking for it. This can be so overwhelming, particularly in the workplace where many of us spend 8 hours or more a day in the same environment with no real escape.

Being surrounded with stressed, anxious, angry, competitive or depressed co-workers can easily send empaths in a tailspin. Especially in cubicle-type environments. Some side effects you may experience include fatigue, periods of anger (and knowing it’s not your own) and depression. And sadly, feeling powerless in all of it.

So, how do we deal with this? What can an empath do to avoid the constant barrage of other people’s emotions and baggage when they can’t escape the workplace?

My friend Lisa over at Practically Intuitive is gearing up to launch a course for empaths. Lisa says the course will be a blend of information, action steps and 2 Q&A calls so people can ask questions and get some coaching. She might even thrown a video in the mix! Make sure you go sign up for her email list to stay in the know as to when the course begins and what tools she’ll be sharing with us on how to turn down the “thermostat on empathy”.

Recommended read

Rose Rosetree’s book “Become The Most Important Person in the Room: Your 30-Day Plan for Empath Empowerment” is a fantastic resource if you’re looking for something a little more in-depth than this article. Rose’s distinctive method of Empath Empowerment (TM) has been life-changing for many and offers a practical approach to dealing with everything life throws your way as an empath.

PS – I’m making an announcement about something exciting coming up on The Daily Awe next week, so stay tuned!

If you’re an empath, how do you deal with workplace stresses and environment “toxins”? Share your tips here!

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Julie May 19, 2011 at 11:08 am

All good things to know! I am not working in cublicle land anymore but I can 100% identify with all of the things you just listed as what used to happen to me every day.

Lindsay May 19, 2011 at 1:49 pm

It's reaching epic proportions of painful for me and I cannot wait to escape it! I wonder if there is only so much we empaths can take before we just throw our hands up and just leave cubicle-land for good.

Laura May 19, 2011 at 1:50 pm

Hi Lindsay,

I can so relate! It has taken many years to understand that the many emotions I would feel during the workday were not my own. I just thought it was me having emotional swings and that was just the way it was. Once I realized and understood which feelings and thoughts were really my own, other people’s “stuff” bothers me so much less.

After feeling a particular emotion, such as anxiety or anger, I now find a quiet moment, and ask myself, “Is this really what I am feeling right now?” More often than not, what I was feeling was someone else’s emotions. Doing this has really helped separate things in my mind and made me realize that I really do not have those huge emotional swings that I always thought I did.

Lindsay May 19, 2011 at 1:52 pm

Knowing that I don't "own" these emotions IS freeing, I totally agree Laura! It's still quite difficult. I'm finding it exhausting to protect myself 8 hours a day/5 days a week. That in and of itself feels like a part-time job sometimes! I always make sure I leave for an hour at lunchtime unless I'm absolutely swamped and can't. Getting some fresh air always seems to help, too.

Turns out we're not just moody, unstable people – we're just picking up on the emotions of so many other people that it just feels that way until we understand what's going on!

Maria Cosby May 19, 2011 at 2:18 pm

Hi Lindsay. 🙂

I’m certain people believe me to be moody, but with age I’ve been able to conceal my workplace emotions which are typically all over the place. People are generally confused by me. It’s ok though, I’m used to it. That, in combination of being an air sign: Libra…I’m totally screwed. LOL!!

Lindsay May 19, 2011 at 2:20 pm

I thought I did a good job of concealing my workplace moodiness, but apparently not! How do you do it, Maria? Teach me your wise Libra ways! 😉

Maria Cosby May 19, 2011 at 3:03 pm

Well, maybe I don’t conceal it as well as I thought. I just try not to get too far off the rails. If I stick with some basic work principals I do ok. Like, no sharing of emotions. State my business and move on. The less I talk about it, the less energy the emotions have. I think that’s why I’m so uber, over the top positive…to lighten the people around me. The really bad part is…I get migraines from other people’s stress. Oye, it sucks.

Lindsay May 19, 2011 at 8:29 pm

That's sort of "Law of Attraction"-like, in the sense that the more we focus on something, the more of it we bring into our lives! So you're absolutely right that the less you talk about the negative stuff, the less energy those emotions have. It's not the same as ignoring them & burying them deep. It's just acknowledging them & shaking them off. Some days, that is easier than others!

Tama May 19, 2011 at 8:16 pm

I can absolutely identify with everything said here. I too was and am today labeled “over-sensitive” and “intense”. I much prefer the word Empath! It was suggested to me to get an obsidian stone to wear or carry with me at all times. With the energy and vibration strengthening to huge proportions at this time on our planet, the intensity of our feelings and emotions will increase as well…I have been noticing this in myself over the last several months. It is really hard! and sometimes I find myself floating outside of myself so I don’t have to feel all the intensity. Hope that does not sound too strange….

Lindsay May 19, 2011 at 8:30 pm

Oh, Tama. Nothing is "strange" on this blog. It all makes sense to me! I agree with you that the energy and vibrations have been wildly intense lately. I could use some "floating outside of myself" every once in a while! Is that something you do consciously, or it just happens?

Tama May 20, 2011 at 2:04 am

I was the emotional carrier of my family in this life time (and not to mention the cellular dna memory of past lives we have to deal with)….so to answer your question…it was both consciously (to avoid the pain that I took/take on from the suffering around me today) and unconsciously (habit from past lives). I look at it as a positive…I am awakening to my purpose. That is what this “shift” and “intesified energy” is all about…a new awakening….so I am try to remind myself to hand on and enjoy the ride! and to stay grounded and integrated. We are meant to feel thiese feelings….

Tama May 20, 2011 at 2:19 am

p.s. I googled healthy vulnerability and got your website! I signed up because I loved your insight on the topic; however, I think having the gift of Empathy is an oxymoron to healthy vulnerability…there needs to be a balance of not having on a shield of amour versus letting people in…where is the gray?

Lindsay May 20, 2011 at 6:21 pm

Where is the gray…that is a VERY good question, Tama. I think I'd like to write about that! What are your thoughts? There is absolutely a healthy balance, and it's achievable. But how?

Lisa at Practically Intuitive May 20, 2011 at 6:49 am

Lindsay,

Thank you for the shout out! I have been having a lot of people come to me with these issues and that’s one of the reasons I thought I’d gather some good, practical information together as well as those all-important action steps to assist others into moving through this.

It really CAN be turned into a skill you master and use when you want to – not the other way around. It does take a bit of focus but the results can be life-changing. One of my sweet clients thought it was her service to others to walk around wide open. Bless her (and I mean that in only the nicest way) but she was in so much pain she couldn’t stand it. Once I showed her how to shift that, her life really has taken a turn for the better. She did the work, though. It doesn’t happen overnight or automatically.

Great work on educating others about it so they know they have a choice.

Much love to you. 🙂

Lindsay May 20, 2011 at 6:23 pm

Oh your sweet client! That is really the mark of an empath/lightworker, isn't it? Someone who feels like it's her duty to be wide open for others like that. I'm really looking forward to your course. I would not consider myself an expert on how to manage this by any means, particularly in the workplace. In fact, I'm good at having healthy boundaries & all of that in virtually every area of my life, but the workplace really drags me down. Love right back to you, lady! 🙂

Angela Artemis/Poweredbyintuition May 23, 2011 at 12:45 pm

Hi Linday,

I’m not an empath. I intuit other people’s emotions but I don’t feel them, per say, but I can definitely relate to this article. I’ve been keeping my psychic/intuitive skills under wraps for 25 years at work and it gets harder and harder each year. You can’t live your entire life that way – it ends up cutting you into pieces!

I do think the course that Lisa’s preparing sound wonderful and I can’t wait until you unveil yours!

All my best,

Angela

Angela Artemis/Poweredbyintuition May 23, 2011 at 12:45 pm

Hi Lindsay,

I’m not an empath. I intuit other people’s emotions but I don’t feel them, per say, but I can definitely relate to this article. I’ve been keeping my psychic/intuitive skills under wraps for 25 years at work and it gets harder and harder each year. You can’t live your entire life that way – it ends up cutting you into pieces!

I do think the course that Lisa’s preparing sound wonderful and I can’t wait until you unveil yours!

All my best,

Angela

Lindsay May 24, 2011 at 1:13 pm

I\’m so proud of you for coming out of the psychic closet even more, Angela! One thing I\’m learning about following our soul purpose is that we can try to squelch it, but that nagging feeling to DO it never goes away!

Kimberlee May 24, 2011 at 12:43 pm

Cubicle? What’s that? I’d hyperventilate if anybody tried to put me back in such an environment. When I look at a cube or corporate office of any kind it’s symbolic of walls closing in on my spirit, freedom, & creativity!

Lindsay, thank you for spreading such great awareness to those still situated in such an environment. Just being able to talk about it and recognize it as difficult is freeing! Wish I knew you back when I was “cubed” :).

Love to you.

Kimberlee

Lindsay May 24, 2011 at 1:14 pm

I’m responding to this from my depressing, window-less “cube”. I feel absolutely crushed…but not for long! People like you are my inspiration for getting out of this type of environment for good!

Evelyn Lim May 24, 2011 at 8:47 pm

I am an empath and have to learn to protect myself. I use personal energy shields if I need to go to crowded places or if I suspect that I would be going into an environment that has toxic energy. In fact, I wrote about how to create one on my site sometime ago.

Thanks for creating more awareness about empaths as I am also discovering that not many realize that they are one and are suffering from depletion of energy.

Lindsay May 25, 2011 at 5:11 pm

Another empath! Welcome, Evelyn. 🙂 By the way…your name is my absolute favorite and if I ever have a daughter, I intend to name her Evelyn!

Kenya May 29, 2011 at 10:46 am

This topic peaked my interest since I am very empathic! I have learned how to appreciate this gift even though in the beginning it was a great challenge knowing what was going on. Thank you for spreading the knowledge 😉

Lindsay May 29, 2011 at 11:47 am

I love meeting other empaths and I am so grateful for the internet bringing so many of us together! I like the sound of your site's domain – gonna go check it out!

Alyse November 17, 2011 at 9:04 am

I am a massage therapist and empath. I use my 6th sense, if you will, as another tool in my healing sessions. I occasionally have a client who’s strong emotions or pain effect me to the point of tears or even taking on their exact pain temporarily. I do try to protect myself as much as I can, but would be very interested in learning anymore tips.

I love your blog, thank you!

Lindsay November 17, 2011 at 11:48 am

Hi Alyse,

Feel free to send me an email and I can fire off some tips for you to help. People who do bodywork (like massage therapists!) have to put in extra time to protect & ground yourselves, because it is so very easy to pick up on other people’s energies and “crap” in your work. And I’m glad you enjoy the blog! 🙂

Teacher December 31, 2011 at 3:13 pm

Hi,

I recently connected with an old friend of mine. In the years that we lost contact he became a Reiki healer. He told me that he always thought I was an empath and now he’s certain of it. I did some research and I’m pretty certain about it.

I’m a high school teacher! I am exhausted at the end of the day and I never could understand how my coworkers can go for drinks afterwards and run all sorts of errands. For me all I can do is either sit on the couch and vegg out on tv or go to the gym. Thats all I’m capable of doing after work. I can’t interact anymore. I’ve always known I have an “interaction limit” and that I need to be alone in order to go back down to zero.

Being in an overcroweded school we don’t have our own classrooms so instead us teachers have spaces where we have our desks. And in the space with my desk are 8 other teachers. Now I don’t mind their company but I always get into arguments with them when they bring students into our work space. Teenagers are energetically exhausting. I realized a few years ago the only way I can survive as a teacher is to make sure that during the day on my periods off I can find time away from the students. On the days that I tutor on my off periods I literally have bags under my eyes and I can barely walk some days.

And when I get into these arguments with my coworkers about the students being in my work space, I’m always thinking “Don’t you need some frigging time away from them just to get through the day??” And whats interesting is I love my students. I have really wonderful connections with them, so it isn’t that I can’t stand them or that they annoy me. I’m just tired. So tired.

I actually realized that I can’t be a teacher forever because I worry about when I have my own children. I know I won’t have enough energy to teach and be a mother. So right now I’m looking for other career options that are still in education but where I can work with less students. Because right now I teach with a minimum of 160 students each day, that doesn’t count interactions in the hallway with past students, and my coworkers.

I could never understand how something I find so rewarding and that I enjoy so much could be so draining. Now that I understand that I’m an empath. My daily struggles at work make so much sense.

Teacher December 31, 2011 at 3:21 pm

I’m sorry I just wanted to clarify something:

When my coworkers bring students into our workspace I have realized just them being in the room exhausts me! Even when they’re quietly doing work and being nice and respectful.

I just couldn’t understand it. And then I feel like the uber-bitch constantly complaining to get these kids outta here!!! This is the #1 source of friction between myself and my coworkers. Otherwise we really enjoy each others company and get along really well.

Lindsay January 1, 2012 at 3:24 pm

Hey there Teacher,

SO many teachers have written to me in the past and complained of the same things. Of course, all of these people are empaths, too. 🙂 I hear you on needing to come home from work and just rest, rest, rest. Working with young people & children is even more draining! Oh my…

Well, it’s fantastic that your friend is a Reiki Practitioner – make sure you get regular Reiki treatments to keep your energy levels balanced and make sure you get plenty of alone & relaxation time. You are not alone!

Dylan June 25, 2012 at 12:50 am

Okay…this has me a little scared right now.

I always thought that if we asked the right questions, we’ll certainly get the answers we seek and perhaps I did stumble upon your website for good reason. I have been soul searching and trying to make changes in my life after having gone through surgery last month to remove a tumor. (which thankfully is non malignant)

Anyway…reading this has me floored.

Yes, I am from cubicle land and I ALWAYS am affected by people’s energies. When the coworker behind me is angry, I feel agitated and annoyed and this happens a lot because there are quite a few ‘angry people’ around my desk and it drives me crazy. Yes, there is the energy drain, fatigue and what have yous that go with it and I find myself ‘avoiding’ contact because I cannot deal with people who have such a thick cloud of negativity hanging over their heads!

As I was growing up, I’ve been told that I am ‘too sensitive’ and that I should ‘change’ – well, it’s been over 20 years and my ‘senses’ have not dulled at all.

Today is the first time I’ve ever encountered the word ’empath’ but it’s making a lot of sense to me. The only thing I can say right now is wow.

Lindsay June 25, 2012 at 8:05 pm

Hi Dylan,

I only had a couple spare minutes today to check out your blog but so far I love it! I’m a lesbian too – not sure if that was obvious from the tiny pic I have on here. 😉

Sounds like you’re an empath! I really wish I worked in an office full of empaths – my office life would be a whole lot more quiet/peaceful/understanding.

Happy reading about empaths! I’m sure you’ll find more and more information that resonates with you. I hope you’ll stick around here, too! Lots of empaths comment here and/or participate in the Facebook discussions!

Paula June 26, 2012 at 8:41 am

Hi Lindsay, Dylan

I just wanted to tell you that I go through it everyday, I work with such angry people, it is a family business and they are always at odds, so I get it and Lindsay would that just be heaven to work with empaths what a job that would be! We would be happy to go to work everyday! I know I gush but I am so happy and relieved to have so many empaths to talk to!!! Lindsay you are a God send. I weep with joy, and these are my emotions for once! lol Talk with you all soon.

Love and Blessings
Paula

Dylan Lin Calista June 26, 2012 at 9:04 pm

Hi Paula 🙂

It must be hard for you – I know what it’s like. How do you manage though? There’s a section on this website about ‘protection’ from negative energies. I just recently found out about it.

It’s nice to be able to communicate with other empaths because I’ve always felt ‘weird’ since everyone always used to tell me that I am ‘too sensitive’ and too this and too that and blah blah.

My Dad has anger management issues and I am currently living with my family so it’s a bit of a challenge. He wakes up and within 30 mins, he usually has something to grumble about. He’s a nice guy, he’s just angry a lot, lol. I avoid him during mornings because I find that when I’m around him in his moods, my entire day gets screwed. I get irritable and drained.

I hope all is well with you and you’re able to ward off the bad energy, too.

Cheers!

Dylan Lin Calista June 26, 2012 at 8:59 pm

Hey Lindsay!

Thank you for stopping by my site 🙂 I hope to see you there more often! I’m glad you liked it.

I wasn’t sure if you were a lesbian, too, because while I did read a mention about your ‘partner’, some folks actually use the term in reference to their significant other whether in homosexual/ straight couples. I just didn’t want to assume 🙂

I have been working from home for a few months because of my illness and I find it a lot more ‘peaceful’. I sure would like to be able to make a living working from home permanently. I don’t mind working in teams but sometimes when there are ‘really angry people’ or ‘negative people’ around, they suck the life out of me. I always used to say : ‘He screwed my Zen.’ — (Hot tempered fellow I work with.)

I would LOVE to work with a group of empaths. I think it would be a very peaceful experience to say the least 😀

I’m enjoying your site very much and I have it on my bookmarks. I’ll definitely be spending more time here and I look forward to new posts 🙂

Cheers.

Kim September 15, 2012 at 2:28 pm

We can turn the fear into love!!! Rejoice!

I have a question. Instead of trying to turn away from our empathic natures, what would happen if we began to embrace them in all their glory? I sense that these attempts to turn down the level of your empathic nature comes out of fear- the fear of being different and the fear of pain. I say, do not be afraid of yourself and your power. You are a being of light sent here to serve an amazing purpose! If we learned how to process these gifts in ourselves, instead of repressing them, I think it could be a very powerful tool for changing ourselves, the world and others who are in pain. I know it can be overwhelming and scary to have these qualities, believe me. I have been absorbing other people’s anger my whole life and am just now waking up to how it has been causing me physical illness and depression. Upon realizing this and working with a healer, I feel called to recognize this as a gift and to share it with others rather than deny this core aspect of my being. We all are so blessed to have these abilities, even though they may manifest as suffering sometimes. It is our calling to embrace them, step into our divine purposes and help heal this planet and transmute the pain into love, the destruction into creation. This does not have to be a painful process for us either, it can be one of great joy and happiness with the right techniques. We have the power, the trick will be to recognize, accept and practice how to use it for the highest good. It is time to stop trying to fit into a “normal” mold and start living the truth of yourself and your experience. Who knows, it could bring you blessings beyond your wildest dreams.

Here’s to love!

Kimberly

Lindsay September 17, 2012 at 10:00 am

Thanks, Kimberly! I definitely see being an empath as a gift. We are so lucky to be able to FEEL what others are feeling and learn from that, grow and enhance our relationships and professional life. Thank you so much for sharing your story and perspective!

Jahnavi November 22, 2012 at 7:54 am

Dear Lindsey, I need your help with something important. I have empathic sense and whenever i am around people, i can actually feel their energies which obviously drains me completely out. I am seventeen years old and have exams in a couple of months. Whenever i am in class with people around, i feel so distracted all the time and agitated and can’t understand a thing as a result of which my grades have been suffering dramatically. When i am at home, everybodys tension for my future makes me so worried that i cant focus. I really need to work hard but i cant with all the emotions running so high. Now that i know there is someone who would understand me, i am eager to get the solution of my long standing problems. To top it all off, i have depression that keeps me from winning as it is. I am tired of battling with myslf because it completely drains me out and makes me incapable of meeting my schedule. Please help! I could really use it right now! How should i curb it so that i can focus on my work unhindered by others’s thoughts!

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It means you hzve accepted him/her completely and share a certain level oof maturity betweeen each
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long time and understand each other. References Alfred,
D. Botth marriages as wwell as live-in arrangements have their own pros and cons,
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Befoore taking the plunge in to the single world again, care to ask yourself on my behalf- Are you really going to be happy beng without someone you love, not for a few months, for the rest of your
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The fact that they are actually focusing on opposites is good for you for a
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Buy food stuffs and clothes aat the mall, travel to the national
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Life gets in the way with tthe business of making a living, taking care of
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doomed to failure. You know you have chemistry
with another peraon when your knees start shaking everytime you are near her, you
begin to stammer, your stomacxh feels like a haven for butterflies and
you get alll sweaty all the time. Or ddid you find a lacy red g-string under his bed, and shortly after realised that it didn’t belong to you?
Be open to new ideas annd never contradict.

Needless to say, fighting prevents real communication. Please note that this approach often does noot work
for couples that have diufferent savings annd spending habits.
Women don’t mind dumping dishonest men. However, in most cases, it’s a telltale sign of the loss of
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Whenever you are angry or unhappy with a particular person, you automatically start ignoring him.
This is not an opportunity to unload all the upsets you have
not been holding in. You also decide, and promise each other that you will not be like other couples; you will not commit the same mistakes,
annd rather strive to maintain a healthy relationship.
If this is so, you need to contemplate on such feelings.

Foor instance if you ere a nice guy she may have started
dating a someone tgat acts a little more like a bad boy.
This can drive not juswt carrying out issues, butt troubles with the entire relationship.
Marriage is something you cann decide later, if you oth arre willing too take the plunge
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She is like a female friend hat every guy should have in his life.
The partners demand loyalty and fidelity from each other.
What are rulerships? Menn tend to imagine huge gestures are needed, but
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This is as good ass it can get. Have you ever wondererd wha made the first ijpression for
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The downside of being an adult is that you hzve to eal with more stress,
which causes negative emotions that can slowly
deteriorate a relationship. Since, just like a happy-ending, theee is a story behind
every tragic-ending, it may hace been prompted by one or
more reasons which created incompatibility between them and became intolerable for one or
both. Marriages are crucikal too for prooviding a safe place supervised
by adults where the children can grow up into adults in a nurturing atmosphere.

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